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When do you switch sides?

blovemamablovemama member
in August 2015 Moms
How do you know when to switch boobs when nursing? My baby never seems to fully empty my breasts. When he pops off, I can still manually express milk. So if it isn't when he finishes one, when do I swap? Is it even necessary if one boob can fill him completely?
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    KimberlylenaKimberlylena member
    I've been doing 1 side per feeding. I used to offer LO the other side, but she never took.
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    visualcircusvisualcircus member
    I do a timed feed of 15 minutes before switching sides, and after switching sides do 15-20 more minutes. I start the feeding on the side he finished on the last time. 

    I went to a lactation help group where they weighed the baby before and after feeding for each breast, and told me the amount he was taking in for the feeding. I found he was content for 2-3 hours vs eating more often than that once I swapped to feeding from both sides aiming for at least a 30 minute feed. If what you've been doing is working for you.. no reason to mess with a good thing. :) 
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    candicejeff2013candicejeff2013 member
    edited September 2015
    @visualcircus you found he was more content eating from both sides? Or for just 30 min total?

    Just curious because my LO is rarely satiated for that long unless sleeping.
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    KateDerekKateDerek member
    I usually feed her for 10 minutes on one side and if she pops off and isn't interested or falls asleep then I sometimes will not offer the other side. Other times I do to make sure she has a really good amount and can go the full three or so hours in between feedings, or if my other boob feels fuller and I want her to empty it a little. I think I can always express milk from it so I don't go by that, I go by whatever she wants. We are at 7 weeks now and I am more comfortable doing just one breast now and following her cues, but for the first month or so I tried to offer both breasts and wake her a bit to do so, since I wanted to make sure she was getting the most she could and was fully satisfied (especially in the middle of the night). I would say about 60-70% of the time she takes both and the rest only one.
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    babymcmacbabymcmac member
    I feed till she falls a sleep or losses interest then I'll switch to the other.
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    SonadoraSonadora member
    We are having nursing issues now (He refuses to nurse :( ) but prior to that when he was doing great, I took him off after 15 minutes and put him on the other side or switched him when he popped off, which ever came first, unless he was still actively nursing on the first side, in which case I would leave him until he was just nibbling rather than actively nursing.
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    visualcircusvisualcircus member
    @candicejeff2013 When I got him weighed at 1 week old, he took 1.5 oz from one breast at 15 min, and 0.5 oz for the second (it was about 10 minutes before he fell asleep)- I'm not sure if one side would have produced the amount to keep him satiated since 2oz was what he needed for his age. I really try my best to give 30 minutes (15 minutes each side) so he's full, and found he's content for longer stretches during the day. 

    I plan on going back at a month to weigh his feeds- it's so hard to tell what they are taking in with sleepy newborns! If you have the lactation support groups offered, I highly recommend them.
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    J&D2007J&D2007 member
    I do 15-20 mins per side, but occasionally more if he's actively eating. LO never unlatches so its hard for me to determine when to switch or be done.
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    amk013amk013 member
    I do one side per feeding. I always offer the other side when he finishes, but he rarely wants more milk when he pops off of the first side. I like it that way because I don't stress over him not getting enough hindmilk.
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    deviduke412deviduke412 member
    I switch sides whenever he is finished eating on the one side. If I cannot hear him swallowing anymore then I know he's finished. I also keep him awake while he's eating so I know that he's getting a full feeding and is really done. He usually eats about 9 to 10 minutes per side.
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    princesslocknessprincesslockness member
    My LO only eats one side per feeding. The LCs I've seen said unless he is fussy to just end the feeding when he is done with the one side.


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    melissajuelichmelissajuelich member
    What works for us is, I feed one side for about 15 minutes which is when she starts to doze off, then I change her nappy then offer the other side she tends to doze off when she is finished
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