July 2015 Moms

My birth story

NumajawaraNumajawara member
edited August 2015 in July 2015 Moms
Where do I start?!
First off, I miss you guys here on "The Bump" ! I haven't been able to catch up on the app like before!

I will never want go through induction again !( unless if I'm dying and its a must) ! So I went to the hospital at 6 am on Friday around 9 am got my first dose of cervidal? ( I think that's how you spell it) 4 hours later my doc checked my cervix (1cm) so my doc gave me my second but in the vagina at 1pm . Doc came back 4 hours later and I was in so much pain ! Contractions were coming back to back no breaks ! Sadly to say I was only 3 1/2 cm I started crying because I was exhausted and in pain. Plus I ended up with the worst nurse ever! I really hope she gets fired! At first I had an amazing nurse until her shift was over at 7pm and then my worst nightmare walks in! The first thing that bitch told me was "Oh, no epidural? Trust me you'll be begging for it later" that time my husband and my mom was in the room, we all looked at her like she had 2 heads. She never introduced herself to me nada, ! Fast forward to 1:00 am I was in the worst amount of pain and I started throwing up and she raised her voice at me for standing up to go throw up! After I finished I screamed at her like a mad woman lol I never screamed so loud to a stranger in my life ! But I felt so flipping better!!! Now it's 3 am and my baby is ready to come! This stupid nurse was focused on getting me to agree to get the epidural the whole time that she forgot to take out the table for me to deliver and the doctors were questioning her and asking me not to push yet all because the room wasn't set ! "Stupid Nurse" and I was so happy because she got "written up" by the doctor!! I finally pushed for 20 minutes and my baby girl was out ! 3:48 am No epidural. I was shaking uncontrollably... After all that chaos, I thought my nightmare was over; this nurse just didn't respect my birth plan at all... I specifically told her only breastfeeding and she tried talking me into formula.. I swear if I wasn't tied up to that IV machine we probably would have been brawling lol . I hate that nurse ! Anyways I'm happy I have my baby girl with me at the end of the day! I don't want to go through induction again because of the bad nurse I had and the amount of hours I had to be in the hospital!

Here's my beautiful daughter

Re: My birth story

  • eclohoecloho member
    edited August 2015
    Wow! Unbelievable! Congrats! I'm glad it's over
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  • Wow, what was up with that nurse?? Sounds like you did great, despite her behavior. Congrats on such a little beauty!!
  • Wow. That nurse is lucky you didn't deck her. That is completely inappropriate to try to persuade you into the epidural and then again with formula feeding.. just ridiculous that she wasn't respecting your wishes. But on the bright side you got a beautiful baby girl out of the whole ordeal! Congrats :)
  • Highly unprofessional and inappropriate for that nurse to treat you that way. I've never heard of a nurse pushing formula either, how strange. Both of my boys have been formula fed and I always got resistance in the hospital for it. The important thing is your baby is here, congratulations!

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  • So sorry you had to deal with that! People that are so unbelievably unprofessional does need written up.

    I had wonderful nurses but my doctor was a nightmare! I may share my story sometime,
    But I'm glad that in the end we both prevailed and got our awesome babies delivered the way we wanted!!
  • @Numajawara this made me think of your nurse lol
  • Oh wow! my nurse wasn't that bad but I hated mine as well. Even screamed it at them (they weren't in the room) during contractions because they wouldn't give me anything. I couldn't imagine someone forgetting to take out the table! It's kinda a must. 
  • Wow that's crazy but good for you for sticking with what you wanted! She's beautiful.
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