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maxmcjmaxmcj member
in March 2016 Moms
I'm 7 weeks pregnant with my second ... my first is 3... iv got alot going on with debt ect at the moment so am very stressed and emotional...After a really bad evening of running around doing housework .. fixing things... school runs ect .. feeling exhausted.... almost in tears anyway....I came downstairs lugging washing and that to find my son had drawn over the walls... I lost it and shouted really loud at him ... went in the other room and slammed the door as I felt like I was loosing control... my son wet himself because I shouted so much and I feel so bad.. I feel like a really bad mum :( I have apologised to my son soo much and he gave me a hug when we had both calmed down and said it's alright .. bit I feel so guilty ... how could I loose it soo much so that he wet himself?? What is wrong with me :( literally am the worst mum ever.
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  • momo525momo525 member
    edited July 2015
    You're pregnant, and hormonal, and stressed. It happens. Know that you're not alone in that. Do something fun with your child - play a game, make a craft, watch their favorite TV show/Movie while you snuggle. And just try to breathe. It'll be okay =) 
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  • maxmcjmaxmcj member
    Thank you I spoke to my aunt and she assures me it be fine and just to relax xxx I love my monkey boy like mad xxxx just can't wait till my hormones settle a tad... didn't feel this rough first time around xxx
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  • dannyjo2012dannyjo2012 member
    I totally slammed a door this past weekend after getting quite angry at my husband (over something trivial)... I felt SO emotional! And yes, like momo525 said - we're pregnant and hormonal. And I like the advice she gave about doing something fun!
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  • reesaXdenreesaXden member
    Don't beat yourself up and use this as something you look back on! Taking deep breaths helps me tremendously when my 3.5 yr old acts like a crazy person!!
    Hugs!!
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  • Smom901316Smom901316 member
    You didn't do anything wrong ! We are human. Even as super hero mamas we have times where we don't act our best but that is okay.

    I have noticed that if I let a lot of little things pile on me I am more inclined to snap. I call it the snowball effect. I used to keep a little post it pad around and when I come across something that was frustrating , I would write down a couple words about it and then write down how to solve it .. If I couldn't fix it I tore it up and threw it away... "Not my monkey not my circus" ... I do this more mentally now than physically to help from getting to that emotional point. We all need a coping mechanism for the stressors in life !

    Hugs to you mama


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  • maxmcjmaxmcj member
    Thank u girls it's nice to know I'm not mad.. me and my boy are just sat watching his favourite TV show caillou lol xxxx
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