October 2015 Moms

So annoyed!

Anyone else's significant other just getting on your nerves at this point?! My fiancé and I get along great but sometimes I just cannot deal! I'm in the nesting phase and he will seriously go behind me and mess up what I just cleaned!!!! Grrrr. I can definitely tell my hormones are raging!

Re: So annoyed!

  • Oh yeah. My DH is soooo close to me taking the graphics card out of his computer. He doesnt even take out the damn trash when its full because all he does is stare at his monitor. Good luck playing games on your integrated card, dear. Ugh.
    Priorities are way off lately. I try not to nag too much but gosh darnit if there's milk in the trash i dont want it stinking up the place for a week.

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  • I was just venting about this today! I feel my DH and I normally are able to talk things out and work great as a team. Currently 9 times out of 10 I want to rip his head off! I was with my family at the beach yesterday (he had something work related to do and could not go), I came home and he hadn't done a thing and had the guys over! All that needed done was clothes folded and the garbage taken out!!!! Come on now! Thank goodness I'm not alone in feeling this way!
  • As much as I wish I wasn't a single mom, part of me is so glad I don't have to deal with my baby's father on a daily basis. I told him multiple times with a 3 week heads up about the date & time of my next ultrasound since he wanted to be there for it. The day of, he texts me and asks what I was doing that day. So when I told him I was getting ready to go to the US appointment, he asked what time -_-
    I damn near lost my mind & he ended up not showing up. I don't know how many times I repeat myself to him & tell him to write down dates & times of appointments but he always manages to "forget" and then gets upset that I stopped telling him about my appointments.
  • Ugh yes! I've been asking my fiance to help put the crib together for over a week now and I keep getting "I'll do it tomorrow" all he does in his free time is play his stupid PS4 while I am busting ass putting the baby's room together. Its so annoying.
  • I've been really irritable lately and it annoys me touches me. I just don't want to be touched right now. He's also been on this kick where he likes to point out if I don't do something or eat some leftovers like I say I will. I want to punch him every time he says "I told you so." What is he? 7? X(
  • I had a more difficult time with this sort of thing with my first pregnancy. DH is really supportive most of the time, but going through pregnancy was just an entirely different realm for us, and he didn't really "get it" yet. He'd say and do things that I thought were selfish and uncaring considering what I was going through with pregnancy, and I found myself feeling really upset once in awhile that he couldn't understand my experience. Once we went through L&D plus recovery, I think he really got it! This second pregnancy has been great with his support, and I think it is just harder for our SOs to connect as well to this part of the process since they don't have that wiggly LO inside as a reminder! I hope you two find a good balance of support!
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  • I am so glad that it's not just me !!! It's my fiancée and his whole family I can't stand right now. Like please move your shit outta my house so we can get LO's room ready and get my house deep cleaned. And oh I forgot fix the HUGE hole in the ceiling from where the "water fairy" came to visit, plus patch the hole in LO's room.... I swear I am going to rip someone's head off! And i hope LO doesn't come early... Maybe then he will realize this shit is getting real.... Ugh oh and I forgot I am due October 5th( it's a Monday) he is doing a 100 mile bike rider or MS on Sat October 3rd... Enough said... And he keeps putting off excerising for it... Yea why do I feel like he will be in south NJ and I will be delivering by my self.... End rant! :(( :-t
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