So I have a 2 year old who sleeps in his own room in a convertible crib. We haven't even converted it yet since he has a tendency to be awake intermittently at night and moves EVERY which way in his sleep. Keeping the bars up seems safest yet and gives me the most peace of mind.
That said, when this baby boy arrives in 3 months I fully expect him to spend way more time sleeping in my room than my older one did. There's no way they could be in the same room! He'll be with me for longer I'm sure.
I have a pack in play i used before. But I'd really like something I can place right next to my bed and that has some kind of soothing movement. I'm thinking a glider. Does anyone else let their baby actually sleep in a glider overnight??? How has that worked for you? What brand/model? Is that safe? My husband was crazy stressed about the swing we had for our first and worried he wasn't reclined enough to breath. He stressed me out!
Re: Glider Next to My Bed for 2nd Baby Due November?
When you say "glider" I picture a rocking chair type thing and I can't imagine anyone having a baby sleep on that. I guess I'm not understanding what you consider a glider.
I used a Rock n Play (pictured above) for my second child and it was amazing. Babies usually hate sleeping flat so the RnP was perfect for her. Your husband is right in al way. Experts don't recommend using swings, RnP's or similar items for long periods of sleep but I was comfortable having my DD in there. Car seats are especially unsafe for sleep because the airway can get cut off.
You can get a small bassinet for like $100 at target - we got a precious plain white one with a hood and mobile and it's perfect for right by the bed. You're supposed to transition them out of that and into a crib once they can roll over.
They also make pack-and plays with a newborn napper attachment if that's an option for you. They're pretty large though.