Symptoms: morning sickness is back with a vengeance! I need to find some better ginger stuff. Still super bloated. Some lightheadedness, but that might be the allergy med I had to switch to.
Rants/Raves/Stories: So sick of the bloat. I haven't changed my eating AT ALL, have (obviously) cut out alcohol, and have still been exercising, and I've gained something like 5 or 6 pounds. It seems to have slowed down this week, at least. Rant #2 have to go to a bday dinner for DH's uncle tonight, at this nasty pizza dive that his family loves. It smells like nasty grease. Not looking forward to that, at all.
Questions for the group? I've seen a lot of discussion here and on 1st tri about the panorama/materniti21 blood tests. Has anyone had that done? Are there any downsides besides small chance of false positives?
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? (stealing from a TTGP thread this week) Mine is currently dark blond/light brown. Close to natural color, but I have highlights right now since I've been slowly changing from red. I miss the red, though, so might go back in the fall.
Symptoms: nausea has hit me this week. Feels like I'm gonna throw up every morning. I eat a piece of toast and it's usually better. But if my stomach doesn't have something in it... Gag city! Also boobs are pretty sore at times but that comes and goes.
R/R/S- my father in law is already driving me crazy trying to be involved with everything! I don't want to get all into it- he is just bugging me to no end right now.
Questions: going in for my first prenatal appointment on Monday (yay!!) at 7W3D- how possible do you think it is to see a heartbeat??
GTKY- right now I have a very subtle ombre thing going on. It's mostly for low maintenance reasons. Light brown on top and a dark blond/blond on bottom.
Week: 7
Symptoms: nausea has hit me this week. Feels like I'm gonna throw up every morning. I eat a piece of toast and it's usually better. But if my stomach doesn't have something in it... Gag city! Also boobs are pretty sore at times but that comes and goes.
R/R/S- my father in law is already driving me crazy trying to be involved with everything! I don't want to get all into it- he is just bugging me to no end right now.
Questions: going in for my first prenatal appointment on Monday (yay!!) at 7W3D- how possible do you think it is to see a heartbeat??
GTKY- right now I have a very subtle ombre thing going on. It's mostly for low maintenance reasons. Light brown on top and a dark blond/blond on bottom.
I saw a heartbeat at 7 weeks, 4 days. Hope you see one, too! But I do think it is perfectly normal if you don't
Symptoms: so much bloat, sore boobs (but they aren't terrible, very manageable), nausea- although I actually threw up for the first time yesterday. Mostly just dry heaving or general icky-ness. My nose is just incredibly stuffy, which makes it difficult to sleep. Generally, though, I feel mostly good and very fortunate that I haven't been totally knocked down.
Rants/Raves/Stories: there are a lot of stupid questions on these boards and I am tired of them getting shut down for being "mean". We are all adults and should be able to tell someone they need to fart and they can't feel their baby move at 4 weeks.
Questions for the group? nope
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? (stealing from a TTGP thread this week): dark brown
Week: 6 Symptoms: nothing too much actually. I am NOT hungry, which was what happened during 1st trimester of last baby too. Rants/Raves/Stories: I just moved into a new house and found the box of my pregnancy clothes from last time. Although I'm not ready for them, it totally made my day! Questions for the group? Not a question, but more of a statement - don't take me to heart if I hurt your feelings. I'm a realist that is bad about bedside manner. For example, my DD was an asshole this morning because I wouldn't let her wear 2 different shoes to daycare. She screamed the whole way there and then called me a banana. I love that kid but seriously, she might kill me. So - if saying stuff life that offends you, sorry in advance ;;)
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? (stealing from a TTGP thread this week) - Blonde. It used to be white but has "darkened" to regular blonde now
Symptoms: Oh man, I don't want to even get started. Let's just say... I managed to brush my teeth and get dressed before noon today ;p
Rants/Raves/Stories: I'm annoyed by my mil and I'm done talking to her about pregnancy stuff. She is so negative and I just don't need that right now.
Questions for the group?
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? (stealing from a TTGP thread this week) Strawberry blonde and it's natural. I have never dyed my hair!
Week: 8!!
