TTC after 35

Stepping out of the lurking shadows

PiperellaPiperella member
edited September 2015 in TTC after 35
Hi there!  I am Laura and live in Va.  I've been married twice and my infertility issues (PCOS) was a factor to my first marriage ending.  I've been married for almost six years now to my supportive DH who happens to be 10 years younger than me (hope that doesn't disqualify me from this group).  We have put off having children as late as I felt comfortable with, and I even had gastric sleeve surgery to help my desire to have children.  I lost over 100 lbs, and am over a year and a half out from my surgery, which is the optimal waiting time given by my surgeon.

All my bloodwork levels are looking great this time around, but my PCOS is still affecting me in that I am not ovulating and missing periods still.  So many women can have weight loss surgery and "oops surprise" end up pregnant.  DH and I have tried since before we were married (well not on purpose all that time.. but we have not prevented either).  I just went through my 1st IUI last week and am in the dreaded 2ww.  I'm experiencing the clomid crazies this month and am ready to get off this rollercoaster.  

Trying to stay positive through it all, and I mostly hang out in the infertility boards, but I'm definitely feeling at home here as well.  I've lurked for a long time and wanted to say hello to you all. *waves*

Re: Stepping out of the lurking shadows

  • Welcome!
    Me: 37, DH: 44
    TTC #1 since September 2014
    Canada




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  • Hi and good luck to you!
    Me: 40  DH: 43
    Married 5/30/15
    TTC #1 June 2015
    BFP #1 9/28/15, EDD 6/10/16. DS born 5/23/16!
    TTC #2 May 2017
    BFP #2 m/c 11/18/17 5w5d
    BFP #3 12/17/17 EDD 8/25/18. It's a boy!
  • Welcome to the board and good luck!!
    *** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
  • welcome!! I am occasionally on the infertility board, but haven't been active over there lately. 
    Me (42) w/ partner for 16+ years
    TTC #1: 11/2012 - 9/2013; 6/2014 - present
    Follistim + TI (3x): All BFNs
    Follistim + IUI (1x): BFN 
    IVF #1: 17 retrieved,15 fertilized, Day 3: 15, Day 5/6: 3 biopsied
    Result; 1 frozen blast (inconclusive PGS results)
    IVF #2; ER: 6/22 16 retrieved, 6/25: 5 transferred (CP), 2 frozen
    FET 9/17: BFN
    Current FET -- Transferred 2 day-3 embryos - BFN

  • Welcome to the board!
    Anniversary
  • Welcome!
    ****Loss Mentioned***
    Me: 41 Him: 41
    TTC since December 2013
    HSG 9/18/14 = Tubes open but T shaped uterus
    IUI #1... 1/6/2015 + 50mg Clomid = BFN
    IUI #2... 1/29 & 30/2015 + 50mg Clomid +Tigger +Progesterone = BFN
    3/14 BFFP! Natural w/acupuncture & herbs only
    EDD = 11/22/15;  No heartbeat = 7/21/15
    Cooper Midnight Johnson born sleeping 7/25/2015



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  • Welcome!! I love your profile pic!!!
    ME: 36 (PCOS), DH: excellent SA
    NTNP since 11/12, actively trying since 8/14
    m/c @ 7w (4/22/14), m/c @ 6w (11/19/14)
    11/15: Letrozole, Ovidrel, TI = BFP!!!
    Beta #1(14dpo)=349, Beta #2(18dpo)=2,805
    12/17/15: Got to see the heartbeat (105bpm)!
    1/25/16: NT scan = normal (HB=163bpm)
    EDD: 8/10/16 
    8/8/16: Baby boy born @ 12:25am, 8lbs, 20.5 inches
    5/18/17: BFP!!! (11dpo)
    Beta #1(12dpo)=176.4, Beta #2(15dpo)=607.1
  • Thank you everyone for the warm welcome!
    @jilligan14 - Thank you!  I took the picture when I was in the queue for Peter Pan's Flight at WDW. It's very "golden bookish" which I love.
  • Welcome to the board, and wishing you much luck and success!
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  • @piperella my man is 8.5 years younger than me ;)
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  • Mine is only 3 weeks younger than me, but boy does he love those three weeks.  He loves being a "year" younger than me for that brief time and teases me relentlessly.
    TTC#1 since Jan 2015
    BFP 2/19/15  •  MMC found at 9 wks  •  D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
    BFP 8/29/15
      •  CP (age 37)
    BFP 11/18/15  •  DD born at 41 weeks <3(age 37/38)

    TTC#2 since May 2017
    BFP 10/18/17  •  MMC found at 8 wks  •  Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)

    BFP 2/16/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 4/13/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 5/07/18  •  MMC found at 10.5 wks  •  D&E at 11.5 wks 
    •  Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
    9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)

    RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.

    BFP 9/24/18  • 
    CP (age 40)
    BFP 5/11/19  •  Fraternal twins  •  MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w)  •  Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)













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