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Sex drive? What sex drive?

gmehaugmehau member
edited September 2015 in October 2015 Moms
My sex drive went from being a sex, crazed bunny to almost absolutely no sex drive at all, through out this whole pregnancy. I feel so bad for my hubby. I mean we use to practically do it almost everyday and sometimes twice a day. I know kinda crazy... I think our last time was a month ago and I'm almost 37 weeks. Then there's going to be the postpartum 6-8 weeks period... Bleh is it weird to feel bad about not wanting to "do it"? I keep feeling like maybe I should at least try to do it before I give birth... Idk.
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  • mollypuss1mollypuss1 member
    Have you explained to your husband how you feel? It's only a few months of no sex and for a very good reason. Surely he will understand and respect this, afterall it's not as if you are saying no sex forever and your sex drive will return eventually.
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  • alibagnuloalibagnulo member
    I hear you! It's not that my husband doesn't understand or gives me a hard time about it...I just know he misses me & he still wants to have sex! He never complains or anything about it, which I'm so grateful for!! However, I know that "need" hasn't gone away for him like it has me...I've seriously tried to muster the energy to be in the mood, but I just can't ! We were the same, at least once a day & now it's like once every couple weeks...not to mention last time we "did it" I cramped so bad I cried & then he felt so terrible...

    Don't get me wrong here, I love being pregnant & am so grateful for this precious baby, but I Can't wait for my body back!
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  • babykitcatbabykitcat member
    I feel pretty caught in the middle of DH and my body. I want nothing to do with sex what so ever!!!! But he misses and gets sad about it...it makes me feel guilty and i Cry.

    However I want him to not be late all the time as I miss him and am home lots and just want him with me as much as possible...but he is still late all the time....

    I know that might seem like an unrelated rant in the end but I'm going to stop feeling guilty now....we'd have sex if the evenings didn't turn into such a rush because of his concept of time. Lol. Again sorry to rant!

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