August 2015 Moms

my birth story.

edited July 2015 in August 2015 Moms
Friday (35.5) I noticed through the day a very sudden change in movement. This baby is very active and by sat. Morning (yesterday) I began to feel concerned. I have read many things that say that movement can slow towards the end but I had a weird feeling and wanted to just be safe and call. I also had some minor contractions bit again, nothing crazy. So being its a weekend I get sent to labor and delivery for monitoring and they notice the baby isn't moving too much. But then he perked up. Went for an ultrasound and when I came back the doctor told me I passed the 8point test and should be going home shortly. So I ccqllee my mom and my fiancé (who was over 2,hours away ) that everything was fine, to not worry, and they just wanted to moniter me for a bit longer. So I'm surfing around on the bump and all of a sudden 4,nurses and a doctor came running into my room throwing an oxygen mask and throwing papers at me asking me to sign for a c-section! The baby's heart rate dropped and baby was in distress. I got on the phone and called mom who was about 20 min away and poor fiance who obviously was still so far :(. Within 15 min I'm in the OR , all alone, thank god I had a kick ass nurse who was seriously my angel. She held me while I got the shot in my spine. This was it. I was going to have this baby. Me myself and him. As I'm laying there , trying to be strong , feeling tons of pressure I hear my mommy's voice! She sat right up by my head and Kissee me and held my hand we were both in tears. 4 seconds later at 5:29,I heard the most beautiful cry I have ever heard. I immediately broke down. I didn't get to see him up close, but they put him on a table near me and all I saw was how perfect and pink and good he looked. 5 lbs. 11 oz. (Sonogram hours before said 5.09! SSo close) they unfortunetly only brought him to me for a few pics and kisses. And he was taken to nicu. His lungs are just premature and need TLC. Dan got to me about 10 min after i was brought to recovery. He got to go in and see him. Baby is already making huge progress. Its so sad to see him in all those wires. But I know he is in great hands. I cannot express the pain I felt physically after the numbness went away. Terrible. I got tonawe him twice last nite. I even got to pump and got a tiny bit of colostrum for him! But boy, was It horrible being seperated. I slept maybe 40 min. I finally got to thwbpoint where I could move into a wheelchair this morning and got to see him again. His breathing looked so much better and steady. I am hanging in there . anyone who WISHES for a c section
...don't. Worst pain I have ever been in in my life. So they basically told me if I didn't come In when I did, things would have possibly ended terribly. Crazy story, nothing what I had in mind, but seeing my little fighter, makes everything 100% okay. Ladies please listen to your instincts. CALL YOUR DOCTOR. Anyway, every hour that goes by he is getting stronger. I love him. So. Friggin. Much. As soon as I can promise I will get a picture on here. It won't load from my phone :( I am always on computer so I know and feel your pain that the phone doesn't work to load pics . love you all!!! Send prayers to Benjamin Leo Gold.
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  • Wow, what a birth story! I'm glad you didn't have to do it alone. Thinking of you and your DS, wishing you both a speedy recovery and hoping he'll be in your arms and you'll both be home soon!
  • You have me over here crying! DH thinks I'm a weirdo bursting into tears. So glad you went in and got checked! Prayers for you and little one
  • Omg! First off congratulations! I'm so happy to hear ur little man is doing well! And thank God u went in when u did. I can't imagine all the different emotions ur feeling. Ur a strong woman! Your both in my t&p. Keep us updated.
  • Congratulations!! Sending you and your family t&p
    Can't wait to see pictures!
  • Congratulations on your baby boy! I'm so glad they were able to catch the distress while you were there. Even though it wasn't what you planned, you still ended up with your sweet baby! Can't wait to see the pictures, and I hope you have a quick and easy recovery. Hang in there mama!
  • I am just glad you and baby are okay. C-sections are no joke, eh. I hope you recover smoothly and quickly and that baby gets stronger every day. Congratulations beautiful!
  • I am so happy for you and Congratulations! You are a strong woman and great Momma. Many positive prayers for your new family.
  • I'm so glad you're both ok. I can't imagine the worry you must have felt and it's so great that your mom got there just in time to be with you. Enjoy your new family and T&P's for speedy recoveries!
  • This made me cry! Thank goodness you went in when you did congrats to you and your family!
  • mrsb30mrsb30 member
    So glad you are both ok! Reading this made me cry! I'm glad you had a wonderful nurse and your mom got there just in time so you weren't alone!
  • I'm am so sorry you are enduring the pain, but so happy that all is well in the end. That is a special little dude for sure.
  • I'm so glad you are okay and so is he!
    Congrats!
  • Thank you so much for sharing!
    Sounds like the experience was very scary but I'm so glad your mom made it in time and your baby boy is okay. Thank God you listened to your body and got there in time! Wishing you the best (and now hoping beyond hope that I don't have to have a csection!)
  • Praying for your new bundle and thinking of you:)!!
  • You have me over here crying! DH thinks I'm a weirdo bursting into tears. So glad you went in and got checked! Prayers for you and little one

    I started crying also! Actually I still am. So glad you both are doing okay. A real lesson in paying attention to movement and trusting your instincts. Congrats again Mamma!!!!
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  • Congrats!! Crazy birth story for sure. So glad you made it to the hospital on time. Hoping for a quick recovery for you!
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  • joieadjoiead member
    Congratulations and thank you for reminding us all to listen to our bodies! I pray your son's NICU stay is short.
  • Congratulations! I hope you heal quickly and your babe is home soon! I love the name too
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  • Congratulations! So glad that you are both doing well. I was absolutely terrified for you thinking no one would be there and then started tearing up when you said you're mom showed up. (Having my mother be there would've been a nightmare, glad yours is different!)
  • So crazy! But Congrats:-) Thinking of you and your family. Hoping for a speedy recovery!
  • Congrats! A crazy birth story you can one day tell him :) best wishes for a speedy recovery

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  • Thank you for sharing your story! Looking forward to the happy ending where he is in your arms and you both are thriving.
  • So glad everything worked out for you two! So scary! Congratulations, and prayers for a speedy recovery!
  • Wow, you have me in tears. So glad you listened to your instincts. Praying for you and your family. Hope you have a speedy recovery & please keep us updated on you & baby when you get a chance. xo
  • Congratulations!! What a crazy day it must have been for you. Glad you're both doing fairly well, hopefully he won't have to stay in the hospital too long!
  • gulimzgulimz member
    Congrats! Wishing you and the babe a speedy recovery. Hopefully your pain goes away fast and babe gets out of NICU soon.
  • Keeping you guys in my thoughts!!! Your story made me tear up! So glad for your happy ending!!!
    Congratulations!!!!!!
  • Wow! What a story to tell LO when he grows up! T&P's for a quick NICU stay and a quick recovery.
  • Giiirrrll, you are my hero. It sounds like you handled things so well even being on your own, but im so glad your mom made it just in time!!! Benjamin is aborable! You are one tough momma, cant wait to have updates on you two. Congrats!!
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