is anyone planning on bringing anything for the nursing staff at the hospital? Or are there any nurses here who have had really thoughtful gifts given to them?
I've heard of baking cookies, bringing a basket of healthy snacks or ordering a few pizzas for them... Any other ideas? I can only think of food related things! Lol
Re: Nursing staff gifts?
One patient brought me flowers, a store bought cupcake, and a heartfelt card, and I literally cried.
09/28/2015- Surprise! Conrad and Hudson born at 35w6d!
Chocolate is appreciated but a lot of staff, myself included, can't eat chocolate.
Cards are also appreciated! Especially if you find the time to individually write one for the staff member who was most helpful. It actually is amazing to feel personally responsible for someone's joy.
@JessicaS0914 while i totally get where you're coming from and totally don't feel it's necessary to do anything extra for nurses, we always really appreciate it. I often work a 12 hr shift without a break, sometimes I only have time to run the the bathroom once (which is really tough when you're pregnant). I get yelled at for all sorts of things that are out of my control, and always maintain a professional attitude in response no matter how much it sucks. We end up with elbows deep in body fluids every single shift. Vomit. Feces. Urine. Blood. Often contaminated with some sort of infectious agent. Super fun stuff. We hold the hands of those who are dying. We comfort families. We support patient decisions even when that means fighting a nasty doctor. I could go on and on, but I'm sure you get the picture. And I, for one, love my job. I don't do it because a patient may say thank you (sooooo rare) or bring me some goodies (even more rare). I do it because I love it. Because it's my calling (cliche I know). So yes, it is silly to bring goodies to someone for just doing their job. It's unnecessary. But it is sooo sooo sooo appreciated (and sometimes it's the only time in 12+ hrs your nurse will eat). So if you are opposed to the idea of providing treats, please take a few seconds to write a thank you card or a note to the unit/manager letting them know what a great job your nurse did- it's better than chocolate (well, maybe...)
Oh, a thank you and a smile are an every day given from me.... Servers, checkout people..I don't care what you do, I always try to model politeness and respect for EVERYONE to my children. However, I think there are a lot of jobs out there that are tough and dirty and emotional. Maybe not as dirty, but I've worked as an airline agent. Screamed at, spat on, generally one of the most hated beings on the planet. I never expected to be given treats for giving good service. So I guess I just don't see why those in other fields expect them either, r how it is becoming some expectation perpetuated by others.
This is a great idea. I am just not sure how many nurses or staff will be in the unit when I got into L&D. I guess I could always wait until afterwards to write the thank you notes. I do like the idea of bringing in the Costco or BJ's size of muffins or treats!