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Is this a symptom or am I just naturally this corny❤️

miritakomiritako member
in February 2016 Moms
My pregnancy was a surprise. I had only been dating my bf for two months. But we already loved each other and had decided to move in together and talked kids and marriage before we got pregnant.

When the surprise happened he was calm and collected and all in, which made me feel more secure.

But then I had to go away for 6 weeks and the distance hurt us a bit... It's hard because we are still just getting to know each other, but we have this big important thing that ties us together, so part of me feels like it HAS to work...

Cut to today, I've been back for two weeks, and I am sickeningly in love. The corniness I am exhibiting is totally new to me, and these feelings are ridiculously intense. I wonder is this hormones?? Do any of you feel more in love, or has your feelings deepened due to pregnancy?

I'm usually pretty level headed so this is new and even my family and friends are laughing at me...

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Re: Is this a symptom or am I just naturally this corny❤️

  • Monkeybutt80Monkeybutt80 member
    Congrats on your pregnancy and all the love you feel. I had been with my husband for too long when we had our first to be "sickeningly in love" but I definitely felt a huge change in my emotions starting with my first pregnancy. I never cried at anything sappy, no heart tugging commercials, no sad love stories. When my friends would share something they saw because it made them cry, I was the one who made a joke out of whatever they watched. it was so severe, I often wondered if I had some emotional disconnect or lacked empathy to the point I could be diagnosed. That all changed when I got pregnant with my first. 
    Now I am that sappy person that cries at commercials, sad stories and everything. It started when I got pregnant and it never went away. It's crazy!
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  • KiekKiek member
    First pregnancy, not so much lol. I adore my husband. He's my one and only. I knew it when we started dating. But my first pregnancy was tough on both of us. This pregnancy, totally different. Just last night I was lying in bed next to him like I always do and was thinking about how much we've been through and where we are now. I just can't imagine life without that man. I can't believe I get to wake up next to him every day. So, yeah I guess I'm feeling more mushy this time around lol.
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  • brushesnbrunchbrushesnbrunch member
    I'm not a very emotional person, I internalize it. Ever since getting pregnant I get teary eyed at everything. I started balling on Sunday while watching Trainwreck. Trainwreck of all movies! I get waves of gushiness throughout the day thinking about my husband, it's pretty ridiculous. I refuse to tell him about it because he's already got a big head..
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  • ashcody2ashcody2 member
    With my first pregnancy I was so head over heels in love with my husband, he was my fiance at the time actually - I think it was mainly because we thought we'd never have children. I was never on BC even after being together for 7 years at the time and we weren't actively trying but not really preventing either. 

    This time around, I think I am just more tired due to having a toddler - I love my husband of course and have brief moments of lovey dovey feelings during the day but not near as often as I did the first time around. 
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  • VitaLunaVitaLuna member
    I've been with my husband WAY to long to be "sickening in love". The only sickening thing in our relationship is that he insists on pooping with the door open (shut the damn door!).

    After my LO was born, I definitely had stronger feelings/love seeing him in daddy role. Some of those "strong feelings" were wanting to kill him in the middle of the night, though, for snoring while I was up with a screaming baby for the umpteenth time.

    So yeah, long term relationships and parenthood, they're great ;)

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  • bredollbredoll member
    My "sickening in love" ends at the fact that I haven't found a stick to poke him repeatedly with. But that is probably due to the fact that any sticks that fall in our yard get destroyed by our husky who thinks he is part beaver. Yes I love him, but the man drives me up a freaking wall most days. 

    I have been getting sappy and teary over stupid things like commercials, which makes my husband laugh in my face, thus adding to the feeling of finding a stick to poke him with. 
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  • miritakomiritako member
    I'm still not crying over things too much, but I do get the wanting to kill him mode... It's like I have an on and off switch, when I'm on its full steam ahead corny lovey dovey and when he pisses me off, it's murderous thoughts... Funny enough, when other people piss me off I don't experience them at all... It's like these strong feelings are reserved only for him...
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  • AchaeAchae member
    Well two months could still be honeymoon phase as they call it. Or it could be the rush of hormones, who knows! Either way it's enjoyable :)
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  • Adyer7Adyer7 member
    I've always been sickeningly in love with my husband and still am after nearly 10 years of marriage. This is our first and I've definitely felt even more connected. Pregnancy hormones definitely amp up all emotions. I cried today for absolutely no reason. Nothing wrong with being in love! Enjoy the time together before you have a little one to take care of!
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  • Timmysgal02Timmysgal02 member
    I don't think it's corny at all, and some people aren't fortunate enough to have that type of connection, so appreciate it and soak it up girl!
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  • miritakomiritako member
    @Timmysgal02 I will appreciate it!
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