Weekly Loss check in

KJKNAJ · July 2015

We don't have one yet, right? I'm happy to do it.

Today is the milestone of my first loss, a mmc at 8w2d last Jan 2014. Obviously, it paled in comparison to losing my DD at 22w2d, but nevertheless, a little bean I think about pretty often still.

How about everyone else? Have you passed your milestone yet?

skruhmin · July 2015

Ummm kind of?? My missed miscarriage happened when the baby stopped growing at 5w5d - I'm at 7w1d and the symptoms are still super strong. But my D&C to remove that pregnancy was at 9 weeks, so I'm still trucking along.

oceanchild · July 2015

We had an early loss last time at 6w, and I'm 6w2d now.

Hullabaloo2016 · July 2015

I've passed both of my CP milestones, but still live in fear that something terrible is going to happen.

bntfroggie · July 2015

I had a MMC (HB stopped at 9+5wks) that I found out about at 12wks. I am new to the board and am only 4wks along, it is going to be a LONG 8wks.

I'm doing okay just in shock, my EDD with our MMC baby is in October, I am absolutely dreading that month.

skruhmin · July 2015

bntfroggie said:

I had a MMC (HB stopped at 9+5wks) that I found out about at 12wks. I am new to the board and am only 4wks along, it is going to be a LONG 8wks.

I'm doing okay just in shock, my EDD with our MMC baby is in October, I am absolutely dreading that month.

My EDD for my MMC is October 16 - it's been 5 1/2 years and it is still a crappy month

bntfroggie · July 2015

skruhmin said:

My EDD for my MMC is October 16 - it's been 5 1/2 years and it is still a crappy month

I'm sorry for your loss, mine is October 13th. I think I find it comforting to know that it still is hard, not that I want it to be hard, but at least I don't go in thinking once I get past that month that I wont think of it again. So thank you!!

flowerpower5838 · July 2015

My most recent loss (MC in April) was right at 4 weeks so I've past that, put my other MC was just past 5 weeks and my ectopic wasn't caught until over 7 weeks. I have my first doctor appointment next Tuesday so that will hopefully rule out an ectopic. That baby's due date was 2/27/14 and I have 2 friends on Facebook that had their babies that day. It was so much harder than I thought it would be and then when the first birthdays rolled around I unfriended one (college acquaintance) and hide the other.

KMKaiser07 · July 2015

I'm right around when we lost our baby in March so I will relax a ton after this afternoons ultrasound.

labacker · July 2015

bntfroggie said:

I had a MMC (HB stopped at 9+5wks) that I found out about at 12wks. I am new to the board and am only 4wks along, it is going to be a LONG 8wks.

I'm doing okay just in shock, my EDD with our MMC baby is in October, I am absolutely dreading that month.

@bntfroggie - so happy to see you here on the March '16 board! I remember from my intro post on TTC board that you commented that we had similar stories. I feel the EXACT same way. My EDD was 10/29. I had a MMC at 9w3d and found out at 11w appointment when there was no HB. I still have days here and there where I think about how many weeks I would be now if I still was pregnant. I know that day in October will be tough. Again, similar to you I also am just 4w now and would love to make time go more quickly! To make matters worse I have low HCG right now and am testing every 48hrs. This baby stuff is no cake walk. Praying for sticky babies for us all!

bntfroggie · July 2015

labacker said:

bntfroggie said:

I had a MMC (HB stopped at 9+5wks) that I found out about at 12wks. I am new to the board and am only 4wks along, it is going to be a LONG 8wks.

I'm doing okay just in shock, my EDD with our MMC baby is in October, I am absolutely dreading that month.

@bntfroggie - so happy to see you here on the March '16 board! I remember from my intro post on TTC board that you commented that we had similar stories. I feel the EXACT same way. My EDD was 10/29. I had a MMC at 9w3d and found out at 11w appointment when there was no HB. I still have days here and there where I think about how many weeks I would be now if I still was pregnant. I know that day in October will be tough. Again, similar to you I also am just 4w now and would love to make time go more quickly! To make matters worse I have low HCG right now and am testing every 48hrs. This baby stuff is no cake walk. Praying for sticky babies for us all!

@LaBacker I hope for the best for you!! I am crossing everything I've got. My doctor doesn't do any blood draws so I would have no clue if things weren't going right. I am starting progesterone tonight though that they wanted me to start next time.

SmilesMcGee · July 2015

Last month I had a CP at 4w5d today I'm 5w2d

aehenderson421 · July 2015

My EDD with MMC #1 was Monday, July 20. EDD with MMC #2 is in Oct.

