Spice it Up

Chimes12 · August 2015

Stole from another board but seeing the responses from NHIE it could be entertaining:

Would you ever have a threesome? And if so, prefer FFM, FFF or MMF?

Disclosure: MMF does not need to involve guy on guy interaction.

If you have already tried any, feel free to share too.

minivanmafia · August 2015

Um no. I couldn't ever. Of course I've thought about it "fantasy" wise... But the hubs and I have talked about it in general after I've read a book or we have watched a movie and I (and we) agreed we couldn't do it.

MamaFroFro · August 2015

I have back in my college years but wouldn't again. It was fun, but I think I grew out of that sort of thing.

Twindling · August 2015

Nope nope and nope. Besides the fact that I would never do it, my H would be so upset for even asking.

And besides, I would never want to see my H have sexual relations with another woman and vice versa.

lilqt3929 · August 2015

No, I wouldn't. That would make me feel super uncomfortable and insecure, especially now that I'm married. I have nothing against anyone who has or would, stories are interesting but it's just not for me.

ashcody2 · August 2015

My husband and I participated in one back in college and it was fun at the time but definitely would not do that now - it was just a one time thing for us and now that we're married and have child(ren) it's just out of the question.

wisco29 · August 2015

Chimes12 said:
Stole from another board but seeing the responses from NHIE it could be entertaining:

Would you ever have a threesome? And if so, prefer FFM, FFF or MMF?

Disclosure: MMF does not need to involve guy on guy interaction.

If you have already tried any, feel free to share too.

Qfp (never know)

ohbaby714 · August 2015

Not in a million years. I could never stand to watch my husband be intimate with someone else. Even thinking about it makes me cringe.

DrillSergeantCat · August 2015

We've talked about it and it's definitely not off the table, just have bigger fish to fry right now.

wisco29 · August 2015

Never, I wouldn't feel comfortable with this at all and I couldn't imagine h being with anyone else!

We hAve only ever been with each other and no intentions of changing that

ohbaby714 · August 2015

wisco29 said:
Never, I wouldn't feel comfortable with this at all and I couldn't imagine h being with anyone else!

We hAve only ever been with each other and no intentions of changing that

Same here, I think because of that it just seems so much worse. I just can't imagine either one of us with someone else.

paytonpedro · August 2015

DH wants to... Like a fantasy thing. And we almost have with a friend of mine, but luckily didn't. I don't think I would be happy if I seen him intimate with someone else. Back when I was younger and not married I probably would have, given the opportunity. (FFM) def not with my husband, and def not now.

bookqueen · August 2015

I don't think I could ever handle DH being intimate with another person, it would end our marriage. So threesomes are definitely out of the question, but I do fantasize about MMF or FFM.

hlmdeck · August 2015

I thought about in my crazy college years before H and I were ever together. It would have had to be FFM and I would have probably had to be the 3rd, as I'm too jealous. The opportunity never arose, and if it had I STILL probably would have chickened out. Never, ever now. No way.

lrobb004 · August 2015

ohbaby714 said:

wisco29 said:
Never, I wouldn't feel comfortable with this at all and I couldn't imagine h being with anyone else!

We hAve only ever been with each other and no intentions of changing that
Same here, I think because of that it just seems so much worse. I just can't imagine either one of us with someone else.

This

hopes4baby · August 2015

I don't think it would work inside our relationship. However, if we ended up divorced at some point (heaven forbid) I would give those scenarios a try. At least once

g0lightly8706 · August 2015

Aw man I thought this would be about spicy foods

) in any event, definitely not. If I ever were to it would have had to happen before I met DH with two random people who I had no real feelings for. I'm not good at sharing..

Chimes12 · August 2015

I suppose to answer my own question, I had one with DH with one of our mutual gfs. Was a drunk experience that turned out to be fun with no regrets the next day. Everything stayed natural. With that being said, I would probably do it again in the future if the situation came up somehow.

I also had one in college that was mmf. Very different to try but was fun.

MrsJG3 · August 2015

Nope. That would be marriage death for us.

brushesnbrunch · August 2015

Nope. We've had those "what if scenario" conversations and I think I'd be too uncomfortable to ever try it.

AdventureMama · August 2015

Definitely not BUT I have thought about being with another woman, just fantasy-wise. I don't think I could handle seeing H with someone else, though, and anyway being with someone else (even with H involved) is against my morals.

dragonfly321 · August 2015

Had one when single and younger... FFM. was a lot of fun then, but Would never consider it now. I don't share and it would Be relationship death.

SoSweetTea1124 · August 2015

Could never, would never. My H brought it up jokingly when we first started dating and I jokingly agreed to do it, he freaked out and was like seriously!!?? We never broached the subject again.

mamaek · August 2015

I don't think either of us could. And plus, I've heard so many stories about the horrible aftermath.
It would also go completely against our beliefs. So no.
It was something I mayyybe would have done in college years with a random bf (thinking FFM).
But not now and not with my life partner.

Timmysgal02 · August 2015

For both of us it would be against our beliefs, my husband is gone for work a lot, when I do see him, I'm definitely not about to share him. I just couldn't!

mcollier2118 · August 2015

NOPE. Not only would I instantly regret the decision and want to Hulk out mid act due to jealousy but STDs are running rampant these days. Whether you know someone or not, you just never really KNOW.

MamaFroFro · August 2015

STDs... ((Shudder)) I hope I never have to date again!

VitaLuna · August 2015

All y'all over here talking MMF/FFM and I'm over here thinking, "yes! I DO love spicy food while pregnant! I just bought some chili garlic sauce today!" That's all the spice it up I need in my life anymore.

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