Kind of sad

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• MouseMama817 member

  July 2015

  What do you mean you have to induce to make your husband happy?

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• jessandandy09 member

  July 2015

  Stop trying to make your husband happy.  He doesn't have to push the baby out of his vagina.

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• prairiedreams member

  July 2015

  I hate to ask but why does the induction make your husband happy? Is there a medical reason beyond his happiness?

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• mariafordon member

  July 2015 edited July 2015

  Is there a medical reason or just because your husband wants you to? If it's just to make your husband happy I would definitely not do it. Either way I'm sorry you're in that position.
  
  Edit: fat finger problems...

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• emmacake08 member

  July 2015

  Ditto all of the above ^^^^

  

  

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• CaliforniaDream87 member

  July 2015

  Sigh.....

      DS born 8-16-2013

  

  

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• Jenkayb member

  July 2015

  Huh?

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• mamaloaf member

  July 2015

  So what's so special about the 27th? Is it his birthday?

  

  
  

  

  
  

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• kcollins78 member

  July 2015

  At the risk of being "mean"...
  
  The hell you say??
  
  And is it me or do there seem to be a large number of douchy husbands married to the ladies here? Not that your husband is necessarily a doucher, but without further explanation, that's how this is leaning.
  
  Inducing a baby to be born to accomdate anyone and their schedule is selfish and total ass-hattery in my opinion.

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• lap018 member

  July 2015

  :-<

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• KMBC2552 member

  July 2015

  So confused.

  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• deviduke412 member

  July 2015

  Waiting for explanation...

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• candicejeff2013 member

  July 2015

  deviduke412 said:

  Waiting for explanation...

  Same
  :-B

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• lifesabeach85 member

  July 2015

  Things that should make your husband happy:
  
  1. What is safest for baby
  2. What makes you happy
  
  End.of.story.

  
  
  

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• gulimz member

  July 2015

  Why would your doctor do a induction without a medical necessity to make your husband happy in the first place. My practice personally only does it if it's medically necessary. Same thing with C-sections. Only if It's necessary. What kind of doctors do some people have? !? Also, why the heck would that make your husband happy? Is he some kind of control freak? Or is this like one of those weird troll posts that was like googly eyes and some hillbilly chick?

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• Saratiff member

  July 2015

  What is with the bizzaro posts recently

  
  

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• archetypeblonde member

  July 2015

  OP DON'T LEAVE US HANGING COME BACK :-SS

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• breezymeema7 member

  July 2015

  bigkitty1219 said:

  This is my fourth pregnancy and all I wanted to do is experience going into labor on my own, but to make my husband happy I have schedule yet another induction for Monday the 27th. I'm hoping that between now and then he'll make his appearance but I know that won't happen. Sorry kind of venting and a little jealous of anyone that has got to do it on their own

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• Miz_Liz member

  July 2015

  Please wait while I pull on my mud boots....I made sure I brought a rainbow with them, just so no one would be offended....

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• GirlOnTheBeach member

  July 2015

  I'm assuming this is MUD but I'd like to see what kind of explanation the OP has to offer anyway...
  
  

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• acgonzalez22 member

  July 2015

  Lord, help me.

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• laineyjewel member

  July 2015

  I would really love to hear the explanation on this one...
  
  If it were my husband, I'd tell him if he wanted to pick our kid's bday, then he could carry the next one for 9 months and push it out of his vagina all the while reinventing how pregnancy and labor is supposed to happen.
  
  

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• jessyluscious77 member

  July 2015

  This post makes no sense.  What Doctor is going to induce his patient "because the husband said so"?

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• CaliforniaDream87 member

  July 2015

  I actually don't think this is MUD considering her time at the bump and post history. Which is even scarier.....

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• CaliforniaDream87 member

  July 2015

  jessyluscious77 said:

  This post makes no sense.  What Doctor is going to induce his patient "because the husband said so"?

  Shockingly, a lot of doctors are signing off on elective inductions to appease patients. The doctor I had with DS straight told me during 2nd tri that he would induce me anytime after 37 weeks. Just to let him know. I quickly switched practices after that...

