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Over due rant!

sarabxsarabx member
in September 2015 Moms
couple of days over and I can't bloody cope anymore!.. I'm struggling getting changed, my knees are giving in, heart burns back on form, false labour keeps getting my hopes up! And seeing all this birth announcements is leaving me just a little jealous!.. Any other mommas in the same boat? Alls that getting me through is the thought of holding and kissing my little boy (whenever he decides to show his gorgeous face!)
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  • lollybeallollybeal member
    I feel your pain! I'm only 40+2 but all that bloody text messages "have you had the baby yet" " any signs" "he's holding on in there" "not long now" are driving me up the Fing wall!! If I'd had him if let people know!
    My cervix is still really far back and I'm not even dilated a little. I've been taking evening primrose oil for over a week, I've had a sweep and bloody acupuncture! I 100% feel your pain. But for me they want to unnecessarily induce me and I don't want them to. So I either let them take my baby out before he is ready and get to meet him or leave him in until he is ready to come out naturally and just be pissy until that time comes! Oh the joys of pregnancy!!
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  • melco19melco19 member
    I'm 39 + 5 and I'm already tired of the texts and calls. He potentially has another week at least, so people may as well just get comfortable and wait patiently until he is done cooking. I went way over with my first so I figured they would be more patient this time.... Not so much

     

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  • ecruickecruick member
    I am 40+4 and feel ur pain. I had a midwife apt a few hours ago and it has lifted my spirits a bit knowing things are moving in the right direction but still...shes not herr and i want her so bad! I hate how jelous i get too..i try my best not to but its hard. My emotions are like a rollercoaster ride right now x
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  • sarabxsarabx member
    lollybeal said:

    I feel your pain! I'm only 40+2 but all that bloody text messages "have you had the baby yet" " any signs" "he's holding on in there" "not long now" are driving me up the Fing wall!! If I'd had him if let people know!
    My cervix is still really far back and I'm not even dilated a little. I've been taking evening primrose oil for over a week, I've had a sweep and bloody acupuncture! I 100% feel your pain. But for me they want to unnecessarily induce me and I don't want them to. So I either let them take my baby out before he is ready and get to meet him or leave him in until he is ready to come out naturally and just be pissy until that time comes! Oh the joys of pregnancy!!

    Im exactly in the same position as you @lollybeal !! They want to induce me on the 17th but I'd 100% much rather go natural, and as for the texts and call il be screaming from the bloody roof tops if I'd of had him
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  • sarabxsarabx member
    I feel all your pain ladies, being soooo close but stil soo far! I've always been impatient and this waiting game is the longest and hardest I've ever done
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  • Texascat Texascat member
    I'm 40w5d and having breakdowns every day. They estimate him at 9lbs (I hope they're wrong) and I'm so uncomfortable!!! It really feels like he will never come...
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  • MiromiMMiromiM member
    edited September 2015
    I'm sorry. I can't feel your pain but I do sympathize with it. Just remember that a lot of Sep15 mom's who have had their babies so far did so because of complications. Mind you, they didn't have to endure the added weeks of being more and more uncomfortable. It seems like the third trimester is the opposite of the first. As the weeks went on in my first trimester things got easier. No so much for this one.
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  • ecruickecruick member
    My best friends sister had her first baby at 23 weeks and she text me last night to tell me she was in labour with her second at also 23 weeks...
    I almost could have slapped myself being so down about my baby cooking 4 days longer than the date they gave me (which isnt always right!).
    I am sure we would all rather our baby in there longer than it should than this not only once but twice...but then again i did have another wee sob to myself this morning because she was still in there.
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  • sarabxsarabx member
    We all know it's better for our babies to cook longer but doesn't stop the feeling of how much we can't wait to meet our babas! Being excited and sick of waiting is just showing how much we're loving our LOs before they are even here :x
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  • ktbkittenktbkitten member
    I'm only 38 weeks on Tuesday and my stomach is huge. Everyone thinks that I am going to go early and I get people saying the same things to me...I am so uncomfortable and I am ready for this little guy to come out. I fear that I will go over my due date. I know I can make it through but I don't want to!! I hope that you ladies have your babies soon!!

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  • ecruickecruick member
    @sarabx i am the first one to say i want to meet my baby at 4 days over! Uv read it wrong. I am just saying when my friend text this i did feel a bit better that i was still pregnant.
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  • sarabxsarabx member
    edited September 2015
    @ecruick ahhhh yes I get what you mean! I understand you would to least we know our babies are comfy, happy and healthy in there Makes you think when things happen like that to others
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  • ecruickecruick member
    edited September 2015
    We should just keep of the birth announcement forum until our own babies are here haha..i always check edd and when they were born haha..there are a few ladies that have had babies after being due in august. Xx
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  • amyymgamyymg member
    40 +3 here this weekend the texts have seemed to slow down (thank goodness) but only because people are out doing fun things and not at work trying to waste time lol. I'm super anxious about the arrival of this baby girl now. It seems like everyday she cooks longer the more I start to question my abilities (ftm here) so if she'd like to get the show on the road I would be a much happier camper. Hoping all of our babies decide to arrive on their own and SOON!
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  • lollybeallollybeal member
    I would just like to say that I don't think any of us suggested that we aren't thrilled that are babies have made it full term. There isn't a mother on earth that doesn't want a healthy baby and no one suggested any different. But that doesn't take away from the fact that actually, when your baby goes overdue things also stop being in your control and things can start to get complicated. Not for everyone, but for some of us, so please, I beg you, don't come to a place where we can talk about the annoyances and have the audacity to try and make me feel bad about carrying my baby full term. We quite literally have no control over when they come out, early or late, so please, just don't.
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  • ecruickecruick member
    edited September 2015
    @lollybeal ur so funny wanting an arguement. I only said my personal feeling hearing such a sad news that it made me think aww its not so bad. Nobody is trying to make anyone feel bad. U can reply with whatever u want i wont acknowledge u again. At feeling the same annoyance that my baby isnt here i dont need extra crap from a stranger.

    Edited for typing error
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