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Alone with a room of people

lesnchristinalesnchristina member
in August 2015 Moms
Who else feels alone with a whole house full of people? No one understands how I feel, or why I am the way that I am. There are all if these "friends" that are Mia once your pregnant because I can't drink and they just want to bar hop. Just feeling lonely. Damn pregnancy hormones.
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Re: Alone with a room of people

  • 907_baby907_baby member
    Pregnancy hormones are a b*tch sometimes, and pregnancy does have a way of isolating you from people if you let it (so does parenthood). You aren't alone.

    Don't let this feeling go on. Find support, hopefully your DH or a family member is available. Talk to your OB or midwife if these feelings persist!
    Joey 06.05.2010, MC Jan 2014-EDD 09.11.2014, Aurelia 08.24.2015 (lost twin ~12 weeks), Ectopic Loss Feb 2016, EDD 01.03.2018
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  • carriebelle77carriebelle77 member
    It happens...time to make mommy friends. It's a bummer when all your friends are at a different stage and really don't get what you're going through. Give them a few years and they'll get pregnant....then you'll become the all-knowing guru of mommyhood! Sorry...I know it's tough!
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  • MouseMama817MouseMama817 member
    I had these exact feelings when I got married. A lot of my friends just dropped off the face of the Earth and it really hurt. I thought I was good for more than partying!
    With this new stage in my life I'm much less sensitive. By this point the majority of my friends are already married and have children so they've been where I am. But even if they weren't, I feel like my priorities have been completely rearranged. My husband and baby are the most important things in the world to me. If the people in my life can't appreciate that or disregard me because of it, well then I know who my real friends are don't I?
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  • lesnchristinalesnchristina member
    The thing is that most of my "friends" have kids, 6-12 years old which is great. I have two kids who are 7-8. I just find it rediculious that they are acting this way. No I do not want to go dancing at the bar. I am 34 weeks pregnant and feel miserable. My hubby is great but I know he misses hanging with the boys, because he won't leave me home...
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