Okay, so my dads girlfriend is a midwife. She's not one of those hippy dippy all natural people, her own daughter had a hospital birth, but she is SUPER anti-induction. Can anyone tell me legitimate pros and cons of it? Any personal experiences?
Edit to add: I'm on the side of I would only be okay with getting induced if it were absolutely medically necessary. I'm not okay with getting induced to fit a doctors time schedule. But when even would it be considered necessary?
Re: Getting induced
With her second she went all natural (vbac) and everything went smoothly.
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My friend had to be induced early because her blood pressure got high which is also dangerous.
I also believe in going natural IF you can. There's nothing wrong with medical intervention for the safety of the baby or mother. You just need to have an open mind to all the possibilities. Have a birth plan, then accept it might get totally thrown out the window.
I was more than 3 cm dilated going in and was a good candidate for an induction. Both went great. Pitocin is nothing to mess around with though and both deliveries they started me on very slow drips. I had two great experiences with inductions but I'd love to go into labor by myself this time.
Married: 07.14.14
BFP: 04.05.15
DS1 2010
DS2 2013
DD1 2016
I got talked into the induction because of my high risk situation. Told myself I won't do it again. Hope to not be faced with that decision again. Same OB this time around and I want him to deliver this baby as well.
I actually have asked her! Her main concerns were having seen women who were told they 'needed' to induce because they were slightly overdue like some of these ladies, when really it was to fit better into the doctors schedule. Also like many of these ladies, she said it usually leads to a mass of other medical interventions that snowball into a c-section. At that point I wasn't really sure if she was just kind of going all conspiracy theorist on me type thing or if anyone had actually had that happen to them. Another concern she had was that she believes that doctors/surgeons are trained to believe that what they do is necessary even when it's not (like what happened to a PP on here who was induced but later went into natural labor on her own).
So basically, I love her to death but I wanted to know stories from y'all that you have actually experienced Pros and cons other than your FTM personal beliefs (shout out to other FTM).
At this point in the game I'd say it definitely doesn't hurt you to start researching, and others' experiences are a great way to do so.
I would recommend waiting until you're a bit further along to start writing out a birth plan though, because there are all kinds of complications that can arise much later in pregnancy.
And from first-hand experience, it really is devastating to have all those plans completely derailed by an unforeseen complication.
I think being strongly anti anything is a bit misguided when it comes to birth plans, since so many things can happen. Just do your research and, above all, find a doctor you trust who is open to your wishes.
DD 12/20/99, DS 12/14/12, M/C 9/2014, M/C 1/2015
Statistics of inductions to c-sections rates are hard to decipher because many times there's no way of knowing if that mom could have delivered vaginally not induced.
With more early dating ultrasounds done now Drs know exact dates better than before. Complications can occur past 40 weeks. Will they always occur? Absolutely not, but the risk goes up. I know my dad was always nervous by the end of my pregnancies.
Should you schedule an induction out of fear? Nope! But know that most good Drs aren't going to suggest an induction just because it's easier for them.
Question: why, 20 years ago did they let mommas go weeks past their due dates, by regular practice. And now, that's no longer the case?
FTM, and I am against being induced. I have heard of bad stories, but no horror stories. I just personally believe that women's bodies were made to deliver babies, and on their own. At some point too much medical intervention is too much.
When I told my mom I was pregnant, she told me that I was due May 5th. I never knew that! My birthday is May 17th.... And I turned out great ; ).
I do believe that inducing, and forcing our bodies to do such an intense job when it wasn't ready itself, will lead to a harder labor. And I don't want to chance it. If my doctor closer to my due date or after recommends inducing.... I will be asking for a second opinion. If medically necessary of course I will be induced, but never to just be able to close my chart.