I am eight weeks out and struggling to stay positive. Due to my office job, my feet and ankles swell three times their size. Maternity clothes are bad enough, so throw in the fact that I can only wear one pair of flip flops and the weather has started to change and you get a very emotional and struggling expectant mother. I try to go online and find "suggestions" for clothing to wear and EVERY. SINGLE. PICTURE. is of a tiny size zero fake pregnant woman modeling clothes that would obviously look great on her, but most definitely not me. And to top it off, since I have to change clothes fifteen times every morning to find something that is halfway decent, I get a great look at the stretch marks that have slowly appeared all over my body. So not only do I get to experience limited clothing options now, I get to think about my future of never wearing a swimsuit or being attractive to my husband again. I know this is such a negative post, but this is usually how I feel every single morning. I've gotten better at not crying, but it's a struggle. Any suggestions on staying positive? Or even clothing suggestions for the fall when I can't fit into anything but flip flops. Any suggestions would help at this point. And please don't say that "it will all be worth it in end". Because it will, but that doesn't stop the anxiety and stress that I am feeling right now. Thank you!