Well, DH and I are bravely tackling this issue. I am very slow and hesitant to engage in any kind of sex still, whereas DH has gone through every emotion from anger to sadness to some sort of depressed acceptance. I admit that I am totally hard nosed about it- outwardly I am compassionate but inwardly I am thinking, "big deal, get over it you big baby! It's not like it will be like this forever." He knows he shouldn't take it as a personal rejection, but sometimes he does. When it comes down to it, I love him to pieces and I'm glad he's attracted to me, and I'm glad he can be open and vulnerable. I hope in the not-too-distant future I'll be commenting on our newly rediscovered passionate sex life!
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