November 2015 Moms

Stranger Danger - Surname announcements and other personal information

Although it is often helpful when we're asking advice on names for our new children, telling anyone with an internet connection your last name could be dangerous.  Many of us provide personal details such as our first and last names, first and last names of our children and their gender, when our partners are out of town or if we're single, the type of car we drive, even our city.  Some of us forget to crop photos which includes the name of our doctors and even our addresses.  I am sure that everyone in this forum is lovely and means me no harm, but I am not comfortable trusting my life and that of my family on that feeling. 

Just a PSA, please be aware of the information you're putting out there and how it could possibly be used for bad purposes. 
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Re: Stranger Danger - Surname announcements and other personal information

  • This is worth bumping. I've seen a couple ultra sound pics with names on them! Be safe ladies and double check if there is any sensitive information in your photo before sharing it online!
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  • Thank you for posting this. It is a really important message for us all. Stay safe, ladies!
  • Reddit's baby bump community had issues with some random group who was using their bump photos on a porn fetishist blog. Definitely keep as much private as possible, who knows who may be lurking? Especially in those threads I've seen specific to cities.
  • THANK YOU. Nothing on this site is private or requires membership to read.

    Discussions on this site also come up with simple Google searches of various topics. 
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  • fitmomma1989fitmomma1989 member
    edited May 2015
    Accidental post! **
    & I did create a new user name for this reason but i am not signed into the bump! Gr
  • It doesn't take much these days to track someone down either.
    If you've mentioned your city and your last name creeps can probably find you.
  • LSRooLSRoo member
    Pontot31 said:

    EllaStaxx said:

    I think this is a great post but I find it funny how it was already mentioned months ago when the first ultrasounds were posted and whoever said "hide your personal info" was called "mean" and "rude". Smh.

    So true.
    I'm still shocked that in 2015 people are so naive about the internet.
    I specifically remember one person saying "and what exactly do you think people are going to find out from your name or linked in accound?"
  • I'm small town with an odd last name. Super easy to find this gal.
  • edited May 2015
    EllaStaxx said:

    Pontot31 said:

    EllaStaxx said:

    I think this is a great post but I find it funny how it was already mentioned months ago when the first ultrasounds were posted and whoever said "hide your personal info" was called "mean" and "rude". Smh.

    So true.
    I'm still shocked that in 2015 people are so naive about the internet.
    I specifically remember one person saying "and what exactly do you think people are going to find out from your name or linked in accound?"



    If we aren't talking about the same incident, same thing happened on S15 and the person who gave the warning was banned. Out of curiosity, I looked up member she was talking to, and found her home address and what she paid for the house last year. She also gave her husband's employer, which I Thought was dumbest of all.
  • thanks for reminder mom :)
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  • Depending on the state, you can also pull up vital records (births, deaths, marriage license, etc). And court records. Some of those docs will give you a phone number, address, parents' names, and all kinds of other crap you don't really waaaant strangers on the internet to be able to find on you. All you need is a name.

    My name, first and last, are ridiculously common so if you Google my name you get a million results, even in my city, but I'm also not a moron and have no intentions of telling you people my name.
  • VexyMommyVexyMommy member
    edited May 2015
    I'm sorry. I didn't realize this was a repost. I've just noticed a lot of people mentioning last names lately.
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  • urby87urby87 member
    I did provide my married surname on a name thread (without my first name), but I have not officially taken that name; I only use it socially.  And I rarely use my first name, even in real life.  IF one were to find out my first name, the only thing they'd find attached to my married name would be my nail blog or my Facebook page (which is private, so there's really not much to see).
  • EllaStaxx said:

    VexyMommy said:

    I'm sorry. I didn't realize this was a repost. I've just noticed a lot of people mentioning last names lately.

    No it was over a month ago. It needed to be said again.
    Agreed. Also, your title is cute. 
  • Bumping! Thank you for this post! I have cropped mine but I know sometimes, it just doesn't cross the mind and once it's here, it becomes public!
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  • EllaStaxx said:

    VexyMommy said:

    I'm sorry. I didn't realize this was a repost. I've just noticed a lot of people mentioning last names lately.

    No it was over a month ago. It needed to be said again.
    Agreed. Also, your title is cute. 
    Thanks.  lol.  It's something I've drilled into my 9yr olds head.  She used to go up to anyone anywhere and hug them.  It's adorable, but scary as hell how trusting people can be.
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  • EllsmacEllsmac member
    edited August 2015
    So, also a reminder along the same lines: registries. We started an amazon registry ... Marked it as private and asked that it not be shared with the bump - or so we thought. For whatever reason - whether we changed our setting a minute too late or whatever or whether there was just a breakdown in the system
    -
    Anyone googling our name could fine 1)my first and last name; 2) my husband's first and last name, 3) city and state; and 4) due date.

    From
    City assessor records - it would also be pretty easy to get our address with that info- basically someone could
    Know exactly where a newborn baby would be... And when.

    Ugh.

    So just a reminder - whether you choose to make registries public or not - check to see what info is out there online about you and your impending LO. Even if you subsequently mark a registry as "private"
    Apparently the info can still be out there.


    Amazon was great about taking the info down and working with the bump and google to do the same (it was still showing in google
    Search results even after deleting the registry).

    A long way of saying - please be careful ladies!

    Ps: while we think we did everything we could to make the registry private at the time we set it up- it's possible we did it immediately after setting it up- either way, we did not think our info would be out on the internet. I am not trying to make folks paranoid- just aware.
  • Ellsmac said:

    So, also a reminder along the same lines: registries. We started an amazon registry ... Marked it as private and asked that it not be shared with the bump - or so we thought. For whatever reason - whether we changed our setting a minute too late or whatever or whether there was just a breakdown in the system
    -
    Anyone googling our name could fine 1)my first and last name; 2) my husband's first and last name, 3) city and state; and 4) due date.

    From
    City assessor records - it would also be pretty easy to get our address with that info- basically someone could
    Know exactly where a newborn baby would be... And when.

    Ugh.

    So just a reminder - whether you choose to make registries public or not - check to see what info is out there online about you and your impending LO. Even if you subsequently mark a registry as "private"
    Apparently the info can still be out there.


    Amazon was great about taking the info down and working with the bump and google to do the same (it was still showing in google
    Search results even after deleting the registry).

    A long way of saying - please be careful ladies!

    Yikes! I just googled ours and sure enough it came up! But it came up under "amazing registries" and our target one we originally started and our babies r us one popped up under that specific website. I dunno what amazing registries is but this kinda makes me mad. I'm not sure how to fix it either. Ugh! Our home address is on both registries! Thank you for the heads up.
  • It may just be a function of being extremelycareful with privacy settings (we thought we had been) and not allowing the vendor to share with third parties. I don't know why it happened exactly :/
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