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Dad's Girlfriend is causing issues!! (Rant)

mrstzouganosmrstzouganos member
edited July 2015 in September 2015 Moms
So my mom is throwing my baby shower with the help of my two sisters, they are all together working on it now and I first get a text from my sister telling me to stop talking to people about it then my mom sent one as well! I only know a few things about it, the date, time and place and what the menu is because I have GD and my mom wanted to make sure that I could eat what she planned on having! The only people I've talked about my shower with is my mom, one sister (not the one who text me) and my dads girlfriend. My dads girlfriend is a problem starter and has caused fights between my sister and I in the past, The worst part about this is that I didn't tell my dads girlfriend anything but that it wasn't a surprise. She twisted that so out of control that my mom and sister are fighting with me now. I am so ready to just never talk to her again! I am so over this crap and the drama that comes along with her! She is a total bitch! And the funny part is that she won't even be at my shower because she hates my mom! I don't even want a shower anymore, and I'm not even excited anymore! I don't know if it's my hormones or what but I'm really angry and upset at the same time!!
Thanks for letting me just vent....
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Re: Dad's Girlfriend is causing issues!! (Rant)

  • ken226ken226 member
    I am in your shoes but the difference is I don't communicate with my dads new wife only because how she treated my sister and I at their wedding last summer. She never included us and the wedding planner had us sit at table 19 and had no clue we were the grooms children.

    Now I'm pregnant and having a baby shower and my father is upset because my mother will not let him come. She said tell him to have his own shower if its that serious because he wants to invite his wife and my mother said she has nothing for the woman who doesn't acknowledge her children and believes my dad is a fool for allowing her to treat us that way.

    His wife never speaks to me or anything but has the nerve to ask me one day what can my son call her because she doesnt like grandma. I'm like lady who tf said my son was gonna call you anything you don't treat ME like family. Plus the day I told my father I was pregnant she jumped in and saw "eww" and " were not watching any kids" (she has no children). Luckily for once my dad said this is my grandson and I will watch him.

    I say work things out with your mom and sisters. That other woman is just a girlfriend she may not even last long but family is forever. I think your mom and sisters are very sweet to throw u a party. And I wouldn't say much to the girlfriend anymore. She showed her true colors and now you know who your dealing with. Best of luck Darling
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  • mrstzouganosmrstzouganos member
    @ken226 Thank you! You made me feel better!! I'm sorry that you have similar issues! Good luck and I wish you nothing but the best with your little one!
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  • J0C0TXJ0C0TX member
    Wow! You're getting it in all directions. Poor thing!!! I hope you can chat with your mom to clear the air (and duster too) then avoid the crazy chic as all she wants to do is cause trouble!!!
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