Symptoms: Oh man, I don't want to even get started. Let's just say... I managed to brush my teeth and get dressed before noon today ;p
Rants/Raves/Stories: I'm annoyed by my miland I'm done talking to her about pregnancy stuff. She is so negative and I just don't need that right now.
Questions for the group?
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? (stealing from a TTGP thread this week) Strawberry blonde and it's natural. I have never dyed my hair!
This is why mine doesn't know Not telling her till I can't physically hide it any more....
Week: 6~~
Symptoms: the nausea has picked up this week. Constantly feeling icky and don't want to eat because after I do it always feels like it's gonna come back up. Luckily that has only happened once so far. Extremely tired and always want a nap. Hands and feet tingly and go numb. Also having shortness of breath. Just going up and down two flights of stairs kills me. Or holding DD for any length of time is just hard. ~~
Rants/raves/stories: Went out for a bday dinner for my stepsister, stepbrother, and myself this week. Was so excited because we went to one of my favorite places. But DD was having none of it so I ended up eating cold food and feeling sick to my stomach half way through. It was awful! ~~
Questions for the group? Nope~~
GTKY: what is your hair color and is it natural? Dark strawberry blonde. Not natural but I had them color it last time to the closest thing as my roots they could do so that when it does grow out it will look more natural. I'm done putting color in my hair for awhile!
Symptoms: Oh man, I don't want to even get started. Let's just say... I managed to brush my teeth and get dressed before noon today ;p
Rants/Raves/Stories: I'm annoyed by my miland I'm done talking to her about pregnancy stuff. She is so negative and I just don't need that right now.
Questions for the group?
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? (stealing from a TTGP thread this week) Strawberry blonde and it's natural. I have never dyed my hair!
This is why mine doesn't know Not telling her till I can't physically hide it any more....
It would have war if we told anyone before we told her. She is very insecure and sensitive. However, she is not sensitive of others. When I was 4 weeks and going through lab draws one of my levels was a tad low so I had to go several times to have it drawn. She asked why I had to go so much so I told her and her response was "well if you have a miscarriage at least you weren't too pregnant." Ummmm...... Since then, I don't say much to her.
Symptoms: bloating (I don't even try to button my pants anymore)
Rants/Raves/Stories: After missing the large conference last month due to our IVF cycle, I am excited to be joining some fellow friends at a local conference this week.
Questions for the group? What is everyone doing to help minimize the constipation. I have heard miralax and am at the point that I am going to need to do something soon.
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? dirty blonde (mostly natural) I get a few highlights put in 2x per year just to spice it up.
Symptoms: bloating (I don't even try to button my pants anymore)
Rants/Raves/Stories: After missing the large conference last month due to our IVF cycle, I am excited to be joining some fellow friends at a local conference this week.
Questions for the group? What is everyone doing to help minimize the constipation. I have heard miralax and am at the point that I am going to need to do something soon.
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? dirty blonde (mostly natural) I get a few highlights put in 2x per year just to spice it up.
ugh, no suggestions about constipation because I have, um, the opposite issue.
rjpegg I had a couple days where I was stopped up. I upped my water intake and that seems to have helped. I already eat tons of fiber, but you might check that too before trying medication.
Week: 5
Symptoms: sore boobs, dull cramping, nausea (esp later in the day), very tired, heightened sense of smell
Rants/Raves/Stories: We are taking my son to Disney World right around my 21st week, and if it's a girl, I'm buying every Disney princess costume there is for infants. Sorry not sorry.
Questions for the group? How do you plan on announcing your pregnancy on social media? I'm thinking of doing a photo of my son hugging me and holding a sonogram pic saying "my parents thought I was so cute that they made another." Or is that tacky? I don't know. My mind is already mushy.
What is your hair color and is it natural? It's bright blonde and very unnatural.
Married 9/17/11
BFP 10/5/13
DS Oliver Stephen born 6/11/14 via C-section 8 lbs 9 oz
BFP 8/14/15
@rjpegg drink warm water with fresh lemon juice every morning. It will make you head for the can every time. Oatmeal and fiber one bars help me too (but drink a ton of extra water or it will clog you up even worse!)
