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Last Minute Fears

thebirdofhermesthebirdofhermes member
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I know it's probably completely normal to feel nervous, anxious, and afraid at this point in the pregnancy (40 weeks and 1 day), but suddenly I am just filled with so much fear and doubt.  I'm going to be induced next week if my little girl doesn't hurry up because of some issues I've been having, and another new mommy I know was just induced last week.  She had a terrible time with lots of tearing and almost lost her baby. I'm 21 and while this will be my first baby, I miscarried right before I got pregnant this time. I'm so scared that something will go wrong. I guess what I'm asking for are some positive thoughts or words of wisdom from women that have already experienced labor and these fears.
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Re: Last Minute Fears

  • cMichelle0423cMichelle0423 member
    These feelings are normal. You're a FTM who doesn't know what to expect. So it's completely understandable to have these fears. My best advice for labor, is to take things as they come. We don't always get to have our ideal labors. Things can change unexpectedly. It really helps to have a good support team with you. Whether it's just your SO or maybe your mother. Whoever it is, make sure it's someone or people you feel safe and comfortable with. Talk to your doctor about your concerns and see if they can ease your mind about some of your worries. Anyway, I hope everything goes well for you! Good luck!!
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  • BigboobsmcgeeBigboobsmcgee member
    edited July 2015

    Another vote for normal. Your life is about to completely change so of course you are scared. And labor itself is terrifying because of the unknown but try to put your trust in the doctors and nursing staff because that's really all you can do. Also, maybe speak to your doctor about these fears if you are really scared but in the end it is all worth it. Good luck.

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  • DChunt09DChunt09 member
    Yep, so completely normal. I was 19 when I had our son and nervous didn't even begin to cover it. My husband would try to comfort me, but what the heck did he know! :) I was also being induced, due to high blood pressure. Not all inductions are scary and dramatic. Mine was very easy. It was very low key and it always felt very under control. My son was born healthy and my recovery was great. I hope all the same for you and your induction, if your little girl doesn't come before then.

    And for what it's worth, I was pregnant twice. Had a son and then a daughter. My husband and I got pregnant again and lost our Baby at 17 weeks. The loss hit us hard, as it was out of nowhere. So, going through this pregnancy right after that has been a roller coaster. I'll be induced at 39 weeks. I completely understand the fears you're having. You can do this though! Sending positive vibes your way.

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