Hi ladies, I am almost 10 weeks along now andy stomach is getting really firm already. This is my first so idk if this is normal or am I farther along than I think? What do you guys think.
OP, this question has been asked three different times in the first two pages (maybe even on the first page, I didn't look yet). Please take a moment to familiarize yourself with the way this board works and check out at least the first page for questions similar to (or in this case identical to) your own before posting. Thanks.
You all make me feel very discouraged. I'm 11 weeks with twins and feel like my stomach is getting firmer. DH even mentioned it without me ever mentioning it to him. I get that y'all are having innocent fun, but don't forget the things you say (or don't say) can be very hurtful. I get annoyed too that people are constantly putting these posts, but what does it matter? It doesn't personally affect your life, so why be so mean about it?
I totally agree with @sbegnaud93. I know it can be annoying to read the same thing over and over again, but at the end of the day the person posting has a concern. Although her concern may seem trivial or repetitive to some, making her feel bad for asking is not gng to make it go away.
I totally agree with @sbegnaud93. I know it can be annoying to read the same thing over and over again, but at the end of the day the person posting has a concern. Although her concern may seem trivial or repetitive to some, making her feel bad for asking is not gng to make it go away.
Asking again isn't going to make the answer change, either...
I totally agree with @sbegnaud93. I know it can be annoying to read the same thing over and over again, but at the end of the day the person posting has a concern. Although her concern may seem trivial or repetitive to some, making her feel bad for asking is not gng to make it go away.
Even if it was a stupid question, if no one's asked it, fine. Ask away. But there were literally three other posts asking about ten week bumps in the last couple of days. It takes two minutes to read through the posts of the first two or three pages before you create a new post. This is what OP should have done.
I totally agree with @sbegnaud93. I know it can be annoying to read the same thing over and over again, but at the end of the day the person posting has a concern. Although her concern may seem trivial or repetitive to some, making her feel bad for asking is not gng to make it go away.
Even if it was a stupid question, if no one's asked it, fine. Ask away. But there were literally three other posts asking about ten week bumps in the last couple of days. It takes two minutes to read through the posts of the first two or three pages before you create a new post. This is what OP should have done.
I agree, but how many times have we told people to not post duplicate posts, myself included? People don't pay attention, but making fun of them is just going to make them feel like crap, not aid the situation in any way.
I totally agree with @sbegnaud93. I know it can be annoying to read the same thing over and over again, but at the end of the day the person posting has a concern. Although her concern may seem trivial or repetitive to some, making her feel bad for asking is not gng to make it go away.
Even if it was a stupid question, if no one's asked it, fine. Ask away. But there were literally three other posts asking about ten week bumps in the last couple of days. It takes two minutes to read through the posts of the first two or three pages before you create a new post. This is what OP should have done.
I agree, but how many times have we told people to not post duplicate posts, myself included? People don't pay attention, but making fun of them is just going to make them feel like crap, not aid the situation in any way.
I totally agree with @sbegnaud93. I know it can be annoying to read the same thing over and over again, but at the end of the day the person posting has a concern. Although her concern may seem trivial or repetitive to some, making her feel bad for asking is not gng to make it go away.
Even if it was a stupid question, if no one's asked it, fine. Ask away. But there were literally three other posts asking about ten week bumps in the last couple of days. It takes two minutes to read through the posts of the first two or three pages before you create a new post. This is what OP should have done.
I agree, but how many times have we told people to not post duplicate posts, myself included? People don't pay attention, but making fun of them is just going to make them feel like crap, not aid the situation in any way.
Maybe they'll start paying attention!
There are hundreds of women on this posts. We have a handful that are frequent posters. The ones who post stuff like this, are the ones who never get on. It won't change anything, it's like kicking at a dead animal.
You all make me feel very discouraged. I'm 11 weeks with twins and feel like my stomach is getting firmer. DH even mentioned it without me ever mentioning it to him. I get that y'all are having innocent fun, but don't forget the things you say (or don't say) can be very hurtful. I get annoyed too that people are constantly putting these posts, but what does it matter? It doesn't personally affect your life, so why be so mean about it?
Honey, literally anything can be considered hurtful. Nobody is gonna walk on eggshells here to "not hurt people's feelings". If anything, they need to develop thicker skin. We've seen people here get all pissed off for someone saying they or something they said was silly. For real, TB isn't unicorns and rainbows.
