I've read several things about breast feeding that give some advice specifically for larger breasted women (types of holds, potential latch issues, nursing pillow types) but they never specify how big you have to be to fit in this category. In my head I am not a large breasted woman (I wore a AA until my mod-twenties) but with weight gain and age I was a 38C before pregnancy, and am now a 40D. Does this put me in the large breasted category for these things? Obviously I know everyone will be a little different, I'm just looking for general guidance from moms who have been here before. Thanks!
Re: How big is big in the boob department?
I don't know what is considered "large" that you're referring to either, but I consider myself average. I think it doesn't matter what size you are, engorgement is going to be painful to some degree. As far as nursing itself goes, it will be trial and error to find a holding position and support level that works for you and LO. Definitely make sure to read up on BFing beforehand, or take a class so you can learn about some of the holds before you have a newborn in your arms. The LC in your birth center will come visit and may offer suggestions/advice. That's a great time to ask questions too.
I guess moral of the story is I agree with PP. Read up on breastfeeding and take some classes, to prepare and educate yourself. But ultimately until your milk comes in and you know how late your breasts are going to be while you breastfeed in proportion to the rest of your body, there's really no way of knowing what will and won't work for you and LO. Don't worry about it, you'll find your fit as long as you go with the flow and talk to LCs if you run into any trouble.
I'm decidedly large breasted, especially since I'm only 5'1" and football hold wasn't for me. I liked having the baby in my lap. Every woman is different and I'm sure it is may be different with each child I have as well.
Good luck.
I ask my obgyn she said that I may find it easier to go bra less around the house and feed laying on my side
Then when I have to go out I use bottles I've prepared earlier
@nanamp, I'm sure it doesn't always, but from a couple of different things I've been reading it can be harder to see if the baby is latched correctly because your boobs are in the way (my interpretation of what things have said anyways) and certain ways of holding the baby can be more difficult than for a smaller chested woman, just because of the angle and distance from your body. I've also heard different breastfeeding support pillows work better for larger breasts - some just don't get the baby in the right spot on a larger boob.
I'm probably overthinking this whole thing, I've just seen it mentioned in a few places now and wanted to feel like I had as much info as I could get!
But when I read the topic, my answer was "something a lot bigger than my boobs!" So I certainly don't know from experience. If anyone has difficulty with this, an experienced busty friend or family member or a lactation consultant can probably give great advice.