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24w pregnant cervix acting strang!Advice!?Stories?!

ToraBetheaToraBethea member
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So husband and I were doin the baby dance :p and he stopped suddenly and said "you feel really open all of a sudden!" Which was odd cuz normally I have been so tight it have us problems . well we checked my cervix and they were SUPER SOFT like and harder to get to than normal cuz they were so far in me this time I'm about to be 25 weeks. Any advice or similar stories?!?!?!?
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Re: 24w pregnant cervix acting strang!Advice!?Stories?!

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  • urby87urby87 member

    amberrmariee20 said:
    How many cervixs are you claiming you have ?
    This, exactly.  You only have one cervix, so where is the "they" coming from?
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  • ChiccoBeanzChiccoBeanz member
    How does one check her own cervix? I thought ob used the annoying sonogram that goes inside of you to do that.
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  • spottedgingerspottedginger member
    Maybe she means that her vagina was looser not her cervix? That's the only way I can interpret her post to make any sense.
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  • Knottie1433440300Knottie1433440300 member
    When you are pregnant, your cervix is soft and moves up higher. This is normal. I think that's what you were trying to convey.
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  • urby87urby87 member
    spottedginger said:
    Maybe she means that her vagina was looser not her cervix? That's the only way I can interpret her post to make any sense.
    That's what I thought, too.  But even so, you also only have one vagina, so why are plurals being used?
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  • alledwalledw member
    Wow, I thought this app was created for support. Some of you should really put yourself in her shoes before you judge and literally laugh in her face. Right terminology or not, your just being mean. I hope you're able to contact your ob and get some answers. Good luck.
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  • MariahOBrienMariahOBrien member
    alledw said:

    Wow, I thought this app was created for support. Some of you should really put yourself in her shoes before you judge and literally laugh in her face. Right terminology or not, your just being mean. I hope you're able to contact your ob and get some answers. Good luck.

    *you're
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  • MariahOBrienMariahOBrien member
    BrooklynBroussard said:

    You might have to clarify what dance you were doing.

    You don't know what the baby dance is? Do you live under a rock? I suppose I'll take it upon myself to explain:

    The 'baby dance' is a fairly new method of creating a baby. A couple puts on music of their choice (But I've heard, on multiple occasions, that Kevin Lyttle's 'turn me on' really does the trick.) They then proceed to dance in a ritualistic way (see also: rain dance) and voila, conception occurs. The penis does not enter the vagina, no sperm or eggs are needed.

    I hope that clears things up for you, Brooklyn.
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  • celainevcelainev member
    ToraBethea said:

    So husband and I were doin the baby dance :p and he stopped suddenly and said "you feel really open all of a sudden!" Which was odd cuz normally I have been so tight it have us problems . well we checked my cervix and they were SUPER SOFT like and harder to get to than normal cuz they were so far in me this time I'm about to be 25 weeks. Any advice or similar stories?!?!?!?

    My doctor couldn't even find my cervix at my last physical. I'm a bit confused with this entire problem. I'm thinking you must mean your vaginal walls because that is probably why he thought you felt "open." ... Either way I'm confused with your question.
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  • whit3183whit3183 member
    I'm not trying to sound judgmental at all, but if you are 24 weeks pregnant and you think your cervix is "acting strange," you should be running to the doctor asap because having an incompetent cervix is one of the main causes of 2nd trimester pregnancy loss. Having said that, as others have noted, I doubt there is any way you are able to evaluate the state of your own cervix. 
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  • meansallisonmeansallison member
    edited August 2015
    alledw said:

    Wow, I thought this app was created for support. Some of you should really put yourself in her shoes before you judge and literally laugh in her face. Right terminology or not, your just being mean. I hope you're able to contact your ob and get some answers. Good luck.

    Ugh here we go again. This is not a support group. Go somewhere else to sing kumbaya.


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  • meansallisonmeansallison member
    First off not newbie, second account. First one I closed after my 3rd miscarriage. Also it says it in the TOU. People post very unclear questions and when people call it out people cry support. This is an Internet discussion form.
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  • meansallisonmeansallison member
    I'm also confused as to why this upsets you. It's the exact samething as people saying "use the search function" it is informing users of how to use the board and what it is for.
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  • meansallisonmeansallison member
    Ah! My apologies! Tone is so hard to read on here @BrooklynBroussard
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  • meansallisonmeansallison member
    @BrooklynBroussard haha! I can't GIF at work or I would totally "gif love you" back!!
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