May 2016 Moms

Monday Bitchfest

I know you need to burn someone/something! Let it out!

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Re: Monday Bitchfest

  • I need to bitch about the Verizon insurance plan I have. I've paid $10/month for YEARS for damage insurance on my phone and I actually had to use it yesterday. Those dbags charge an additional $170 to replace the phone (which will more than likely be factory refurbished). What do I pay a monthly fee for if they're going to charge me an arm and a leg anyway? I realize $170 is a lot less than full retail, but damn!
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  • I feel nauseous this morning and don't want to be at work at all. I have too much going on with confirming insurance information and stuff. I just want to go back to bed. :(
  • I'm so glad this is here. My friend and her son are living with us because she's going through a divorce/separation but I don't actually think they're getting a divorce. Anyway, I take her son to school everyday because she works early and I'm just really not in the mood to deal with my drama queen of a 2 yo and a 6 yo who questions every single move I make. I love him, but I'm just going a little crazy. I don't want to say anything and make her feel bad but I'm just not sure what to do!

  • I'm so glad this is here. My friend and her son are living with us because she's going through a divorce/separation but I don't actually think they're getting a divorce. Anyway, I take her son to school everyday because she works early and I'm just really not in the mood to deal with my drama queen of a 2 yo and a 6 yo who questions every single move I make. I love him, but I'm just going a little crazy. I don't want to say anything and make her feel bad but I'm just not sure what to do!

    @JessicaB0627 yikes that's a tough one. I don't even know what the answer to that is. Does your friend know you're pregnant? If not, would telling her make her realize you've got a lot on your plate? Obviously you guys are close if she's living with you, but that in addition to taking her son to school every day is a LOT to ask, in my opinion. If it were me I'd suffer in silence, probably, because I hate confrontation -- but maybe dropping hints that you're exhausted would make her see the light??
  • I am a full time nanny of 3 kids ages 2, 4, and 5. Somedays I have to be to work at 6:30 (usually start at 7). On the earlier days I can come here and sleep till the kids wake up. This morning I was super tired an hoping to sleep another hour or two and I got here and the older 2 kids were already awake...so exhausted. Hoping they all nap and I can get an hour nap in as well, the oldest one usually doesn't nap (but I can hope)  -_-
  • @kmalls Yes she knows I'm pregnant. I don't think she understands how much of a task it is for me to get myself ready as well as both kids and get to work on time. I know that I will have 2 kids soon, but I think it's different dealing with someone else's kid every morning. I told her I was frustrated this morning but blamed it on hormones. I'll probably just suffer in silence! She's been going through a pretty selfish phase lately so I'm trying my best to be there for her son as much as I can.

    Although one day it will probably just all spill out at the same time and make matters worse!
  • It's Monday and I'm in no mood for work today. I just want to crawl back into bed and sleep a bit longer.

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  • Made my appt for the tour/orientation tomorrow at my birthing center and I was so excited bc they were super nice on the phone and I was finally getting stuff done. Then DH burst my bubble and made me realize I gave them the wrong address. We have our residential address and our mailing address (which is what our insurance shows) and I gave the home address. He's acting like I've completely messed up everything - I told him we could just tell them to change it tomorrow at the appointment. Not hard. :|
  • In the middle of sex this morning with DH, I had to stop BC I was so nauseous. Ended up sweating, hyperventilating, vomiting, and having more cramping. Well this is fun. Will I ever enjoy sex again?!?!!
  • I'm having a major case of the Mondays today, too. I don't feel like being here at the office at all, I'm nauseas and starving and (tmi) haven't pooped in 3 days.

    Munching on rice cakes with peanut butter that DH made for me is kinda making me feel better but not much.

    At least I have you ladies to share my pity party with!
  • @finnybooboo I keep planning on weaning DS away from the pacifier, but I'm petrified! He goes down for naps/bed so well with it and it just makes my life so much easier (i.e. he's screaming in the car and if I give him his pacifier I'll get a moment of peace!). If you find any strategies that work, send them my way, although I think I'm going to put it off until I get through the first trimester exhaustion...



  • @finnybooboo I keep planning on weaning DS away from the pacifier, but I'm petrified! He goes down for naps/bed so well with it and it just makes my life so much easier (i.e. he's screaming in the car and if I give him his pacifier I'll get a moment of peace!). If you find any strategies that work, send them my way, although I think I'm going to put it off until I get through the first trimester exhaustion...
    I definitely will! Monday's just seem worse because we're not the best at keeping it from her on the weekends.
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  • I am having a terrible time concentrating on work. It's just not happening. I've barely done anything all morning and the afternoon doesn't seem to be much better. I'm tired and distracted and I want to go home to my bed.


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    Sleep and I am dreading doing laundry tonight
  • Tonight is my late night with clients so I don't get home until after DS goes to bed which always makes me a little sad  :( However, the one good thing is my mom watches him on Monday afternoons and she always does my laundry while she's there!



