WTF Wednesday

toccoaparker · September 2015

What has you ladies saying wtf today?

My WTF goes to the doctor that just told to medical student in the OR that he doesn't measure how far to stop the PIC before he hits the heart he just "wings it". THATS MY DAUGHTER ON THAT TABLE YOU IDIOT! But I can't say this of course because I want him to do a good job and he is highly recommended, still though you know I'm standing here- could've at least lied to put my mind at ease... [-(
(I may be having a wtf week now that I think about it...)

jesselayne8 · September 2015

@toccoaparker oh my geezus if the dr acts like that when you are standing there I can't imagine what he says/does when parents aren't there.

Mine WTF goes to my csection incision. WTF are you opening up. I want to cry. I don't want to take it easy. I want to work out. I don't want to deal with possible infection. I want to be healed. Damnit.

BabyBean815 · September 2015

WTF to myself. I had DS in my boba wrap this morning while I was getting my breakfast. I had a full bag of granola in my hands and dropped it, causing allllll of the granola to fall out all over the floor. I couldn't react quickly because I didn't want to startle the baby. And, it was cocoa chia granola so I couldn't even let the dogs "help" me clean it up. What a fun way to start the day!

Boslove · September 2015

Wtf to my hormones, I don't think it's PPD just having a hard time adjusting to not being with my kids dad. He comes by to visit a few times a wk and I still can't help but get "butterflies". Just ready to be over him. :-L

- not to mention my intuition tells me he has a new GF.

kjandericka · September 2015

Wtf DH. He offered to get the groceries out of the car last night so I could start making dinner, and I guess he got distracted halfway through. I opened the refrigerator this morning to make my morning snack and couldn't find the baby carrots that I bought. After further investigation, I realized that there were a few other things missing. I went outside, popped the trunk and found the missing groceries. Of course, he forgot things that needed refrigeration. Luckily, there wasn't anything nasty (milk, cheese, ice cream) left in the car.

SashaDenn25 · September 2015

Boslove said:
Wtf to my hormones, I don't think it's PPD just having a hard time adjusting to not being with my kids dad. He comes by to visit a few times a wk and I still can't help but get "butterflies". Just ready to be over him. :-L

- not to mention my intuition tells me he has a new GF.

Stay strong momma. *hugs*

CaliforniaDream87 · September 2015

Boslove said:
Wtf to my hormones, I don't think it's PPD just having a hard time adjusting to not being with my kids dad. He comes by to visit a few times a wk and I still can't help but get "butterflies". Just ready to be over him. :-L

- not to mention my intuition tells me he has a new GF.

Ugh I'm sorry. That's hard. There's no working it out? @Boslove?

emmacake08 · September 2015

You all have way bigger gripes than me ::creepy internet hugs::

My dog has fleas thanks to my parent's dogs having the most long lasting untreatable fleas ever. So now I've had to bathe the dog, strip and wash all the beds, and vacuum the whole house. Frankly I barely want to admit it on here, the whole flea thing makes me feel so dirty and like I can't keep a clean house. I can't tell DH because he now hates the dog and wants to get rid of her so I don't want to give him more reasons.

lrichhx05 · September 2015

Wtf everyone who keeps giving me TONS of old baby clothes that aren't wearable. I've gotten many great clothes that I really appreciate but I'm sorry I do not want your old, spit up stained baby clothes!!! I don't mean to be ungrateful but now I have all these clothes she'll never wear that I have get rid of.

CarelessDiva89 · September 2015

Wtf to DS2 who decided he was going to throw crazy tantrums today like I've never seen him do before all because he couldn't have chips for breakfast or carry an egg around the house he managed to get while I was cooking breakfast :-w He is really on one today...

JNOVA2015 · September 2015

WTF my mother, who randomly texted me yesterday to say "you'd better use that blanket I knitted for DS" (which she gave us at my shower in June). "I didn't buy the cheap hobby lobby yarn, it cost like $100." We'd use it no matter what because she made it, but now I feel weird about it and like she'll think I wasn't going to use it but for her telling me what it cost.

