My baby was in the NICU getting bottles his first week. I also wasn't able to hold him until 24 hrs+ post delivery. I really wanted to nurse, but given these things, I wasn't super hopeful. Thankfully, I have been able to pump sufficient milk (which shocked me because he was 6 weeks early). All he's received since birth has been expressed milk plus special preemie fortifier. I've been trying to nurse him but it's been an uphill battle. He would do decent with the nipple shield but we would both get soaked with milk and he never seemed satisfied. When I would put him directly to breast, he would seem to latch really well, but then pull off after a minute or two and fuss. Breastfeeding was frustrating and super messy. I googled "messy eater breast feed" and read about over active let down. Basically, my milk let down is too strong/fast for him to keep up. I think if he'd been full term, he would be able to handle it but feeding is harder for him. This morning I followed the advice Id read: I pumped first and then nursed him by basically laying down and ploping him on top of me. It worked beautifully! For the first time since starting to nurse him, it felt natural and easy. He also got a really deep latch so it wasn't painful at all. He seemed satisfied, too. I am so happy! I was a little traumatized by having a preemie, so it feels like a very special gift to be able to do something I'd really wanted to do. It may have been a fluke, but I sure hope not! We've been using the joovy bottles with the 0+ nipples. I think this helped with the transition, too.
Together since '07
Married since '12
Off the pill since 5/14
BFP: 8/10/14 -- CP 8/22/14
BFP: 12/10/15 -- Prayers requested
Re: Bottle to breast nursing victory!
How do you nurse with the baby on top of you? I have never gotten that to work. It is easier with small breasts?