Hi ladies, I need some advice. After experiencing some pressure, I had an ultrasound today. The tech didn't tell me, but I saw on the screen that my cervix was measuring at 3 cm without funneling. She excused herself to talk to the doctor and I googled (bad idea) cervix lengths and found out this is on the short side. She came back and said that the doctor said everything is fine and I'm free to go but to call if it gets worse before my next appt on the 18th. Doctor didn't seemed concerned, but as a PGAL, I am. Do any of you have experience with this? Is 3 cm something I need to worry about? Thanks!
Re: Cervix at 3 cm 19 w 4 d
PGAL is SO hard, and doesn't get much easier until your little squishy is in your arms, but if the radiologist/doctor didn't say anything to you, it is because its his TRAINED medical opinion that you are fine.
Could you be confusing pressure with SPD (symohysis pubis dysfunction)?
TMI warning.
For the no sex thing, there's two main reasons: orgasms can cause contractions and semen can ripen the cervix. Also I think there's something about things being inside the vagina because you're also not supposed to use tampons, though the pregnant woman on pelvic rest who used tampons and necessitated that rule kind of boggles my mind. So oral sex on you is a no no, but obviously you can perform. Other sex acts, including anal sex, if you're into it, depend on who you ask (and of course are off limits if they'll bring you to climax). I notice teeny little contractions even without orgasm, which don't worry me but did last pregnancy because of my risk of preterm labor. It's always best to have this conversation with your doctor but "so, what about anal?" kind of changes the dynamic....
Sorry if TMI. I struggled with the pelvic rest order last pregnancy but was too shy to ask my doctor the questions I really should have and didn't want my husband to either. I know that's silly because he's a doctor and spent a lot of time with my vagina, but he's also very dignified and grey haired, and has daughters my age and I got shy.
It's not. But the later I get I can't have an orgasm be it makes me contract.. I still have another month or so. Oh the joys...