Thankfully we got to go check for heartbeat on current on the 21st. It helped get me through the day. Also - good news, we got to see that little heart flickering @ 104 BPM. I'm 7 weeks past LMP but doc says baby is measuring @ 6 weeks (today). Levels have been really good this time around. Praying for a sticky bean!!!

PinkSunglasses16 · July 2015

MC in april ended at 7w 1d, currently 6w 2d. I feel like if i make it past 7 - 1 all will be good

bagel37 · July 2015

I still have a long way to go for my loss milestone at 27 weeks. Here's hoping I get my take home baby

KJKNAJ · July 2015

bagel37 said:
I still have a long way to go for my loss milestone at 27 weeks. Here's hoping I get my take home baby

I'm with you bagel. There are a few of us with a late loss and we're all gonna throw parties around here when we hit those milestones. So many angels to remember xxxx

thiblm · July 2015

I wish I could say I pass my milestones but nope not getting there until 22 weeks.

This pregnancy I'm 6 +4 and everything is going good. Levels are perfect, all other test are coming back good, and u/s done last Thursday showed baby is in potion. U/s tomorrow I'm scared of no heartbeat.

I feel like I'm back a sqare one with my loss worries even though I did bring home a rainbow the next pregnancy. The things that work last time was doing the thing to make me healthy and meditation. Here's hoping it works again.

bcw2009 · July 2015

I can't wait to surpass my milestone (18weeks)...but I have SO FAR to go! The summer was flying by so quickly until my BFP and now I feel like time has come to a screeching hault...

popcornplease · July 2015

I lost my first at 10w 3d. Even though my last pregnancy led to my rainbow baby, I'm still constantly on edge. I don't think I'll feel better until I can feel this LO move. I find myself having a very hard time connecting with this one so far- I think about being pregnant, but I don't actually let myself think of that little life inside me.

wmarley · July 2015

Similar to @smilesmcgee I had a CP the cycle before I got pregnant and found out at around 4/5 weeks. I'm 6w2d now and feel good but still on edge until my first ultrasound on Tuesday.

Parker16772 · July 2015

I had an early loss before I had DS right at 5 weeks. I don't remember feeling like this with DS but I am so worried with this pregnancy. I am 4W 2 3 right now. I can't wait for my first ultrasound at 6 weeks! Even though obviously something could still happen after that I know I will feel much better!

skruhmin · July 2015

What's getting me right now is that the extreme morning sickness kind of went away. I'm still a tiny bit nauseous 24/7 but I'm seriously hoping it's just because I'm taking meds and they're kicking in. I hate being on edge like that due to history.

Hullabaloo2016 · July 2015

I was talking to my acupuncturist about the anxiety about losing this pregnancy. This is our last time trying. We have decided that. She said, of course you have anxiety.... YOU HAVE PTSD! For those of us that have had loss/losses being pregnant is what we wish for, but it is also our "trigger". I try to stay away from the MC posts and goodbyes from the BMB because I can't handle it and it only increases my anxiety. I wish I could give all of those women a big cyber hug, but I just can't right now. Even this thread is hard to handle and it's a positive thread about getting past those difficult milestones. All I can do is acknowledge my fear and my anxiety and then push it to the side and say to myself, I'm not going to let the fear of what might happen ruin the joy of what is happening. Today I'm pregnant and I'm nauseous and I'm tired and I'm blissfully happy about it!

skruhmin · July 2015

@Hullabaloo2016 that is so true. I know that people have PPD with take home babies but did anyone else have it with your loss? I went through a year of counseling before I could even function again.

melissajadex · July 2015

I had a MMC which ended the day before my daughters 3rd birthday. I was 12w 4d when I had my d&c, but measured at 8w 3d & no heartbeat. My due date was August 17th. Will be a tough month.
I'm currently 6w1d and crossing all fingers that my u/s next week we will hear the heartbeat

mholmes92 · July 2015

I had a miscarrage back In September, I hadn't had my ultrasound yet (was moving cross country) I started bleeding at 11w 3 d went to the hospital, and was told everything was fine, passed everything 2 days later (11w 5d) had an ultrasound 5 days after that (12w 3d) and it was confirmed I had passed everything on my own. So no clue what happened to be honest or when my milestone might be other than I know I feel feel a TON better if I make it to 12w with no problems this time around. I'm only 7w today so I have a ways to go. I also know I REALLY do not want to go to THAT hospital ever again.

aschneider89 · July 2015

PinkSunglasses16 said:
MC in april ended at 7w 1d, currently 6w 2d. I feel like if i make it past 7 - 1 all will be good

I too MCin April at 7w4d and today had my first early US and am 6w3d. Good luck to you, hopefully these ones stick around!

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