The doctors let me know that they would like to induce at 39 weeks, because I'm a type a1 diabetic which means I use diet and medication to control my gestational diabetes.
At first I was excited. Yay the baby is coming early! One less week of waiting.
But I'm kinda bumming about it now. I won't get to do the "honey the baby's coming" and I hate that I have to pick the babies birthday. I want the baby to come when it's meant to come

I'm usually the glass is half full, but I'm feeling pretty disappointed. I know I'm the grand scheme of things this won't matter. I'll have a beautiful healthy baby and I'll be so happy. But for now, I'm sad that I'll miss out on that part.
Just wanted to share.
Re: To be induced at 39 weeks.
But mainly, induction is NOT fun or ideal. I had to be induced for a medical reason and while I don't regret it and think it's often necessary, there is no way I want to be induced again unless medically necessary. If I was offered induction based on size, convenience, or even being at my due date (obviously not too far over), no way! Totally not worth the extra trouble. The induction process is fighting your body and the contractions on pitocin are horrible. I was lucky that my induction didn't lead to other interventions, but it's so much more likely that labor will stall and you end up with a c-section. Plus the whole process takes days.
Just my opinion, but I'd never voluntarily sign up for that again.
To the OP- if it's what's best for you and baby, it's the best choice. That was my experience and while I had the same concerns as you, it was worth it to end up with a healthy baby.
I have posted an article here before about induction for big babies. Let me know if any of you want to read it. It's fully cited with great references and it could be a useful tool if you hope to avoid induction.
My midwives routinely catch big babies with no issues. Upright laboring and pushing in alternative positions is key.
When there are medical reasons i totally understand but there are also ways to monitor if neither of you are in any immediate risk.
I'll trust my doctor over anyone because that's why I chose to go to one; they have more experience in this than I do from googling.
OP though it's not ideal, once baby is here it won't matter how they got here as long as their safe and healthy.
I hope all of you have smooth pregnancys as well as safe and easy deliveries
https://evidencebasedbirth.com/evidence-for-induction-or-c-section-for-big-baby/
This isn't a Google search article. It's a comprehensive review of research. Fully cited. And it's a long read.
Another thing to consider when they want to induce you because of the baby's size, it might not only be for the health/ easy birth for the mom, but also the baby. There is a bit of concern that babies that are over a certain weight at birth potentially have higher blood sugars also. They may just want to make sure they are bringing the baby into the world in a more controlled environment. This way they are able to monitor blood sugars right off the bat for both mom and baby.
Usually they do an ultrasound to check. The high risk ones are pretty accurate.