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Found out on my birthday I am out :(

Leslie1129Leslie1129 member
in April 2016 Moms
7 months ago I had a miscarriage and yesterday on my 21st birthday I find out i had another :( both at 8 weeks what is wrong why does this keep happening to me I'd do anything to have a healthy baby not once but twice as I sat there and watched the ultrasound all alone looking at my baby that did not have a heart beat honestly a part of me died at that moment for the second time im sorry I'm probably not even making sense right now I just don't know what to think I don't know what to do I started actually miscarrying today my stomach hurts so bad I chose not to have a D&C sense last time I had one the pain o just couldn't handle so this time I decided to let it go on its own I'm scared I don't want this to happen again I don't know what to think the doctors said if I have another then they will do tests on why but I want answers now I want my babies back :(
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  • rosalie12rosalie12 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses. :(

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  • TKaiser91TKaiser91 member
    Im so sorry for your loss!
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  • imrachelleaimrachellea member
    I am so sorry :(
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  • ecwkecwk member
    Lurking from M16. So sorry for your losses. I hope you have a healthy pregnancy next time and get your take home baby. Take care xx

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  • cmerriburycmerribury member
    I'm so sorry. I understand completely, having been there too. I wish you a speedy recovery and your rainbow baby. You may want to pop over to the miscarriage and loss board. The ladies there are amazing, experiencing what you are, and very knowledgable. Again, I'm so sorry.
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  • Pmommy0416Pmommy0416 member
    I am so sorry that this has happened. Take care of yourself.
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  • herewegoagain3rdherewegoagain3rd member
    I am so sorry. I hope you can get some answers soon so that you can have your rainbow baby. Sending T&Ps
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  • lilp2015lilp2015 member
    So sorry. I mc in March baby stopped at 7 weeks 5 days. It's such a difficult thing to go through. Lots of thoughts and prayers for you!
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  • Tippy05Tippy05 member
    I'm so sorry. Please take care of yourself.
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  • blonde151188blonde151188 member
    I'm so sorry.
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  • myndihallbergmyndihallberg member
    So so so sorry you are going through this.
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  • TaraphanieTaraphanie member
    I'm really sorry for your loss. I had a MC too in March and I know it's hard. Take care of yourself and give you time to heal.
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  • sarahuflsarahufl member
    I'm sorry for your loss. I spent my 32nd birthday having surgery for an ectopic. It really seems to just add insult to injury.

    I hope you have a good recovery.
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  • redseligredselig member
    I'm so sorry for you loss.
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  • hschaefer89hschaefer89 member
    It's a horrible experience to go through and happens way more often than people think. More than 50% of pregnancies end in miscarriage!! I'm very sorry you have had this happen twice now. It's so scary! I've had a MC and although I really want a baby I am terrified of being pregnant. I am scared every day that I'm going to see blood. It's hard to heal from that.

    Just know that a miscarriage is your body's way of telling you that it wasn't ready for pregnancy. The best thing you can do now is take care of your emotions and your body. Maybe consider looking into natural remedies to help your body prepare for a strong pregnancy (natural progesterone cream and red raspberry leaf extract work like a charm!).

    I wish you the best of luck in future pregnancies!
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  • stephstokesstephstokes member
    I'm a very sorry for you as well. Loss is never easy but the timing sometimes is just evil. I am now healing from my THIRD D and C since June of 2014 and you can message me if you ever need to talk. I feel more close to some of you ladies then some of my high school friends from 15 years ago. Some people just don't get it!! Thoughts and prayers to you at this time!! And for what it is worth Happy belated Birthday.
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  • rayandbritrayandbrit member
    I'm so sorry. Going through a MC is so sad, and scary, and helpless feeling. Be as kind as possible to yourself during this time. Rest and grieve and take care of yourself how you need to. Thoughts & prayers going out to you.
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