Married 9/17/11
BFP 10/5/13
DS Oliver Stephen born 6/11/14 via C-section 8 lbs 9 oz
BFP 8/14/15
Symptoms: Sore Boobies, ALL day sickness, super exhausted, and a little cramping here and there.
Rants/Raves/Stories: So tired of not being able to eat. I love food, so I am in a shitty mood since I haven't eaten an actual meal since like last Friday.
Questions for the group? Anyone else having a totally opposite pregnancy?!
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? (stealing from a TTGP thread this week) Im blond. Naturally a sandy blond and after letting it grow for 5 months I just went in and put a few highlights to lighten it a little : )
I'm not sure yet how we'll announce in on fb. Depends on whether we find out the sex early or not - if we know, I'd like to post a picture of all of us, including my stepsons, in our cowboy boots (we all got a pair for our wedding in February) with the empty baby boots next to ours. If we don't know, then I'm not sure yet. My first trimester is up right before DH's birthday, so I might do something related to that.
Symptoms: ughh where do I start? Bloating, constipation, stuffy nose, intense hunger, waves of slight nausea. I will say the nausea is lots better than it was a few weeks ago, yay!
R/R/S: my appt earlier this week was canceled, but I have a new one for next week! And I'm counting down the weeks till 2nd trimester!
Questions: none right now
GTKY: my hair is very dark brown, and it is not natural. My natural color is a dark blonde.
Rants/Raves/Stories: I really just cannot wait for the magic of second tri.
Questions for the group? Nope
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? (stealing from a TTGP thread this week) - Brown. It's naturally brown, but I'm going gray so I have to color it
@rjpegg I had this same problem almost 2 weeks ago. It was so bad I was doubled over in pain and called the doctor. They said up the intake of water and fiber and if I still need something to try colace stool softener. I tried that stuff and it worked like a charm! It took 10 hours but I haven't had a problem since then!
Symptoms: exhausted, nausea has started this week, but no vomitting yet! Food aversions are starting up. Boobs are big and sore.
Rants/Raves/Stories: still managing to keep this baby a secret! Have to hang out with my inlaws tomorrow though, so hopefully they don't notice!
Questions for the group? How are your clothes fitting?
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? (stealing from a TTGP thread this week) natural light brown.
Clothes fitting? What is that?? LOL let's just say I'm glad most of my clothes are stretchy and that I already bought a couple bella bands off another mama.
Symptoms: Some intermittent nausea, heightened smell and taste, definitely food aversions. Oh- and all I want to do is lay in bed for the next six hours.
Rants/Raves/Stories: This is my boyfriend's first child, and my second. His older sister has a toddler who we see a lot. He's very excited to "have one of his own", as he puts it- but I just think he's being too mushy and clingy. He says I'm just being mean. I just don't want to be hugged and kissed every 60 seconds. Okay???
Questions for the group? If any of you have multiples, how did you tell your first child when you were pregnant with #2? How old was #1 when you told them? How did they react? DS is 4.5 and I'm worried he'll tell me I can't have a baby. xD
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? (stealing from a TTGP thread this week) I am au naturale! I'm a medium-dark brown, nothing fun.
@katieg2013 my clothes aren't fitting well at all. The bloat came right away, although this is my 2nd pregnancy and I've heard it's common in subsequent pregnancies to puff up sooner. I'm still wearing my regular shirts but the pants? Forget it. I dug out my maternity pants already. Can't deal with the waistband anymore.
Married 9/17/11
BFP 10/5/13
DS Oliver Stephen born 6/11/14 via C-section 8 lbs 9 oz
BFP 8/14/15
Symptoms: Some intermittent nausea, heightened smell and taste, definitely food aversions. Oh- and all I want to do is lay in bed for the next six hours.
Rants/Raves/Stories: This is my boyfriend's first child, and my second. His older sister has a toddler who we see a lot. He's very excited to "have one of his own", as he puts it- but I just think he's being too mushy and clingy. He says I'm just being mean. I just don't want to be hugged and kissed every 60 seconds. Okay???