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I totally agree with @sbegnaud93. I know it can be annoying to read the same thing over and over again, but at the end of the day the person posting has a concern. Although her concern may seem trivial or repetitive to some, making her feel bad for asking is not gng to make it go away.
Even if it was a stupid question, if no one's asked it, fine. Ask away. But there were literally three other posts asking about ten week bumps in the last couple of days. It takes two minutes to read through the posts of the first two or three pages before you create a new post. This is what OP should have done.
I agree, but how many times have we told people to not post duplicate posts, myself included? People don't pay attention, but making fun of them is just going to make them feel like crap, not aid the situation in any way.
Maybe they'll start paying attention!
There are hundreds of women on this posts. We have a handful that are frequent posters. The ones who post stuff like this, are the ones who never get on. It won't change anything, it's like kicking at a dead animal.
You all make me feel very discouraged. I'm 11 weeks with twins and feel like my stomach is getting firmer. DH even mentioned it without me ever mentioning it to him. I get that y'all are having innocent fun, but don't forget the things you say (or don't say) can be very hurtful. I get annoyed too that people are constantly putting these posts, but what does it matter? It doesn't personally affect your life, so why be so mean about it?
Honey, literally anything can be considered hurtful. Nobody is gonna walk on eggshells here to "not hurt people's feelings". If anything, they need to develop thicker skin. We've seen people here get all pissed off for someone saying they or something they said was silly. For real, TB isn't unicorns and rainbows.
And I agree. I'm not saying that everything someone says won't hurt someone's feelings, but when the first comment someone gets is NeNe Leakes rolling her eyes, it's just mean, not hurtful. At least put a link to all of the other 40 posts about bumps at 10 weeks.
I find it funny that white knight is being pissy with @HBirdie of all people in this post. I thought her response was the most snark-less of all of them.
I find it funny that white knight is being pissy with @HBirdie of all people in this post. I thought her response was the most snark-less of all of them.
Never said anything about her, never mentioned anyone in particular except for the first commenter. We started having a conversion about the post that I made, and the conversation developed from there.
I agree, she's most likely a troller, haha. But if y'all think that this community is bad about double posting, y'all need to check out "Glow Nurture" and look at the February 2016 board. It's SOOO much worse than this...and even worse, everyone agrees with them.
Considering that OP never came back and this is the third (fourth?) same exact post, I'm still thinking trolling.
Also, I stand by my opinion. She probably needs to poop.
OMG I was so bloated this morning and was thinking how hard my stomach felt. Cut to three hours later, went to the restroom (sorry a little TMI) but I'm pretty sure I lost 3 lbs. I feel like a new woman!
I find it funny that white knight is being pissy with @HBirdie of all people in this post. I thought her response was the most snark-less of all of them.
Ok I'm sorry I even posted anything. I didn't have the time to read through I was busy. I had a question and you guys don't even know me so why even post anything. This is why I never ask other women in the same position as me questions because they are always rude. Get a life.
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Re: Firm tummy
2. It's perfectly normal.
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1) you need to poop
2) you're totes having triplets
I'm going to go with #1. As a one time deal, this medical advice is on the house. You're welcome.
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Stage 2: ok people it's getting a little annoying. But I can deal.
Stage 3: OMG seriously people, ANOTHER bump post...
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Also, I stand by my opinion. She probably needs to poop.
I agree, but how many times have we told people to not post duplicate posts, myself included? People don't pay attention, but making fun of them is just going to make them feel like crap, not aid the situation in any way.
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There are hundreds of women on this posts. We have a handful that are frequent posters. The ones who post stuff like this, are the ones who never get on. It won't change anything, it's like kicking at a dead animal.
BFP 12/31/14, EDD 9/08/14 ~ Natural M/C 2/21/14 at 11.5 weeks
BFP 5/24/15 - EDD 2/4/16
Bunny: 10.9.13
Jellybean #2 Due: 2.1.16
F16 July Siggy Challenge: Favorite Summer Activity
Hiking and Baseball Games with the Fam
And I agree. I'm not saying that everything someone says won't hurt someone's feelings, but when the first comment someone gets is NeNe Leakes rolling her eyes, it's just mean, not hurtful. At least put a link to all of the other 40 posts about bumps at 10 weeks.
Never said anything about her, never mentioned anyone in particular except for the first commenter. We started having a conversion about the post that I made, and the conversation developed from there.
Yeah, no, but if people have the time to find gifs, they probably have time to find the links
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