So I have this friend who is like I have to have a gender/sex reveal party. At first I wanted one but I think they are cute. I have my 20 week appointment all set where I will find out the sex, however now the appointment is on a Tuesday morning and the weekend of that week I will be gone with my husband attending a family wedding. Also we are dying to know and will want to tell everyone right away. I told my friend this and she is like let's do it during the week and I'm like wait, what? I don't think that it will work, trying to gather people and plus my husband doesn't get off work until 6pm and then gets home around 6:45pm, we like to hang out at home during the week and relax.
We can have it at a restaurant but it just seems so difficult and then it is an another expense to pay for food, decorations ,etc. She says she will plan even though I don't need help with that since I'm a planner but I don't want to have to pay a lot and I'm sure she would offer to help pay which I would not let her do either.
Is it rude of me to put my foot down and say No? I know she is excited, I'm one of the first of our friends to have a baby but now that my appointment is during the week and taking place a week later than I thought, it just seems more complicated and just too much. I don't know if I even want it anymore.