I am still waiting on baby but I made some frozen pads the other day. Just put some aloe and witch hazel on pads and wrap them up and freeze. It sounds comforting but we will see
I also got a ton of nursing tanks to wear during recovery around the house
I'm about a week out and here's what I'd suggest: large pads but also regular pads and panty liners (once your bleeding slows the giant pads are a little much), Depends!! (Don't be embarrassed to buy these...they were a godsend the first day and a couple of subsequent nights), a Peri bottle so you can spray your vagina with warm water and then pat yourself dry with tp (less blood soaked pubes to combat), really delicious organic juice for immediately after post partum (I was dehydrated and the juice was awesome! Labor is work!), some hearty snacks, lots of fresh veggies and fruits (eat them! They will help you have a healthy poop a couple days after birth and you don't want to have to push out constipated poop), mothers milk tea (if you could get a blend from an herbalist the herbs will be fresher), Lanolin (for tender nipples - I used this every time I nursed until my milk came in. 8 days out I'm a milk machine and nipples arent sore.now I just spray a little milk out and let my nipples air dry), a couple of good sized water bottles to have around the house (you need lots of water to make milk and water will help you have a healthy bowel movement also). I can't think of any other things at the moment. I assume you're nursing so disregard those suggestions if they don't pertain. I also thought a boppy was overkill, not the case at all! Really like mine. Oh! One last thing, a light for middle of the night feedings. I've been using a headlamp and just turn it on and it casts just enough light. Good luck!!
Holy crap! That's a long post. Ha. And maybe a little more graphic than you were looking for but shit gets real post baby. Lol. Yes, totally on the nursing tanks!! Also, I made a ton of padsicles but only used two. I only had minor tearing. If you do make them, make sure you freeze them not folded. I made that mistake on half. Oh! And let then thaw a bit before using. Ice on your vagina.. Kinda not awesome.
Case of water by the bed, ice pack (I had a cesarean), snacks by your bed, extra pillows, loose and comfortable clothing (I loved my nightgowns and sleep shirts)
Thanks @Knottie99627423 ! I heard you have to wipe lanolin off before you feed… What do you wipe it with? I do have some lanolin that I bought. Also yes I heard that the Boppys are a must have… Even from a GUY that my husband works with LOL! I actually ended up with two boppys from my baby shower &decided to keep both. Someone even said to take the Boppy to the hospital
Dermaplast is a numbing spray. Get the blue can. Not the red. The red is antibacterial. You don't want to kill the good bacteria down there. After my first birth... Love me some dermaplast.
I had a c section. Previous posts really cover it. For me, having water by the bed is a must. Also a notebook or app to record feedings. My little man and I are still working out a good routine. He is latching well but it helps to know how long it has been since last feeding. I also record poops and pees. Just for a little while in the beginning to make sure everything is working ok. And colace or some other stool softener. My first poop post surgery was brutal and I can't imagine how it would have been if I had not been taking stool softeners religiously, sorry tmi.
@Mjstine good idea to mention the app… It was mentioned somewhere in another discussion. I ended up downloading the baby tracker, which wasn't free but seems to cover everything
I've had both births and needed different things for each.
For c/s:
- boppy or pillow to put baby on/protect incision site while feeding
- depends and something soft to cover incision site so it doesn't get irritated
- colace
- loose clothing
For vaginal:
- depends
- tucks; I just hold these on the painful places for a bit after I pee but can line the depends/pad too
- peri bottle
TTC #1 since 3/2011
DX: anovulatory and severe MFI
DH is a testicular cancer survivor
IVF#1 w/ICSI lupron, gonal f, ovidrel
ER 6/15/12 6R 6M 6F! ET 6/20/12
Beta #1: 154 Beta #2: 509 Beta #3: 7326
Baby Boy born 3/1/2013
TTC#2: 6/2014 all testing came back normal
IVF#2 (#1 for LO#2) 9/2014 - 17R 10M 10F 4 blasts frozen on day 6.
Earth mama butt balm and honest company nipple balm. The butt balm is amazing and helped with the swelling pre and post delivery. Nipple balm is made with food grade ingredients so no need to wipe off
Earth mama butt balm and honest company nipple balm. The butt balm is amazing and helped with the swelling pre and post delivery. Nipple balm is made with food grade ingredients so no need to wipe off
@sutavim2 you used the butt balm pre delivery? Like as in weeks before labor or in active labor? I have some and was just thinking for afterwards...
I don't think I've seen that anyone has said this yet, but pre-made freezer friendly meals (this is our 2nd so we're not banking on anyone bringing us food after baby is born). Oh and also paper plates & plastic wear. This is more for emotional recovery than anything else because seriously, who wants to plan dinner, then make it, and then clean up afterwards??
I agree with some PP for vaginal delivery - you'll definitely want cold packs, and I loved having the witch hazel and dermaplast pain relieving spray. Maxi pads (I really like the big overnight size because then I never worry about leaking)
You'll definitely want some nipple cream, at least for the first few days And I loved having the first few dinners taken care of! That was such a gift.
Re: Postpartum recovery must-have items?
I also got a ton of nursing tanks to wear during recovery around the house
After my first birth...
Love me some dermaplast.
TTC #1 since 3/2011
DX: anovulatory and severe MFI
DH is a testicular cancer survivor
IVF#1 w/ICSI lupron, gonal f, ovidrel
ER 6/15/12 6R 6M 6F! ET 6/20/12
Beta #1: 154 Beta #2: 509 Beta #3: 7326
Baby Boy born 3/1/2013
TTC#2: 6/2014 all testing came back normal
IVF#2 (#1 for LO#2) 9/2014 - 17R 10M 10F 4 blasts frozen on day 6.
FET #1 10/15/14 - Beta #1: 216 Beta #2: 823
Baby Boy born 7/10/2015
DS1 7/24/15
DS2 5/7/17
You'll definitely want some nipple cream, at least for the first few days