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Is this normal to have sex with you sex partner and sex hurts

nene1866nene1866 member
in 2nd Trimester
why do the sex don't feel the same like when the first couple months it hurts afterwards should I tell my doctor about how sex hurts
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Re: Is this normal to have sex with you sex partner and sex hurts

  • firstboifirstboi member
    It's completely normal for it not to feel as comfortable anymore. Talk to your partner and he might be able to help you relax a little more and make it more comfortable for you.
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  • cMichelle0423cMichelle0423 member
    There are a lot of changes happening to your body right now. Hormones are different, even your vagina is a little different and probably most sensitive. Painful/uncomfortable sex is normal during pregnancy. Talk to your dr if you have any concerns, and definitely communicate with you partner.
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  • Beverly0628Beverly0628 member

    cMichelle0423 said:
    There are a lot of changes happening to your body right now. Hormones are different, even your vagina is a little different and probably most sensitive. Painful/uncomfortable sex is normal during pregnancy. Talk to your dr if you have any concerns, and definitely communicate with you partner.
    This. Plus, there are plenty of good, water based, medical grade lubricants available that may help make sex more comfortable during this time. Don't be afraid to communicate or suggest this to your partner, if you haven't already.

     
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  • nene1866nene1866 member
    Okay I was just wondering I thought it just uncomfortable to have sex or it was just me
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  • kabnpaujkabnpauj member
    Sex is very uncomfortable for me now too...plus my hubby doesn't want to hurt baby so we haven't had sex in weeks. :(
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  • cMichelle0423cMichelle0423 member
    Sex was super uncomfortable for me through most of my last pregnancy. It was hard to figure out how to make it better. It's only temporary though so no big deal.
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  • dramaphiledramaphile member
    I second the lube!  If penetration is still painful with lube, try non-penetrative sex (oral, hands, mutual masturbation, non-penetrative toys etc), it can be just as enjoyable as penetrative sex, without the pain.  Talk to your partner about how you are feeling, it's important you're both on the same page.  
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