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Feeling Defeated

ttcmiraclebabyottcmiraclebabyo member
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I am 11dpiui and 12 days past trigger and the cramps I have I'm certain are AF cramps. I'm not due for blood work until the 4th and AF until the 7th. But at this moment I feel hopeless :(
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Re: Feeling Defeated

  • islagirl1218islagirl1218 member
    edited August 2015
    I am right there with you. Af is due on the 4th. I have been cramping since last Thursday which felt different then af so I got excited. I woke up this morning feeling even crampier and just have this gut feeling it's af. Ver sad this morning even though I know everyone says don't count yourself out until af arrives, but it is extremely hard!
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  • ttcmiraclebabyottcmiraclebabyo member
    It really is! I was thinking about testing before the 4th only because I feel desperate. And I feel you I am so emotional and sad as well. Good luck to you and keep me updated I'll be praying for some good news for you!
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  • Whiggrrl65Whiggrrl65 member

    I'm so sorry that you are both going through this.  It really, really sucks.

    Maybe do a HPT tomorrow am?  I know some people don't like to test prior to beta but I prefer to test so I know what to expect when the doctor calls.

    good luck!

      • TTC #1 since August 2014
      • currently on 5th medicated IUI cycle
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  • islagirl1218islagirl1218 member
    I caved and tested this morning I hate seeing that bfn i don't know why I don't just wait :/
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  • ttcmiraclebabyottcmiraclebabyo member
    It might just be too soon @islagirl1218 But I might just cave in and test also.
    Thank you @kmetcalfe77 and I might just give in. :-SS
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  • Rachd110Rachd110 member
    @ttcmiraclebaby we are cycle buddies. I am also 11dpiui, 12dp trigger and blood test on the 4th. I'm on progesterone suppositories, which are giving me pregnancy-like symptoms: cramping, nipple soreness, fatigue and headaches. I don't feel like I'm pregnant, but im trying to stay positive. It's really hard!

    I went out and bought Dollar Store tests today. I'm going to test on Thursday. I Figure I'd rather know that it's a negative before I my blood test.

    Good luck to you!
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  • ttcmiraclebabyottcmiraclebabyo member
    @Rachd110 Hi so nice to have a cycle buddy :) I caved in tonight and took a FRER and of course bfn, but I am staying as positive as possible and praying it was too early to get a bfp! I'll be waiting a couple more days before I test again, because like you I rather know before the blood work. Good luck to you also, sending prayers and tons of positivity your way :)
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  • Rachd110Rachd110 member
    @ttcmiraclebaby I also caved and took a cheap test this morning. As expected, BFN! At least I know that the HCG from the trigger is out of my system.

    It was too early for us to test. Hopefully, we'll both get good news this Friday.
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