Questions for the group? If any of you have multiples, how did you tell your first child when you were pregnant with #2? How old was #1 when you told them? How did they react? DS is 4.5 and I'm worried he'll tell me I can't have a baby. xD
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? (stealing from a TTGP thread this week) I am au naturale! I'm a medium-dark brown, nothing fun.
My son is 3.5 and he is very very excited!!!! I make a point to talk about all kinds of fun stuff that comes along with a sibling. He is excited about protecting his baby from mean kids. Hahaha. He comes up with some goofy stuff!
Symptoms: nausea has hit me this week. Feels like I'm gonna throw up every morning. I eat a piece of toast and it's usually better. But if my stomach doesn't have something in it... Gag city! Also boobs are pretty sore at times but that comes and goes.
R/R/S- my father in law is already driving me crazy trying to be involved with everything! I don't want to get all into it- he is just bugging me to no end right now.
Questions: going in for my first prenatal appointment on Monday (yay!!) at 7W3D- how possible do you think it is to see a heartbeat??
GTKY- right now I have a very subtle ombre thing going on. It's mostly for low maintenance reasons. Light brown on top and a dark blond/blond on bottom.
I saw a heartbeat at 7 weeks, 4 days. Hope you see one, too! But I do think it is perfectly normal if you don't
I am so hoping I get to see it! Trying not to expect too much though- keeping realistic thoughts.
Symptoms: Fatigue, woke up every 3 hours to pee last night, boobs: intermittent varying degrees of soreness, permanently bloated, random various come and go abdominal pains and sensations, vivid dreams, intense hunger
Rants/Raves/Stories: (This is going to be long, so sue me!) This one is a few weeks old but I haven't shared it yet and I'm still pissed off about it so: DH and I just moved cross country back to his hometown in June. We are staying with the IL until our house is ready, hopefully 09/01. A few weeks ago DH was preparing for a mud bog drag race and had 1 week to rebuild an engine in the evenings after work. He had been working real late on it every night. One day I had some strange pain that was pretty bad. I was really freaked out about it and spent all day stressing about if I was having an ectopic pregnancy and whether or not I should go to the ER. I was terrified and extremely stressed out. I did call my doctor and he said that it was probably normal early pregnancy stuff and that it was too early for an ectopic to present so not to worry about it yet, in the absence of any bleeding. The pain gradually eased off over the course of the day and was completely gone by evening. I was mentally and physically exhausted and pretty much a wreck. I was relaxing in a recliner in the living room after dinner. I told the MIL everything that had happened that day and how I was feeling. DH came in from the garage and asked what was for dinner. I told him steak and salad, and he asked where the salad was. I told him that it was in the basement fridge. He then went to the washroom to wash up and the MIL out of no where freaks out at me "Go get the salad for your husband! He's tired and stressed out and you need to serve him! We need to take care of our husbands!" I was completely blown away. Here I was stressing out over a possible ectopic pregnancy and she has the audacity to tell me that DH is tired and stressed out! I was like "Are you kidding me?" and shut myself up in our room. She offered a flimsy apology a week later since I had basically stopped talking to her. And I'm still mad because I had been counting on her for empathy and support. The end.
Questions for the group? I got nothing!
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? Sandy blonde/light brown all natural, haven't dyed since grade 7.
Symptoms: light cramping, nasuea, and I'm soooooooo tired all the time. And hungry. I find myself constantly hungry
Rants/Raves/Stories: nothing really rant worthy. I just found out Wednesday I was pregnant. I have more worries than rants. I worry about my numbers doubling and I worry about how things will go once we have the baby and we aren't even close yet! Lol
Questions for the group? None at the moment.
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? I'm very blonde and its very natural lol
Symptoms: exhaustion, sore swollen boobs, I go from being fine to starving in a split second. I get heart burn but only at night when I lay down for bed.
Rants/Raves/Stories: I have a wedding next week Saturday and I went to my final dress fitting and now my dress doesn't fit at all. My hips and my boobs are too big. I literally sob in David's bridal because of it.
Questions for the group? When did people tell their family? We still haven't.
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? (stealing from a TTGP thread this week) I'm a red head but I have some highlights in it.
