I think they are both cute names. I personally would go with Milana. I don't take siblings names into consideration unless it comes down to them being suspiciously matchy-matchy. Ie. My step kids both have biblical names. Which is not my personal style. So I was very surprised when I got pregnant that I started to LOVE Naomi. I just can't do it, I can't have 3 kids with biblical names! It's too matchy-matchy!
Since I'm assuming you are due in January I have to go with Milana. What about like a Shannon or something similar?
Me: 30 DH: 31 Married: 2012 BFP #1 Sept 2014, MMC Dec 2014 | BFP #2 May 2015, DD Jan 2016 | BFP #3 May 2017, MC July 2017 | BFP #4 Jan 2018, MC Feb 2018 | BFP #5 July 2018, fingers crossed
Re: Can't decide between two very different girl names
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Baby boy born 01/2016
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Married: 2012
BFP #1 Sept 2014, MMC Dec 2014 | BFP #2 May 2015, DD Jan 2016 | BFP #3 May 2017, MC July 2017 | BFP #4 Jan 2018, MC Feb 2018 | BFP #5 July 2018, fingers crossed
DD 12/20/99, DS 12/14/12, M/C 9/2014, M/C 1/2015