Yikes! A lot of folks recommended Angel Baby Earth Mama New Mama Bottom Spray, sitz baths, and padsickles on hand for after the birth. Hope one of those helps you.
Sounds like we have similar recovery issues, yes it's taking awhile for me to feel good again, I'm definetly only 60% right now. Then again I'm just 9 days out from L&D. Hang in there momma
You take sanitary pads and soak them in either alcohol-free witch hazel or herbal sitz bath tea, then cover them with aloe and freeze. Supposed to help a lot!
I felt pretty normal by day 11, the end is in sight! Two things that really helped me were using the squirt bottle from the hospital while I peed not just for cleaning afterward, and taking a Tucks pad and holding it on the most painful spot for a few seconds after peeing, it took the burning feeling away.
TTC #1 since 3/2011
DX: anovulatory and severe MFI
DH is a testicular cancer survivor
IVF#1 w/ICSI lupron, gonal f, ovidrel
ER 6/15/12 6R 6M 6F! ET 6/20/12
Beta #1: 154 Beta #2: 509 Beta #3: 7326
Baby Boy born 3/1/2013
TTC#2: 6/2014 all testing came back normal
IVF#2 (#1 for LO#2) 9/2014 - 17R 10M 10F 4 blasts frozen on day 6.
Re: Tough recovery
TTC #1 since 3/2011
DX: anovulatory and severe MFI
DH is a testicular cancer survivor
IVF#1 w/ICSI lupron, gonal f, ovidrel
ER 6/15/12 6R 6M 6F! ET 6/20/12
Beta #1: 154 Beta #2: 509 Beta #3: 7326
Baby Boy born 3/1/2013
TTC#2: 6/2014 all testing came back normal
IVF#2 (#1 for LO#2) 9/2014 - 17R 10M 10F 4 blasts frozen on day 6.
FET #1 10/15/14 - Beta #1: 216 Beta #2: 823
Baby Boy born 7/10/2015