I think she's mad that I haven't sent any photos with it, but it's too small to swaddle and too big for DS to hang on to right now. I'm sure he'll use it tons when he's big enough for a blankie! My mom is terrible at gift etiquette.

Boslove · September 2015

@CaliforniaDream87 tnx, I'm not sure he sends very mixed signals. I think he's enjoying this "freedom" it's only been 6months but I feel like I need to decide if I'll wait or just move on.

prpl11butterfly · September 2015

WTF to my smoke alarms that went off at 2am. Why? Because the batteries were dead. Am I the only one who noticed that the damn batteries only die in the middle of the night? Its not like I can do anything to fix the issue at 2am...

kristigirl02 · September 2015

Wtf airconditioner? It's still 100 degrees here in Texas, and now you want to stop working? And wtf ac man who quoted me $8,300 to fix it just because didn't want to bring your a$$ to the country. ~X(

gulimz · September 2015

Wtf it's Wednesday already?!?!? Where is time going?!?

banfrog · September 2015

WTF DS1? You've made so much progress in the past year. Why are you suddenly regressing now? I don't know how to make it anymore clear the importance of staying close to mommy and daddy for your safety.

jess3609 · September 2015

WTF DH.... I complain to you about our cranky, fussy 2.5wk old cuz you are my husband, you are at work and don't have to deal with it and I need to vent to someone...not because I want you to say "try a bottle of formula and see if she acts better". WTF, really? Why would I introduce formula which is harder to digest than breast milk and when I have no breastfeeding issues at all?! Ugh...they just don't get it!

irohspupil · September 2015

WTF brain. I just want to enjoy my time with baby and sleep at night. Stop freaking out and giving me anxiety over thoughts of death. It's part of life and you need to get over it. And of labor. It's done, and now there's this wonderful baby.

And WTF, brain, why are you already wanting to get pregnant again???

toccoaparker · September 2015

micshi said:
WTF brain. I just want to enjoy my time with baby and sleep at night. Stop freaking out and giving me anxiety over thoughts of death. It's part of life and you need to get over it. And of labor. It's done, and now there's this wonderful baby.

And WTF, brain, why are you already wanting to get pregnant again???

it will get better, *hugs*

jesssssr · September 2015

WTF cravings. Seems like i can't get enough bread and chocolate =P~

kettlekitten · September 2015

micshi said:
WTF brain. I just want to enjoy my time with baby and sleep at night. Stop freaking out and giving me anxiety over thoughts of death. It's part of life and you need to get over it. And of labor. It's done, and now there's this wonderful baby

I was thinking about this the other day. I was in the ob/gyn office holding my baby, and looking at the hundreds of baby photos plastered all over the walls. An elderly couple came in and I was briefly overwhelmed with the sense of there being my baby at the start of his life, and those people moving to the end of theirs, and had a 'flash forward' that it must be quite bittersweet seeing a new life when your own body is winding down.

WTF: why do I want to breastfeed so bad?? It's such a friggin pain. Not only is it so painful I've had to express most of the time, I've tried all the old wives remedies, seen several LCs and a doctor, and spent probably the equivalent of a years supply of formula on medical consultations, breast pump hire, medication and supplements. Just when I think it's getting better and I might be able to increase my number of BFs per day (which would be so good as pumping is so time consuming), it gets more painful again. I'm now dealing with a staph infection and have to take motilium to increase my supply as it keeps fluctuating. Here I was thinking it would be easier with a second baby. W....T....F.....!!!!

Edited because I was typing this at 4am and I didn't finish my sentence.

pabeybaby · September 2015

Wtf DD? This fighting sleep game is really getting old. I can't hold you 24/7. Also wtf to spitting up so much today? AND! Wtf to my dad asking to come by but then mentioning afterwards my mom is coming too? He knows she bugs me, and asking permission first before telling me she's coming too is just ridiculous. Plus, when I finally get DD to sleep is when they come over. Ahhhh! :-t

MrsRusty14 · September 2015

WTF to my husband. You make me bring LO (who is 4 weeks) to your work yesterday to meet your co-workers and go to an important dinner. You knew your co-worker, who we were with the entire time, had pneumonia and you didn't tell me. Yes, pneumonia is contagious DH, and our LO just spent 4 hours around that coughing mess!

toccoaparker · September 2015

MrsRusty14 said:
WTF to my husband. You make me bring LO (who is 4 weeks) to your work yesterday to meet your co-workers and go to an important dinner. You knew your co-worker, who we were with the entire time, had pneumonia and you didn't tell me. Yes, pneumonia is contagious DH, and our LO just spent 4 hours around that coughing mess!

