After this one, we'll re-evaluate it. DH and I always talked about just having this one, but sometimes I think about having two of my own because 3 sounds "well-rounded" to me. I actually keep asking DH what he'll do if, when we do (hopefully) end up conceiving, it's twins. He just kinda gives me the stink eye and says we'll deal with whatever happens. He has his moments where he'll be like "well... it would be nice to have two more..." We'll see how this one goes, though!
In a perfect world, how many kids would you like? I always wanted 5 before I was 30. We struggled to have our 1 boy by the time I was 31
Do you and SO agree on your number? No! He has always said 2. I thought we would compromise on 3. I think if staying pregnant, being pregnant, birth and afterwards had of all been a walk in the park he would of changed his mind earlier.
His main reason now though is you can't buy a 'cool' car that would fit 3 kids all in car seats in the back!! )
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Diagnosed Jan 2016 as having been infertile due to scarring since last MMC. Diagnosed 2016 with Lupus.
Trying for #1. Ideally I would like 2 but H is pretty set on one-and-done.
We'll obviously have to start with just one whatever the case, and I'm no spring chicken so we'll likely end up with just the one, which I'll be happy to get at this point.
I have two boys, we both would love a girl. This is #1 for DH so he really would be happy with boy or girl.I really would be happy too with either, but damn I need some more estrogen in my house
This will be the 1st and last for DH and I.... I think
I can't be the only one who thought this was asking our sexual partner numbers can I?! ) When I saw the thread name I was like wow what a saucy GTKY question )
What number LO are you TTC? 1
In a perfect world, how many kids would you like? 2, used to be 4 back in the day but the older I've gotten I've decided that I don't want to be outnumbered lol
Do you and SO agree on your number? Yes! We have actually even discussed being one and done. We would really like to remain financially stable and I want to be able to take fun family trips at least once a year without going into crazy amounts of debt! I guess we will just have to see after we have #1 if we are feeling like we want a 2nd
In a perfect world, how many kids would you like? 4
Do you and SO agree on your number? Nope. He would prefer 2 close in age, but I can't see myself not having 3. Like @PrimRoseMama, I also secretly hoping TTC#3 is twins, so I would win. However, I think it will be 3 in the end for us, so I will also win.
I opened this thread expecting to see questions about my phone number and SS number!
Me too... Especially after age/location thread got me all paranoid already.
I was thinking more the number of people you had slept with. Would have been a very different thread lol
That was definitely my first thought on reading this title. I thought, wow this board is getting sassy! Lol. Would definitely be a whole different tone to the conversation.
We are currently ttc #2. In a perfect world we would both like 4 but in reality we will probably stop after 2 so we can afford to give them as much opportunity in life as possible. We have one boy and haven't decided what we will do if #2 is a boy as well and whether we'll try one more time for a girl. I know three families with three boys though so that idea makes me a bit nervous.
we are ttc #1 and would like 3 dh and I agree on this. However, lately all I can think is that if I can even have one it will be a miracle and I would be more than happy just to have one little miracle baby.
We are TTC #1. In a perfect word 2 would be great (boy then girl) but just healthy at this point. DH would like 2 but wants to see how the first one goes. His Dad is a twin so we also have that thought that we could get a single then double on the second time around.
I want 4; he wants 3. There are 3 of them but I have a thing about evenness/balance so ideally we'd have 2 of each. Even better would be boy girl twins this time around!
In a perfect world, how many kids would you like? 4 to 6 I am the oldest of 8 the youngest being 3 and the next oldest being 18. DH dad was one of 8 so we both want a large family. We would like to adopt at least one child l.
Do you and SO agree on your number? He wants 6-8. I told him lets get to four and reevaluate. My GOAL is to pop them out every two years. Might as well get all the sleep deprivation over with at once! Now if only we could get to the first one.
Re: GTKY: What's you number?
We'll see how this one goes, though!
Me: 30 | DH: 34 | DSS: 14 | DS: 4
PG #2, EDD 10/12/2023
That's exactly what I thought!! I guess you and I have dirty minds @Butlertron!
Baby #2 Due 3/7/20
In a perfect world, how many kids would you like? I always wanted 5 before I was 30. We struggled to have our 1 boy by the time I was 31
Do you and SO agree on your number? No! He has always said 2. I thought we would compromise on 3. I think if staying pregnant, being pregnant, birth and afterwards had of all been a walk in the park he would of changed his mind earlier.
His main reason now though is you can't buy a 'cool' car that would fit 3 kids all in car seats in the back!!
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My Chart ::::: My Blog
Married since July 2008
MC Nov 2011 || MMC Jan 2013 || MC Jun 2013 || Baby Boy April 2014 || MMC Dec 2014 || MMC Apr 2015
Diagnosed 2016 with Lupus.
Trying for #1. Ideally I would like 2 but H is pretty set on one-and-done.
We'll obviously have to start with just one whatever the case, and I'm no spring chicken so we'll likely end up with just the one, which I'll be happy to get at this point.
TTC #3
I have two boys, we both would love a girl. This is #1 for DH so he really would be happy with boy or girl.I really would be happy too with either, but damn I need some more estrogen in my house
This will be the 1st and last for DH and I.... I think
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What number LO are you TTC? 1
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In a perfect world how many kids would you have? 3. 2 girls and a boy like mine and my dad's family.
Does DH agree? Nope. He wants 2 max but would be happy with 1.
In a perfect world, how many kids would you like? 4 kids would be great. Unless I have to have another c-section then we will stop at 2 or 3.
Do you and SO agree on your number? DH is up for anything. He would be happy with no more or lots more.
That was definitely my first thought on reading this title. I thought, wow this board is getting sassy! Lol. Would definitely be a whole different tone to the conversation.
In a perfect world, how many kids would you like? 3
Do you and SO agree on your number? Yes
I want 4; he wants 3. There are 3 of them but I have a thing about evenness/balance so ideally we'd have 2 of each. Even better would be boy girl twins this time around!
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In a perfect world, how many kids would you like?
4 to 6 I am the oldest of 8 the youngest being 3 and the next oldest being 18. DH dad was one of 8 so we both want a large family. We would like to adopt at least one child l.
Do you and SO agree on your number? He wants 6-8. I told him lets get to four and reevaluate. My GOAL is to pop them out every two years. Might as well get all the sleep deprivation over with at once! Now if only we could get to the first one.