Community› The Bump Month Clubs› April 2016 Moms
April 2016 Moms
New Discussion

Boy or girl??

nbabanbaba member
in April 2016 Moms
i heard there's a RAMZI method that can guess the gender as early as 6 weeks. Just for fun, any guesses?
Report Reply to Post

Re: Boy or girl??

  • Snoflakes4evaSnoflakes4eva member
    nbaba said:
    i heard there's a RAMZI method that can guess the gender as early as 6 weeks. Just for fun, any guesses?
    Just no. This might be a fun little game for your family but not for internet strangers. Its a baby, congrats. 

    Please note that sex=/= gender and there is a search function. Please find and utilize it. 
    BabyFruit Ticker


    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Report Reply
  • Loading the player...
  • nbabanbaba member
    edited September 2015

    Why even bother responding with your negative opinion? Next time keep it to yourself. If you don't like internet strangers I suggest you get off the internet and this community. It's really as simple as that. Bye Felicia!
    Report Reply
  • misstopsailmisstopsail member
    It's a minion, congrats!
    Report Reply
  • AmadorRoseAmadorRose member
    edited September 2015
    There is a very long thread devoted to ultrasounds and several *accidental* ultrasound threads. You were just told very politely that your ultrasound doesn't warrant its own thread, there is no reason to attack the person who made you aware of this. Lurk before you post or it will get MUCH more rude very quickly, especially when you respond so defensively.
    Also, we are all having ultrasounds. Some of us just don't feel like shoving photos in the faces of strangers. Congratulations on a healthy pregnancy, I hope it continues to progress normally. If you can't handle opinions that aren't exactly in line with yours, perhaps the Internet is not the place for you. Bye, Felicia!
    Edit: words are hard
    Report Reply
  • nbabanbaba member
    edited September 2015
    Removed for TOU violation
    Report Reply
  • RoseShadow873RoseShadow873 member
    Who is Felicia?
    Report Reply
  • AmadorRoseAmadorRose member
    @RoseShadow873 - it's a figurative saying, essentially telling someone to go away. If you were joking, I totally admire the snark.
    Report Reply
  • misstopsailmisstopsail member
    Yikes. If you'd been here for a day, you'd realize the ramazi method is unpopular. So A) you knew and asked anyway, hoping to cause drama or b) you didn't bother to read the pinned posts and jumped right in.
    Congratulations on the pregnancy, but nobody but a doctor can tell you whether that's a boy or girl. Spring for the panorama test if you're dying to know now.
    Report Reply
  • nbabanbaba member
    Don't even know why anyone would be rude on a board where people are excited to share news, experiences and questions. Obviously some of you have issues and your hormones are getting the better Of you. I wasn't being offensive or rude when I opened the discussion. I'm part of many pregnancy boards and it's not a strange thing to have some fun guessing genders from US. It's not shoving anything in anyone's face. I'm so confused by this vile reaction.
    Report Reply
  • nbabanbaba member
    edited September 2015
    Why would I cause drama over a baby's gender? Sorry I didn't go read hours worth of posts before posting an innocent question. Geez no womanly support here. I will find out the gender in a couple of weeks, again it was just an innocent question just for fun to see who agrees with me versus my husband. Seriously you guys are way too serious.
    Report Reply
  • RoseShadow873RoseShadow873 member
    It's very easy to make people mad here I have noticed. Scrolling down and reading the topic "bye bye ladies i obviously don't fit in here" might clear up some of your confusion about the reactions.
    Report Reply
  • nbabanbaba member
    It's sad that a few negative nellys try to scare new members away for no reason. I wasn't being rude until Someone was rude to me. I just saw that post and it's hard to see grown woman bully each other especially in the state most of us are in. The other boards I'm on the ladies are friendly and supportive. I don't understand why if I broke some sort of rule it couldn't have been said to me In a nicer manner versus a snarky rude way.
    Report Reply
  • Snoflakes4evaSnoflakes4eva member
    nbaba said:
    Yes you can respond it just makes you pathetic for commenting on something negatively. It's like watching a show you don't enjoy then complaining about it. Guess what? Then stop watching. Obviously negative nelly a like you with a chip on their shoulder makes up the tone of this board. Get a life.
    reported!
    BabyFruit Ticker


    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Report Reply
  • nbabanbaba member
    misstopsail said:

    It's a minion, congrats!