Symptoms: boobs are so big and hurting. Intense nausea when it's humid. TIRED.ALL.THE.TIME
Rants/Raves/Stories: Told my parents and inlaws. Everyone was so excired. But it started this crazy argument between DH and I because my mom asked (very nicely and not in an intense or controlling way) if she could be in the delivery room. She was a single mom and raised me alone, so I said sure if she was out of the way but that I may change my mind later bc I'm not really thinking that far ahead. (didn't think anything of it) well DH flipped when we got home, that it should be just us and he's insecure that I would need my mom to be there for me when we should go through it together. I totally get his side but now I'm crazy torn about what to do. NEVER even considered it would be such a huge deal.
Questions for the group? Nope.
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? (stealing from a TTGP thread this week) It's currenrly dark brown which is not my natural color which is dirty blonde. However since I got pregnant the color has been coming out so fast!! (My hair is coming out like crazy too) so blonde roots are slowing growing out
Re: Friday ticker change
Symptoms: morning sickness is back with a vengeance! I need to find some better ginger stuff. Still super bloated. Some lightheadedness, but that might be the allergy med I had to switch to.
Rants/Raves/Stories: So sick of the bloat. I haven't changed my eating AT ALL, have (obviously) cut out alcohol, and have still been exercising, and I've gained something like 5 or 6 pounds. It seems to have slowed down this week, at least.
Rant #2 have to go to a bday dinner for DH's uncle tonight, at this nasty pizza dive that his family loves. It smells like nasty grease. Not looking forward to that, at all.
Questions for the group? I've seen a lot of discussion here and on 1st tri about the panorama/materniti21 blood tests. Has anyone had that done? Are there any downsides besides small chance of false positives?
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? (stealing from a TTGP thread this week) Mine is currently dark blond/light brown. Close to natural color, but I have highlights right now since I've been slowly changing from red. I miss the red, though, so might go back in the fall.
Symptoms: nausea has hit me this week. Feels like I'm gonna throw up every morning. I eat a piece of toast and it's usually better. But if my stomach doesn't have something in it... Gag city! Also boobs are pretty sore at times but that comes and goes.
R/R/S- my father in law is already driving me crazy trying to be involved with everything! I don't want to get all into it- he is just bugging me to no end right now.
Questions: going in for my first prenatal appointment on Monday (yay!!) at 7W3D- how possible do you think it is to see a heartbeat??
GTKY- right now I have a very subtle ombre thing going on. It's mostly for low maintenance reasons. Light brown on top and a dark blond/blond on bottom.
Symptoms: so much bloat, sore boobs (but they aren't terrible, very manageable), nausea- although I actually threw up for the first time yesterday. Mostly just dry heaving or general icky-ness. My nose is just incredibly stuffy, which makes it difficult to sleep. Generally, though, I feel mostly good and very fortunate that I haven't been totally knocked down.
Rants/Raves/Stories: there are a lot of stupid questions on these boards and I am tired of them getting shut down for being "mean". We are all adults and should be able to tell someone they need to fart and they can't feel their baby move at 4 weeks.
Questions for the group? nope
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? (stealing from a TTGP thread this week): dark brown
Symptoms: nothing too much actually. I am NOT hungry, which was what happened during 1st trimester of last baby too.
Rants/Raves/Stories: I just moved into a new house and found the box of my pregnancy clothes from last time. Although I'm not ready for them, it totally made my day!
Questions for the group? Not a question, but more of a statement - don't take me to heart if I hurt your feelings. I'm a realist that is bad about bedside manner. For example, my DD was an asshole this morning because I wouldn't let her wear 2 different shoes to daycare. She screamed the whole way there and then called me a banana. I love that kid but seriously, she might kill me. So - if saying stuff life that offends you, sorry in advance ;;)
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? (stealing from a TTGP thread this week) - Blonde. It used to be white but has "darkened" to regular blonde now
Week: 8!!
Symptoms: Oh man, I don't want to even get started. Let's just say... I managed to brush my teeth and get dressed before noon today ;p
Rants/Raves/Stories: I'm annoyed by my mil and I'm done talking to her about pregnancy stuff. She is so negative and I just don't need that right now.
Questions for the group?
