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insecure/jealous during pregnancy

CarlyLBCarlyLB member
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Help! I'm having severe insecurities and jealous issues. I'm 17 1/2 weeks pregnant, FTM, and I'm so paranoid NY partner is going to cheat or leave me. We got pregnant immediately after we started seeing each other, but we love each other and are excited about starting a family. We're still getting to know each other in some ways. Before we were together he used to sleep with a girl he works with, and he sees her a few times a month for work functions and it drives me insane. I get filled with rage!!! It was before we met, but I'm so scared he'll change his mind about me and the baby.

Right after we found out, I did the stupid thing, and looked through his phone (I know, I know...) And he was still talking about meeting up with another girl...who knew I was pregnant! WTF?! I confronted him and said he had to cut ties completely with both these girls or I was done. He has, but I'm still a nervous wreck. Please help! I just need advice, reassurance, etc.
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Re: insecure/jealous during pregnancy

  • CarlyLBCarlyLB member
    **Also, forgot to put this in...

    He swears he wants to be with me and loves me. He says I can go through whatever I want BC he has nothing to hide, and if he didn't love me, he wouldn't be with me .... But I'm still nervous!
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  • Knottie1442268460Knottie1442268460 member
    It doesn't sound like a healthy relationship.
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  • cherith104cherith104 member
    I go through my husbands phone because he goes through mine. Lol. We have nothing to hide. But I don't talk to guys and he doesn't talk to girls. He use to be really insecure and jealous really bad but he's gotten better about it.
    I think it would worry me a little bit though if he works with a girl that he use to hook up with and I'm not really the jealous type. But it is good to hear him say that you can go through his phone because he has nothing to hide.
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  • JMarie1291JMarie1291 member
    I think if you have to look through your partner's phone if they let you or not.....or they want to go through yours is so immature. I feel if they talk to someone behind your back once they will do it again. I trust my husband amd he trust me we dont touch each others phones. We leave them laying around the house when home and could care less. I have had 2 relationships before this one that ended because of cell phone b.s.... If you have to look at each others phones then you really have no trust.
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