No symptoms what so ever :(

xxluckyjaxs77 · September 2015

I really don't feel pregnant... At all and I'm not 100% sure when I actually conceived as I'm so irregular.. I have a feeling I'm 4 weeks 3 days

yogahh · September 2015

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/bookmark/12619628/ACQCPHQSK0GP

This is asked every. Single. Day. Puhhhleaseee use the search function. It is your friend. I'm sorry but this is getting annoying now.

xxluckyjaxs77 · September 2015

Ok... Excuse me for speaking ;(

kmalls · September 2015

No need to be defensive, @yogahh is just pointing out that there's a search feature (there's an announcement at the top of this page that outlines how to use it). If you're new here, instead of posting straight away, take a while to read some threads, search through various topics and get a feel for our community. Many people have been asked the same question over and over again and it's honestly worth your time to do a quick search -- you can find some really good answers.

xxluckyjaxs77 · September 2015

I am using the phone app I can't see a search function not a very good app tbh I come here for advice I get ignored now I'm being defensive I will just delete app and look else where

lalala2004 · September 2015

xxluckyjaxs77 said:
I am using the phone app I can't see a search function not a very good app tbh I come here for advice I get ignored now I'm being defensive I will just delete app and look else where

QFP

lalala2004 · September 2015

xxluckyjaxs77 said:
I really don't feel pregnant... At all and I'm not 100% sure when I actually conceived as I'm so irregular.. I have a feeling I'm 4 weeks 3 days

QFP

Buninthe0ven815 · September 2015

I had no symptoms at all initially either so if you've gotten a BFP, don't worry, I'm sure you will have symptoms sooner or later. My hips started to ache around the end of week 5 and around the same time, I started to feel totally exhausted all the time. Now that I'm nearing week 7, my breasts ache like crazy. Congratulations and best wishes to you.

jteix1 · September 2015

xxluckyjaxs77 said:
I am using the phone app I can't see a search function not a very good app tbh I come here for advice I get ignored now I'm being defensive I will just delete app and look else where

If you scroll all the way to the bottom you should see the search box there

Congratulations! Also some people are just not nice. I bet if you seen them on the street it would be so different. Good luck!

yogahh · September 2015

There is a sticky at the top of the page with instructions on how to search. The TOU is at the top of the page; one rule of this board is to search before asking a question. It's not difficult. As a very active poster, it tiring and annoying to continue to have the same questions asked daily, especially when there are symptom threads that we should be utilizing, and a whole thread on what symptoms you are not having. Hell, I searched the same thing on Saturday night because I'm going through the same thing. And guess what, there are atleast 1000 posts already on TB. I spent an hour reading past posts. Again, it's not difficult. Especially if you read the TOU before just jumping in.

vinerie · September 2015

I will also echo what PP have said. In addition, it is bad form to simply post threads demanding community members respond and help, when you haven't participated in any discussions "what so ever" -- not even an intro post. Community is a reciprocal concept.

wsgjmw1 · September 2015

lalala2004 said:

I really don't feel pregnant... At all and I'm not 100% sure when I actually conceived as I'm so irregular.. I have a feeling I'm 4 weeks 3 days
QFP

Can someone tell me what QFP means?

BabyVDM · September 2015

Just for fun...

vinerie · September 2015

wsgjmw1 said:

lalala2004 said:

I really don't feel pregnant... At all and I'm not 100% sure when I actually conceived as I'm so irregular.. I have a feeling I'm 4 weeks 3 days
QFP

Can someone tell me what QFP means?

Quoted for Posterity. Some posters like to delete their posts when they don't get the answers they like. QFP-ing makes sure that we won't lose context, and also that others can learn from the thread (and any inherent faux pas) even if the OP DDs it (dirty delete).

lizzyb530 · September 2015

Hello, I'm sorry to see some of the annoyed replies on here. I'm not new to this site but have used my mobile device 100% of the time and never knew I needed to do an intro like @vinerie suggests or that there were links like @yogahh and @kmalls so rudely suggests (I have seen @kmalls do this on other posts as well.) We're all mothers, we've all had the first time fears and I can speak for myself when I say I have wanted to quickly post something for a quick answer before my eyes focus to read rules completely. If ur sick of the repetitive behavior, hey..how about u don't reply?? It's that simple. But @xxluckyjaxs77 please don't worry. Try to think positive and relax as much as possible. This time around, I didn't feel any symptoms until I was 5 weeks and I was the same with my son. Hugs mommy.

kmalls · September 2015

lizzyb530 said:
Hello, I'm sorry to see some of the annoyed replies on here. I'm not new to this site but have used my mobile device 100% of the time and never knew I needed to do an intro like @vinerie suggests or that there were links like @yogahh and @kmalls so rudely suggests (I have seen @kmalls do this on other posts as well.) We're all mothers, we've all had the first time fears and I can speak for myself when I say I have wanted to quickly post something for a quick answer before my eyes focus to read rules completely. If ur sick of the repetitive behavior, hey..how about u don't reply?? It's that simple. But @xxluckyjaxs77 please don't worry. Try to think positive and relax as much as possible. This time around, I didn't feel any symptoms until I was 5 weeks and I was the same with my son. Hugs mommy.