  • Not only am I pregnant but I'm also in constant pain because I have some dental issues. Ugh. It's so bad, the whole left side of my face hurts! And since I am pregnant, I can't take pain meds, only antibiotics. So anyways, of course this weekend we just *had* to have my 4 year old stepson over and I swear, I felt like I was going to lose it or something. Everyone in the house is SO LOUD. Loud noises would trigger my splitting headaches that came with my toothache and earaches. My niece called in to talk with stepson and she has ADHD so she was talking loud and crazy and the grandpa came up and made my stepson hyper. I kept asking people to please keep it down, and even though I explained that I'm not feeling well and went into detail about everything, everyone was still super loud. Grandpa even made a joke about it! Completely rude! My husband tried to help, and got a splitting headache trying to keep the kids in line (and grandpa) We have a small apartment for a few more months until we get into our house in January... There's nowhere to hide out
  • DH is horrible at managing money that he blames me for him ALWAYS going out to eat with his friends and spending over $150-$200 A WEEK.  Meanwhile, I never go out to eat and never want to spend money.... but NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO it's my fault not his..... Always my fault! 

    He is "starting his own company" for the past 2 years.... maybe it's not working!!! GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR 

    Ok... phew... that felt good to get out. 
  • My husband has been away for almost five days and just got home last night.  Not too long after being home, he touched my very bloated (just barely 5 week) belly and said "Oh, look! You are starting to show!"  Ughhh...this isn't just in my head that my belly is huge? Darn. 
  • Dr said I'd have lab results today... I waited patiently (kinda) till 3 then called... they weren't the nicest to me on the phone even though my Wednesday labs I had a critically high potassium level which can be bad and I just wanted to see if it was a fluke.... they called back and might have been even meaner to me. Or it's my hormones.... don't they know I'm freaking out that I may not have a baby in my belly like I thought and just want my lab results?!?!?!?!? Being a nurse is making this difficult on me.
  • @KKMalinowski Is that your Ob's office?? I would be pretty upset too and they should understand that you would be anxious to get your results!
  • @JessicaB0627 YES!!!!! I think they have them but the dr hasn't reviewed them, which I understand but at the same time its frustrating. She also may not have been as rude as I am hormomal... they were wonderful when I was there so I'm hoping its me or a Monday thing.
  • @KKMalinowski When I was pg with DD my Ob would always personally call me with test results after hours. Is that a possibility? I understand my Ob isn't the norm but I think making you wait until tomorrow when they have the results today is stupid!
  • My husband is all irritated with one of my best friends. She decided to have a meltdown one day after I told her I was pregnant about how she can't possibly have a kid now due to life getting in the way (I'm the last of my friends to have a kid). She then makes an ob apt. To talk about how long she can wait and then freaks about the increased risk of problems when you get pregnant after 35.
    Glad forward to one week later and she has "okayed" it with her advisor and now will be trying to have a baby.

    Personally I'm not upset as I would not have let her pregnancy status stop me. But then again this is my first and it is a bit irritating since she was that know it all friend about conception and how I could wait because I'm not old(I'm 33).

    Thanks for the rant!
  • My husband is all irritated with one of my best friends. She decided to have a meltdown one day after I told her I was pregnant about how she can't possibly have a kid now due to life getting in the way (I'm the last of my friends to have a kid). She then makes an ob apt. To talk about how long she can wait and then freaks about the increased risk of problems when you get pregnant after 35.
    Glad forward to one week later and she has "okayed" it with her advisor and now will be trying to have a baby.

    Personally I'm not upset as I would not have let her pregnancy status stop me. But then again this is my first and it is a bit irritating since she was that know it all friend about conception and how I could wait because I'm not old(I'm 33).

    Thanks for the rant!

    Wait -- so your best friend flipped out when you told her you're pregnant because she wanted to be pregnant first? And now she's going to start trying but only after running it by her advisor? What does she do that makes it necessary to run TTC by anyone? I find that so strange. And she couldn't even muster up excitement for you? I think I'm with your husband on this one, I'd be super annoyed with that entire situation!
  • My instructor should go to hell. I mean I understand being pissed off at a whole class, but not me....I haven't done anything wrong that I know of...unless being pregnant counts? hmmm...maybe my emotions will get the best of me one day and I'll cry like a bitch and make her feel bad...


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  • My neighbors have a tv and a bar in their backyard. They had an obnoxious football party last night where they were howling at every friggin play. It went till 1230 and I heard them say Thames are going to do this every Sunday... FTS
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  • DH. Who got some kind of virus that is the same as morning sickness except on steroids (you ladies know how men are when they're sick...pathetic and annoying). It's now caught up with me, I'm at work, and my nausea is 100 times worse than it was and I hate everybody and every thing bc we are short staffed at work and I can't go home. Even if I could I probably wouldn't want to bc DH is home til Wed with this crap and I want sympathy.
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  • Haha. Yeah..... She also got mad that the kiddo could possibly be born on her birthday. Only child syndrome....and I am one as well but she's always been very "me" oriented. I just try to worry about me and keeping this baby a growing!
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