TTC After a Loss

My Loss

I wanted to introduce myself.  I went in for my 12 week appt today and found out that the baby had stopped growing at 9 weeks and didn't have a heartbeat.  I am having all sorts of emotions.  I am a teacher and we planned this pregnancy to work well with my school year.  We have a DD who is 3 and it has already been hard trying to explain to her why there is no longer a baby.  My doctor has suggested waiting to see if I will naturally miscarry and can start trying after my first natural period.  Prayers are appreciated and will continue to count my blessings....

Re: My Loss

  • I am so sorry for your loss.  It is so hard trying to explain loss to your other children.  Praying for your family and I hope you can TTC again soon!
    Married 9/19/09
    Me (32) Dx PCOS, DH (32) SA = Normal/mild morph issues
    TTC#5 July 2017 - 3rd cycle TTC = BFP on 11/12/17 at 9dpo Beta #1 = 96 at 13dpo - Beta #2 = 207 at 15dpo
    TTC#1  starting Nov. 2009
    3 rounds of Clomid + TI and 3 rounds of 7.5 mg Femara + IUI before our BFP on 11/8/10 at 12dpiui
    TTC #2 3rd cycle of Femara 7.5mg+Ovidrel+TI = 4 follies = BFP on 10/12/12 
    TTC#3 July 2014 - Metformin +TI = BFP at 9dpo - Twins, one baby lost at 5.5 weeks 
    Macy Annabelle born at 37w4d on 4/29/15.  Diagnosed with Cri du Chat and passed away on 6/6/15.  Forever in our hearts.
    TTC#4 3rd cycle of Metformin + Femara 7.5mg+Ovidrel+TI = 3 follies = BFP on 12/24/16
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  • I know i already answered on the Ttgp board but I just wanted to say again how sorry I am. Best of luck to you!
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss, friend. I wish I knew what to say to help you get through this time. But I did want you to know that I'm definitely praying for you and your family. Also, I don't know if this will help, but there were a couple articles that offered some encouragement after a miscarriage and how to talk with your kids about it. So, just FYI if you want to take a look. But I hope you have lots of love and support around your right now. ((Hugs))!
  • Your in my prayers Im sorry to hear of your loss I hope you and your family get through this, keep your faith and I hope many blessing come your way XoXo
  • @MrsMommaA .. You are in my thoughts and prayers. You are not alone. My story is exactly like yours.
    I did have a D&C on sept 11 though.
    Praying for comfort!
  • Thanks all.....body isn't cooperating.  Scheduled D&C Friday.

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