This is my first pregnancy and I'm at the point where some decisions on prenatal testing need to be made. We were told about the nuchal translucency scan to check the risk of down syndrome. I don't want to get this test because I have a family member who had this testing done, she was told she was at risk, she ended up having further testing, being told she's even more at risk. It ruined her whole pregnancy, then she gave birth to a beautiful and completely healthy baby boy. I don't want to go through that, but at the same time I'd like to know that I'm not at risk. My husband wants every test available, because he wants to know everything, but I've managed to convince him otherwise. But we went to our first appointment with the Dr. yesterday and he almost made me feel bad about my decision. I'm having a bit of anxiety, and I'm not really sure what my decision is now. I do know that I need to make up my mind very soon. Any advice?
Re: Looking for some advice on getting the NT scan...
I can only share my experience with you. I had an NT Scan on my first pregnancy and we were told that our baby was going to have issues. We spoke with a genetic counselor (which I would highly recommend if you decide to move forward with testing). They gave us pros and cons of moving forward with a CVS which is ultimately what we decided to do because we wanted to know. We had the test completed and we were told the baby was perfectly healthy. CVS are fairly accurate I think 99.5% or more, so yes there is always a chance. Now we went on to have a 20 week scan and there were markers that indicated the baby would have down syndrome there, but because we had the CVS, that was not true. From what I know and I am not an expert, the NT Scan and the 20 week scans are not diagnostic tests. They just look for the baby to measure within certain ranges and to not exhibit certain markers. If for some reason there is indicators, then doctors will recommend further testing, like a CVS or Amniocentesis, which are optional. There are risks for miscarriage for CVS or Amino. I don't regret doing the CVS because it gave me some piece of mind, but in the end I was still worried and did not have the reassurance I needed until she was out and we could see her.
We are now pregnant with number 2 and we will do an NT Scan, but we are much more educated going in this time. Additionally if we don't like the results, they do have blood tests that can offer further screening. And if we have to we will do another CVS, but we are opting to do less invasive if possible.
Ultimately there is nothing that is 100% reassuring (in my opinion) and you have to do whats best for you and your family. We know a lot of people that never do the testing because they just don't want to know and they would never consider terminating a pregnancy. Do whats best for you guys. Good Luck!
It's a boy! Grow baby, grow! EDD: 4/22/2016
It's a boy! Grow baby, grow! EDD: 4/22/2016
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Just to be clear, I would not terminate at all, no matter what the test results are.
I also want to point out that there are fates worse than death. You may reconsider your position if you found out your baby was suffering in the womb or would suffer greatly after being born and then die a painful death. I'm just saying that I can't say what I would or wouldn't do unless I was in that position and considered all the facts.
2010: Infertility
October 2015: missed miscarriage #2 at 11 weeks (trisomy 22)
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Other people are happier not knowing, and I can respect that.
Miscarriage 3/15 at 10 weeks
BFP 7/23/15 EDD 4/3/16
BFP 8.14.15 ~~ Due 4.22.16