I have a baby shower story that might beat the others. I threw a family member a baby shower a few years ago. I was, in course, in charge of the RSVPs as the host. The father-to-be told me that he wanted me to keep him updated on the guest list. Ok, no problem. Then he told me that he wanted me to let him know who wasn't going and the reason that they gave me for not going. When I asked why, he told me that had his mind made up about certain family members and just wanted to verify his feelings. Yeah...I'm not in contact with them anymore.