    Totally uncalled for, calling my unborn child a minion?
    Report Reply
  • Snoflakes4evaSnoflakes4eva member
    edited September 2015
    DP
    BabyFruit Ticker


    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Report Reply
  • nbabanbaba member



    reported!

    I'm so afraid lol still stand by my original statement. You bully me I won't stand for it, I will defend myself.
    Report Reply
  • Ready4thePartyReady4theParty member
    No snark intended but you are obviously new and I am guessing since you didn't lurk first, which is highly recommended, you also didn't read the guidelines for the board. Now put yourself in some of the ladies shoes who have been here for over 8 weeks and have seen the same question asked over and over again. I really appreciate the sticky boards and community threads with us photos.

    Honestly, especially with the 8 week us, I have a hard time even telling what is in there let alone deciding what the sex is. The chances of guessing are 50/50.
    image
    Report Reply
  • Snoflakes4evaSnoflakes4eva member
    nbaba said:
    reported! I'm so afraid lol still stand by my original statement. You bully me I won't stand for it, I will defend myself.

    ----

    Again, thats not the way it works. You don't get to defend yourself to the BumpGods. Either you violated the TOU or you didn't. Its pretty simple. (FYI, name calling is against the TOU)
    BabyFruit Ticker


    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Report Reply
  • nbabanbaba member
    Ready4theParty said:

    No snark intended but you are obviously new and I am guessing since you didn't lurk first, which is highly recommended, you also didn't read the guidelines for the board. Now put yourself in some of the ladies shoes who have been here for over 8 weeks and have seen the same question asked over and over again. I really appreciate the sticky boards and community threads with us photos.

    Honestly, especially with the 8 week us, I have a hard time even telling what is in there let alone deciding what the sex is. The chances of guessing are 50/50.

    Thank you for responding politely I appreciate it. Obviously some ladies (I use the term loosely) didn't learn manners growing up. I've been on boards before and you do sometimes see the same questions over and over but I would just ignore them versus responding negatively. Again I appreciate your insight and thanks for doing it in a civilized manner.
    Report Reply
  • ecwkecwk member
    Lurker here. OP I think you need to reevaluate your interpretation of the term 'bullying.'

    August '18 April Siggy Challenge: April Showers





                                                              Lilypie Maternity tickers
                                                                                           

    Pregnancy Ticker
    Report Reply
  • Ready4thePartyReady4theParty member
    Jules08 said:

    I'm calling MUD. This screams of an AE.

    It's starting to look that way. I try to be nice just incase but after being kindly "notified" if the op continues to blast other bumpies I give the side eye.

    image
    Report Reply
  • nbabanbaba member
    Jules08 said:

    I'm calling MUD. This screams of an AE.

    Just a brand new member here not a lurker or an alter ego. Didn't realize posting an US is made up drama. The ladies on some of my other boards do this US gender guessing all the time for fun so I just wanted to try it here. No alter ego or drama other than what was created by the older members who obviously don't like newbies.
    Report Reply
  • Jules08Jules08 member
    edited September 2015
    Actually, you do sound like an AE given your responses.

    If you are a member of other boards then you know to lurk first - so by posting this, you either didn't lurk (unlikely given your posts' wording) or you started this for the drama (most likely).

    If you are a member of other boards, you should agree that a response differing in opinion than yours DOES NOT mean it's negative, rude, or mean yet you jumped all over that bandwagon pretty darn quickly. (ETA: especially after the initial responses were informative/ no snark) So yes, this sounds like MUD/ AE.
    Report Reply
  • bumptarabumptara admin
    This thread has been closed to new posts due to the discussion’s shift to an unwelcoming tone. Creating threads in direct response to this one will be grounds for warning and/or removal from The Bump Community.
    Please note that we remove posts that do not follow our guidelines and will issue warnings to users who violate the Terms of Use.
    To review our Community guidelines, please visit the The Bump Guidelines pinned at the top of this board. Thank you.
    Report Reply
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"