Hello there. I'm 43 and had a beautiful now 3 year old through IVF at 40. My husband and I are doing the 1st of 2 IVF attempts and round 1 yielded 1 fertilized embryo.
Since we had our first most places now seem to recommend a 5 day transfer. I had to change from my original practice for insurance reasons but my original doctor strongly encouraged a 3 day transfer since if we wait until 5 we may not have anything to transfer. My new doctor was horrifyingly rude today and said that with just one it really didn't matter if we did 3 or 5 day and we just needed to decide and make an appointment. I asked if she would talk to my husband to answer any medical questions about the difference and she told me she was really busy with 15 things to do and didn't have time. She goes on vacation tomorrow. Mind you this was a phone call that lasted less than 3 minutes.
With just one (it only takes one!) we are going ahead with 3 day - partly with the thinking that if it wouldn't make it in the lab until 5 days at least we will have tried.
Looking for any words of wisdom and support. Super stressed out.
Thanks,
Sarah
Re: 3 day vs 5 day transfer
I agree with everyone else, your RE should not treat you so poorly.
There are benefits to both a 3 and 5 day transfer.
Individual clinics definitely have their preferences.
Wishing you well.