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? (stealing from a TTGP thread this week) Strawberry blonde and it's natural. I have never dyed my hair!
It would have war if we told anyone before we told her. She is very insecure and sensitive.
However, she is not sensitive of others. When I was 4 weeks and going through lab draws one of my levels was a tad low so I had to go several times to have it drawn. She asked why I had to go so much so I told her and her response was "well if you have a miscarriage at least you weren't too pregnant."
Ummmm......
Since then, I don't say much to her.
Symptoms: bloating (I don't even try to button my pants anymore)
Rants/Raves/Stories: After missing the large conference last month due to our IVF cycle, I am excited to be joining some fellow friends at a local conference this week.
Questions for the group? What is everyone doing to help minimize the constipation. I have heard miralax and am at the point that I am going to need to do something soon.
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? dirty blonde (mostly natural) I get a few highlights put in 2x per year just to spice it up.
Symptoms: heartburn and exhaustion
Rants/Raves/Stories:
Questions for the group? I'm having a hard time finding energy to announce this pregnancy. Anyone else???
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? (stealing from a TTGP thread this week) I'm blonde! It is definitely not natural.
Symptoms: Sore Boobies, ALL day sickness, super exhausted, and a little cramping here and there.
Rants/Raves/Stories: So tired of not being able to eat. I love food, so I am in a shitty mood since I haven't eaten an actual meal since like last Friday.
Questions for the group? Anyone else having a totally opposite pregnancy?!
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? (stealing from a TTGP thread this week) Im blond. Naturally a sandy blond and after letting it grow for 5 months I just went in and put a few highlights to lighten it a little : )
I'm not sure yet how we'll announce in on fb. Depends on whether we find out the sex early or not - if we know, I'd like to post a picture of all of us, including my stepsons, in our cowboy boots (we all got a pair for our wedding in February) with the empty baby boots next to ours. If we don't know, then I'm not sure yet. My first trimester is up right before DH's birthday, so I might do something related to that.
Week: 4
Symptoms: Bloat, sore boobs, light cramping
Rants/Raves/Stories: This week has been awful at work and I have really wanted a Corona w/ a lime soooo bad
Questions for the group? Nope
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? (stealing from a TTGP thread this week) Blonde....Natural... haha NO !
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Symptoms: ughh where do I start? Bloating, constipation, stuffy nose, intense hunger, waves of slight nausea. I will say the nausea is lots better than it was a few weeks ago, yay!
R/R/S: my appt earlier this week was canceled, but I have a new one for next week! And I'm counting down the weeks till 2nd trimester!
Questions: none right now
GTKY: my hair is very dark brown, and it is not natural. My natural color is a dark blonde.
Week: 6
Symptoms: sore boobs, some nausea, exhaustion
Rants/Raves/Stories: I really just cannot wait for the magic of second tri.
Questions for the group? Nope
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? (stealing from a TTGP thread this week) - Brown. It's naturally brown, but I'm going gray so I have to color it
Symptoms: exhausted, nausea has started this week, but no vomitting yet! Food aversions are starting up. Boobs are big and sore.
Rants/Raves/Stories: still managing to keep this baby a secret! Have to hang out with my inlaws tomorrow though, so hopefully they don't notice!
Questions for the group? How are your clothes fitting?
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? (stealing from a TTGP thread this week) natural light brown.
Symptoms: Bloating is really it. I feel like it's much earlier than last time.
Rants/Raves/Stories: Still keep everything under wraps for now with our friends and family. Still trying to decide how we're going to tell everyone.
Questions for the group?
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? (stealing from a TTGP thread this week) Naturally red and no color
BFP 8.14.15 ~~ Due 4.22.16
Symptoms: Some intermittent nausea, heightened smell and taste, definitely food aversions. Oh- and all I want to do is lay in bed for the next six hours.
Rants/Raves/Stories: This is my boyfriend's first child, and my second. His older sister has a toddler who we see a lot. He's very excited to "have one of his own", as he puts it- but I just think he's being too mushy and clingy. He says I'm just being mean. I just don't want to be hugged and kissed every 60 seconds. Okay???
