Advice please! High Blood Pressure & Narrow Pelvis (38 wks)

Hi - I just got back from my 38 week OB appointment, and expected the usual boring visit. But instead, my blood pressure (which has been normal this entire pregnancy) was high at 131/98 and then 133/93 and my doctor said I may have preeclampsia. She said to go check my blood pressure every day at the pharmacy and if it hits 140/90 or higher that I need to go to triage right away to be induced. On the way home, DH and I stopped at the pharmacy and checked it again and it was back in the normal range. Also, she did a cervical check (apparently I have a posterior cervix so she couldn't tell if I was dilated at all), and told me that I have a narrow pelvis so if the baby is big I could have trouble delivering vaginally (she said there was no point in getting an ultrasound to see the size of the baby because it can be off by so much). She has a pretty poor bedside manner and it seems that she left it that if I want a c section it's in my hands. Has anyone had either or both of these situations happen, or have any advice? I have honestly been terrified of delivering vaginally this entire pregnancy, but am obviously aware of the risks/longer recovery time with a c section. But I fear attempting delivering vaginally and having a really difficult labor/delivery, and potentially ending in a c section anyway. Also scared of the high blood pressure resulting in a low platelet count which could mean not being able to have an epidural, which I was absolutely counting on!!! Feeling overwhelmed and totally confused about what choice to make...really appreciate any advice or sharing similar situations.