This is my second and I'm just now starting to feel little flutters, but not definitive kicks. I can't feel them with my hand, but feel tightening in my belly and little bumps every now and then. Sometimes it takes awhile for FTM to really feel it and know it was kicking. Also might depend on the placement of your placenta
I have an anterior placenta and I'm 20 weeks and still haven't felt her move. My ob said it could take up to 26 weeks for me to feel her. I am patiently waiting hopefully we will feel them move soon.
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Are you a FTM?
This is my second and I'm just now starting to feel little flutters, but not definitive kicks. I can't feel them with my hand, but feel tightening in my belly and little bumps every now and then. Sometimes it takes awhile for FTM to really feel it and know it was kicking. Also might depend on the placement of your placenta