Wait. Why am I being singled out here, @lizzyb530? I gave a polite answer that suggested she use the search feature because there are a lot of good answers out there to her question. How is that rude?

yogahh · September 2015

lizzyb530 said:

Hello, I'm sorry to see some of the annoyed replies on here. I'm not new to this site but have used my mobile device 100% of the time and never knew I needed to do an intro like @vinerie suggests or that there were links like @yogahh and @kmalls so rudely suggests (I have seen @kmalls do this on other posts as well.) We're all mothers, we've all had the first time fears and I can speak for myself when I say I have wanted to quickly post something for a quick answer before my eyes focus to read rules completely. If ur sick of the repetitive behavior, hey..how about u don't reply?? It's that simple. But @xxluckyjaxs77 please don't worry. Try to think positive and relax as much as possible. This time around, I didn't feel any symptoms until I was 5 weeks and I was the same with my son. Hugs mommy.

You might not be new to this site, but you have contributed in only 2 discussions so maybe you don't have a feel for how the community here works. This is a community with rules and guidelines. Those of us that respect the board shouldn't have to bow down to those that don't want to get a feel for the community and how it works. It really is not a hard thing. Read the TOU. Lurk. Form bonds with the other users. Why should those of us that are regs here have to continue to read the same things day in and day out? There are plenty of other forums that you can willy-nilly ask the same question every day. And every day you will get a reply. Honestly, these threads ARE NOT answered because everyone is sick of them, and because there are ways to get the info you need. It is more a waste of time on the posters behalf because they are not going to get the feedback they are looking for. Because I know the guidelines and told her to use a search function doesn't make me rude. It makes her rude for not learning how to use this forum before getting defensive when we told her how to.

vinerie · September 2015

lizzyb530 said:

Hello, I'm sorry to see some of the annoyed replies on here. I'm not new to this site but have used my mobile device 100% of the time and never knew I needed to do an intro like @vinerie suggests or that there were links like @yogahh and @kmalls so rudely suggests (I have seen @kmalls do this on other posts as well.) We're all mothers, we've all had the first time fears and I can speak for myself when I say I have wanted to quickly post something for a quick answer before my eyes focus to read rules completely. If ur sick of the repetitive behavior, hey..how about u don't reply?? It's that simple. But @xxluckyjaxs77 please don't worry. Try to think positive and relax as much as possible. This time around, I didn't feel any symptoms until I was 5 weeks and I was the same with my son. Hugs mommy.

It's really not rocket science. It's as simple as reading the pinned posts, following directions and using common sense. There are a growing number of posts from users who have contributed ZERO comments to any other post and then come on here and ask a question that's been asked a bunch of times already. This board will be more enjoyable if we set some boundaries. For instance, there is a symptom thread where people can go and talk about their symptoms. Doing so frees up the board from a thousand posts in which users describe a symptom and ask if anyone else has experienced the same thing. If the board gets overrun with these issues, it will, quite frankly, become boring, people will stop commenting regularly, the community will not grow, and we all lose.

Bluejay3030 · September 2015

lizzyb530 said:
Hello, I'm sorry to see some of the annoyed replies on here. I'm not new to this site but have used my mobile device 100% of the time and never knew I needed to do an intro like @vinerie suggests or that there were links like @yogahh and @kmalls so rudely suggests (I have seen @kmalls do this on other posts as well.) We're all mothers, we've all had the first time fears and I can speak for myself when I say I have wanted to quickly post something for a quick answer before my eyes focus to read rules completely. If ur sick of the repetitive behavior, hey..how about u don't reply?? It's that simple. But @xxluckyjaxs77 please don't worry. Try to think positive and relax as much as possible. This time around, I didn't feel any symptoms until I was 5 weeks and I was the same with my son. Hugs mommy.

Ok I just read what @kmalls wrote like 3 times and I didn't think it was even remotely rude?!? Honestly, I for one don't mind responding to these posts once in a while as I know we all have a lot of the same concerns and questions, but after I've seen 3 or 4 of the same question in the same day, I get tired of repeating myself and just stop responding. Not because I don't care or sympathize with another new mom, but just because it takes too much time.

OP, since I've been sucked in now, I'll assure you that it's normal not to have symptoms this early on. I was feeling great until after 6 weeks, and now I feel like death all the time. On the other hand, some ladies make it through their entire pregnancies with relatively few symptoms.

PS - I wasn't trying to imply that @yogahh or @vinerie deserved the hate lol, I was just especially confused by the comments at @kmalls.

Bookhousegirl · September 2015

lizzyb530 said:

Hello, I'm sorry to see some of the annoyed replies on here. I'm not new to this site but have used my mobile device 100% of the time and never knew I needed to do an intro like @vinerie suggests or that there were links like @yogahh and @kmalls so rudely suggests (I have seen @kmalls do this on other posts as well.) We're all mothers, we've all had the first time fears and I can speak for myself when I say I have wanted to quickly post something for a quick answer before my eyes focus to read rules completely. If ur sick of the repetitive behavior, hey..how about u don't reply?? It's that simple. But @xxluckyjaxs77 please don't worry. Try to think positive and relax as much as possible. This time around, I didn't feel any symptoms until I was 5 weeks and I was the same with my son. Hugs mommy.

To the bolded: This is what google is for... People take time here to get to know each other and support each other. Someone coming into that community just to ask a question that a simple google search could answer is more rude then someone (who is established in this community and contributes to it regularly) letting the poster know how to effectively utilize the site.

And the reason people don't just ignore it is because posts like these clog up the board and keep the more meaningful posts from being seen and responded to.