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• bpwife&mama member

  July 2015

  What the what?!?

  
  
  

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• CarelessDiva89 member

  July 2015

  What is with all the crazy posters lately?! :-?

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• dpmm93 member

  July 2015

  Quick question...what's a MUD post? Lol....
  
  P.S also waiting for an explanation on why you're inducing to make your husband happy.

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• Saratiff member

  July 2015

  muD is made up drama

  
  

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• emmacake08 member

  July 2015

  MUD= made up drama

  

  

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• mamaloaf member

  July 2015

  I sadly agree I don't think it's MUD. She wouldn't have posted and not logged back in for 6 hours. I hope she comes back tomorrow to explain the situation more. I'm guessing she has her hands full this evening chasing her kids and husband...

  

  
  

  

  
  

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• DaisyCW member

  July 2015

  My OB gave me the option to be induced any day during my 39th week. I 'told' my husband and he was all up for it and even picked out her delivery date.... Ummm excuse me? Who's delivering this baby? Me! I love you honey but... sit back down and wait until she decides to come on her own. My first came on his own and it was the best 4hr labor I've had minus the contractions of course but it literally felt like I had him in less than 10min from the time I arrived to the hospital.

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• Miz_Liz member

  July 2015

  DaisyCW said:

  My OB gave me the option to be induced any day during my 39th week. I 'told' my husband and he was all up for it and even picked out her delivery date.... Ummm excuse me? Who's delivering this baby? Me! I love you honey but... sit back down and wait until she decides to come on her own. My first came on his own and it was the best 4hr labor I've had minus the contractions of course but it literally felt like I had him in less than 10min from the time I arrived to the hospital.

  
  Wowser. I just literally can't even imagine my husband TRYING to pick an induction for me, let alone a specific date. I know everyone's relationships are different, but that just seems so inappropriate to me - almost like my husband telling me what brand/type of tampons I am going to use when I have my period, but obviously times a million (not comparing a tampon brand to an induction, just another situation that is really not their concern). So bizarre to me.

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• fionalouise007 member

  July 2015

  The only thing I can think of is deployment or a similar situation? So he can meet his baby before he leaves? I know a couple of girls that had scheduled c-sections during their partners ROCL for that reason.. But that was around full term as the guys can sometimes put in a special request for when they are allocated their leave.
  
  Other than that I'm out of ideas..
  I'm so intrigued now.
  
  *ROCL is Relief Out of Country Leave, taken mid-deployment (in Australia).

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• Laurmi member

  July 2015

  Why can't you just have the baby when you have the baby, since it sounds like that's what you want? Tell him to simmer down and you'll go when you're ready....since you're the one doing all the work? And it's your body?! And your baby?! And....gah! Etc...etc...

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• GirlOnTheBeach member

  July 2015

  mamaloaf said:

  I sadly agree I don't think it's MUD. She wouldn't have posted and not logged back in for 6 hours. I hope she comes back tomorrow to explain the situation more. I'm guessing she has her hands full this evening chasing her kids and husband...

  Ah, the pitfalls of mobile bumping... I couldn't see that. You're probably right then on it not being MUD.

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• DaisyCW member

  July 2015

  Oh believe me, he's not that controlling type. He's just as excited as any other dad and didn't understand the risks that may come with it which he's fully aware of now and is completely fine with waiting until she's ready.

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  My OB gave me the option to be induced any day during my 39th week. I 'told' my husband and he was all up for it and even picked out her delivery date.... Ummm excuse me? Who's delivering this baby? Me! I love you honey but... sit back down and wait until she decides to come on her own. My first came on his own and it was the best 4hr labor I've had minus the contractions of course but it literally felt like I had him in less than 10min from the time I arrived to the hospital.

  
  

  
  
  
  Wowser. I just literally can't even imagine my husband TRYING to pick an induction for me, let alone a specific date. I know everyone's relationships are different, but that just seems so inappropriate to me - almost like my husband telling me what brand/type of tampons I am going to use when I have my period, but obviously times a million (not comparing a tampon brand to an induction, just another situation that is really not their concern). So bizarre to me.
  
  

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