:-O I would cut him.

CaliforniaDream87 · September 2015

Boslove said:
@CaliforniaDream87 tnx, I'm not sure he sends very mixed signals. I think he's enjoying this "freedom" it's only been 6months but I feel like I need to decide if I'll wait or just move on.

@Boslove Feel free to vent here girl! We will help you get over him. I can't stand a man who doesn't know what he wants, ugh.

Saratiff · September 2015

Wtf to the view!! I was pissed about your original statements but your so called apology was just messed up!!!

Wtf boobs... The pain... The leaking... I'm over it

toccoaparker · September 2015

Saratiff said:
Wtf to the view!! I was pissed about your original statements but your so called apology was just messed up!!!

Wtf boobs... The pain... The leaking... I'm over it

I feel super out of touch because I just learned about all of this today; but with my LO being in the hospital right now it gives me even more anger about the statements made. I just want to say thank you @Saratiff & @megvaddi and any & all other nurses on the board, you ladies are extraordinary so thank you for what you do to help others!( I know there are more of you but sleep deprivation is getting the best of me!)

JNOVA2015 · September 2015

kettlekitten said:

micshi said:
WTF brain. I just want to enjoy my time with baby and sleep at night. Stop freaking out and giving me anxiety over thoughts of death. It's part of life and you need to get over it. And of labor. It's done, and now there's this wonderful baby
I was thinking about this the other day. I was in the ob/gyn office holding my baby, and looking at the hundreds of baby photos plastered all over the walls. An elderly couple came in and I was briefly overwhelmed with the sense of there being my baby at the start of his life, and those people moving to the end of theirs, and had a 'flash forward' that it must be quite bittersweet seeing a new life when your own body is winding down.

WTF: why do I want to breastfeed so bad?? It's such a friggin pain. Not only is it so painful I've had to express most of the time, I've tried all the old wives remedies, seen several LCs and a doctor, and spent probably the equivalent of a years supply of formula on medical consultations, breast pump hire, medication and supplements. Just when I think it's getting better and I might be able to increase my number of BFs per day (which would be so good as pumping is so time consuming), it gets more painful again. I'm now dealing with a staph infection and have to take motilium to increase my supply as it keeps fluctuating. Here I was thinking it would be easier with a second baby. W....T....F.....!!!!

Edited because I was typing this at 4am and I didn't finish my sentence.

@kettlekitten that's why I always get so annoyed when people say BF'ing is free. Between 2 LC visits, nursing bras and clothes, pump accessories, and the like, I've easily spent enough to buy at LEAST 6 months of formula. And I haven't even had significant issues with BF'ing, so my costs are probably on the low end. I'm not saying BF'ing isn't great for other reasons, but can we please stop acting like its a huge cost saver??

EmEeGee · September 2015

@toccoaparker Thank you! :x

gulimz · September 2015

toccoaparker said:

Saratiff said:
Wtf to the view!! I was pissed about your original statements but your so called apology was just messed up!!!

Wtf boobs... The pain... The leaking... I'm over it
I feel super out of touch because I just learned about all of this today; but with my LO being in the hospital right now it gives me even more anger about the statements made. I just want to say thank you @Saratiff & @megvaddi and any & all other nurses on the board, you ladies are extraordinary so thank you for what you do to help others!( I know there are more of you but sleep deprivation is getting the best of me!)

Thank you! !

kettlekitten · September 2015

@JNOVA2015 amen to that, sister!

hjphillips · September 2015

WTF LO. You always sleep so well in your crib. Why is tonight such a fight?

tarheelgirl8 · September 2015

I know I'm a day late, but WTF casual acquaintance. I said you could hold her. I did not say you could kiss her on the mouth or put your fingers in her mouth.

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