Questions for the group? If any of you have multiples, how did you tell your first child when you were pregnant with #2? How old was #1 when you told them? How did they react? DS is 4.5 and I'm worried he'll tell me I can't have a baby. xD
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? (stealing from a TTGP thread this week) I am au naturale! I'm a medium-dark brown, nothing fun.
I am so hoping I get to see it! Trying not to expect too much though- keeping realistic thoughts.
Week: 8
Symptoms: Fatigue, woke up every 3 hours to pee last night, boobs: intermittent varying degrees of soreness, permanently bloated, random various come and go abdominal pains and sensations, vivid dreams, intense hunger
Rants/Raves/Stories: (This is going to be long, so sue me!) This one is a few weeks old but I haven't shared it yet and I'm still pissed off about it so: DH and I just moved cross country back to his hometown in June. We are staying with the IL until our house is ready, hopefully 09/01. A few weeks ago DH was preparing for a mud bog drag race and had 1 week to rebuild an engine in the evenings after work. He had been working real late on it every night. One day I had some strange pain that was pretty bad. I was really freaked out about it and spent all day stressing about if I was having an ectopic pregnancy and whether or not I should go to the ER. I was terrified and extremely stressed out. I did call my doctor and he said that it was probably normal early pregnancy stuff and that it was too early for an ectopic to present so not to worry about it yet, in the absence of any bleeding. The pain gradually eased off over the course of the day and was completely gone by evening. I was mentally and physically exhausted and pretty much a wreck. I was relaxing in a recliner in the living room after dinner. I told the MIL everything that had happened that day and how I was feeling. DH came in from the garage and asked what was for dinner. I told him steak and salad, and he asked where the salad was. I told him that it was in the basement fridge. He then went to the washroom to wash up and the MIL out of no where freaks out at me "Go get the salad for your husband! He's tired and stressed out and you need to serve him! We need to take care of our husbands!" I was completely blown away. Here I was stressing out over a possible ectopic pregnancy and she has the audacity to tell me that DH is tired and stressed out! I was like "Are you kidding me?" and shut myself up in our room. She offered a flimsy apology a week later since I had basically stopped talking to her. And I'm still mad because I had been counting on her for empathy and support. The end.
Questions for the group? I got nothing!
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? Sandy blonde/light brown all natural, haven't dyed since grade 7.
Symptoms: light cramping, nasuea, and I'm soooooooo tired all the time. And hungry. I find myself constantly hungry
Rants/Raves/Stories: nothing really rant worthy. I just found out Wednesday I was pregnant. I have more worries than rants. I worry about my numbers doubling and I worry about how things will go once we have the baby and we aren't even close yet! Lol
Questions for the group? None at the moment.
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? I'm very blonde and its very natural lol
Symptoms: exhaustion, sore swollen boobs, I go from being fine to starving in a split second. I get heart burn but only at night when I lay down for bed.
Rants/Raves/Stories: I have a wedding next week Saturday and I went to my final dress fitting and now my dress doesn't fit at all. My hips and my boobs are too big. I literally sob in David's bridal because of it.
Questions for the group? When did people tell their family? We still haven't.
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? (stealing from a TTGP thread this week) I'm a red head but I have some highlights in it.
Week: 8
Symptoms: boobs are so big and hurting. Intense nausea when it's humid. TIRED.ALL.THE.TIME
Rants/Raves/Stories: Told my parents and inlaws. Everyone was so excired. But it started this crazy argument between DH and I because my mom asked (very nicely and not in an intense or controlling way) if she could be in the delivery room. She was a single mom and raised me alone, so I said sure if she was out of the way but that I may change my mind later bc I'm not really thinking that far ahead. (didn't think anything of it) well DH flipped when we got home, that it should be just us and he's insecure that I would need my mom to be there for me when we should go through it together. I totally get his side but now I'm crazy torn about what to do. NEVER even considered it would be such a huge deal.
Questions for the group? Nope.
GTKY: What is your hair color and is it natural? (stealing from a TTGP thread this week)
It's currenrly dark brown which is not my natural color which is dirty blonde. However since I got pregnant the color has been coming out so fast!! (My hair is coming out like crazy too) so blonde roots are slowing growing out