I'm sure there are others of you out there who are being seen by doctors in a group practice, right? The practice I go to is 3 OBs and a midwife, and while there is one doctor who is my "primary" it's not guaranteed that she is going to be the one on call when it comes time to deliver my baby. After next week I will have officially met all of the practitioners in the group, but I still only feel like I have a relationship with one of them. I'd like to have an intervention-free birth if possible and my primary doctor is very supportive of this, but I am anxious about possibly having to advocate for myself with a doctor I've only met once or twice. How are you all handling this?
Re: Anxiety re: delivering with a group practice
I'm not overly worried about it because most people who go into a practice together will agree on those things. All my midwives are interested in doing things as naturally as possible.
If you're worried about it, make sure you have a birth plan set and give it to the doctor so it's in your file and all the doctors know what you want.
Also remember that there are certain things that are hospital policy, not doctors. So things like IVs and monitoring you might not have a choice about, even if it is your doctor on call.
I have very quick labors and with my first, I wasn't in the hospital long and the doctor walked in just in time to catch the baby. It was my doc, but I at the time I really wouldn't have known the difference. With my second, I was induced starting at 8am and the first time I saw my doc was when she broke my water at 2pm. My daughter was born 40 minutes later and my doc didn't make it back in time, so she was delivered by the nurses.
Honestly once I was on labor I cared a lot less who the dr was then I did for the rest of the pregnancy.
If you're truly concerned about giving birth with someone you trust and having as little medical intervention as possible I suggest getting a doula. From what I've heard and read they can be a great tool to help give you the confidence you need. Check with your practice to see if they recommend anyone-mine gave me a short list of approved doulas.