Yikes I'm still always nervous I did something. And I freak out. I don't always want to call my OB or go to the ER I feel like they get sick of me going extra.
But like days like today when I'm not feeling any movement get me upset that something's wrong. I feel like I'm going to give the baby diabetes with all the sugar I eat just to feel it move. And it's been so hot I get afraid it's effected the baby and the heart just stopped beating.
Am I the only crazy one. I'm trying to keep calm. Lol.
I think a certain amount of anxiety is perfectly normal. Your baby is going to have active days and quiet days. Having a snack, drinking some water, and laying down definitely does the trick when I haven't felt mine in a little while. Of course, I still get worried when I haven't felt her in a while, no matter how normal it is. Also, hot weather is not affecting baby unless your own temp rises drastically. Obviously you should minimize the time you spend in the sweltering heat, but as long as you're not laying in an oven you & baby should be fine. Just remember to stay hydrated!
If your anxiety is preventing you from living your life productively, or you feel like it's completely consuming you, you should get some help. You shouldn't have to constantly struggle with anxiety, and there's no shame in talking to someone about this.
I know how you feel, I get it too. Baby had a quiet day yesterday and I started to worry and thought that it was because I had 2 soft boiled eggs for tea the night before and I had made him sick.
Now today he is kicking me right in the va-j-j almost all day to make up for it and I'm wishing he would go back to sleep.
You are definitely not alone. I worry every time I don't feel her move for awhile. When she does move it gives me so much relief. I'm pretty sure this is just the beginning of a lifetime of worrying! It's worth it of course!
Having the exact same thoughts this morning. He just hasn't been very active the past 12 hours and I start worrying. Unfortunately, I think that we are going to worry for the rest of our lives. Once they are born we will worry about SIDS and then diseases, falls, accidents, etc. When they are older it will be car crashes and god knows what. I think it's part of the mom territory!
Hey. I haven't seen you on here in a while. I know you've been struggling with a lot of anxiety from the very beginning. Have you talked to your provider yet about counseling or any other therapies? I feel it would really help you to get started with this before the baby comes so you can learn some coping mechanisms to help you through this rough patch.
If there's something strange underneath the hood. Who you gonna call? Your Doctor. If there's something weird and it don't look good. Who you gonna call? Your Doctor. Immediately. If it's new, painful, and possibly pregnancy related get your ass off the internet and call your doctor. It's for your health and your child's.
Well I feel my anxiety has been higher because I know someone who lost there baby at 25 weeks with no idea why it happened. Then the other day I woke up and I had spotting for the first time my entire pregnancy. Which freaked me out.
I went to the doctor and they said my cervix was really irritated from an infection I had. And my concern was it could of hurt the baby already and I wouldn't know. And then when I was at the doctors she was concerned about me working in a kitchen because she had a patient faint from the heat in a kitchen. She lost the baby from it too. From hearing all that and not feeling the baby move I've been nervous. The last time I heard the heartbeat was a couple days ago.
At 25 weeks most women are not continuously feeling there baby move, especially first time mothers. Infants in the womb have a sleep wake cycle which is almost the complete opposite of ours since maternal movement tends to lull them to sleep. It's not surprising that you're not feeling constant movement and unless you're having issues such as heat exhaustion/stroke then you and your child are probably fine. Your level of anxiety has seemed incredibly even abnormally high throughout this pregnancy based on the things you have shared with us. I would talk to your doctor about counseling and medication. I think that you would see a world of difference if you were to try to expand your knowledge of coping mechanisms for anxiety.
If there's something strange underneath the hood. Who you gonna call? Your Doctor. If there's something weird and it don't look good. Who you gonna call? Your Doctor. Immediately. If it's new, painful, and possibly pregnancy related get your ass off the internet and call your doctor. It's for your health and your child's.
This post is my life in the past 12 hours or so. I posted about some quiet movement days around week 19 which I managed to stay calm about. But now I'm week 23, kinda used to feeling stronger more regular movement and baby had a quiet day yesterday. Trying to be calm and rational since I have felt movement just less frequent and less intense- but it's hard! I haven't called anyone because I am still feeling baby every few hours. And also yes to the other poster who mentioned we are freaking out about movement now but it'll be something else for the rest of life so...it's guess just get ready? Sigh...
@thefithuntress im sorry I haven't checked my messages. Unfortently at my second ultrasound the baby wouldn't uncross it's legs still. So I'm not sure what I'm having still. I have to wait until my 30 weekend ultrasound.
@thefithuntress im sorry I haven't checked my messages. Unfortently at my second ultrasound the baby wouldn't uncross it's legs still. So I'm not sure what I'm having still. I have to wait until my 30 weekend ultrasound.
So stubborn.
Haha, it's okay, love. Just glad to hear baby is doing well! Don't forget about all the good stuff you hear at your appointments, too.
I'm on my 4th and still worry . I need to stop reading different articles on FB or thinking of stories that I have heard some women go through. Like someone said it never goes away really. Being religious helps me a ton always praying for my kiddos
Re: Am I the only momma who gets irrational fear if the baby is okay this far into the pregnancy?!?
I know how you feel, I get it too. Baby had a quiet day yesterday and I started to worry and thought that it was because I had 2 soft boiled eggs for tea the night before and I had made him sick.
Now today he is kicking me right in the va-j-j almost all day to make up for it and I'm wishing he would go back to sleep.
I went to the doctor and they said my cervix was really irritated from an infection I had. And my concern was it could of hurt the baby already and I wouldn't know. And then when I was at the doctors she was concerned about me working in a kitchen because she had a patient faint from the heat in a kitchen. She lost the baby from it too. From hearing all that and not feeling the baby move I've been nervous. The last time I heard the heartbeat was a couple days ago.
So stubborn.