February 2016 Moms

Soooo grumpy and bitchy everthing my bf does pisses me off...

guys im SOoo moody he just does not get it we have fought 3 nights in a row...telll me this ends soon?:(

Re: Soooo grumpy and bitchy everthing my bf does pisses me off...

  • I feel your pain. My bf is pregnant stupid. I try not to get mad at him but to be honest I'm damn near homicidal due to these hormones.
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  • I know!!! But instead of understanding hes calling me crazy..psyco. Like that helps...ive spent the past two nights crying in bed ..now hes on the couch...:(
  • I try my best to think before I open a can of worms... Like am i just being hormonal? I pick and choose the battles. That being said he should be a little more understanding.
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  • Yeah i know:( i gotta reign it in a bit ...small things like leaving half empty pop cans on the counter omg or in the fridge ...ha
  • Hubby has finally learned to stop poking the tiger by saying like "You're crazy" "You're hormonal" and I try to not be a crazy psycho and just walk away. 
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  • Totally understand. We are on pregnancy number 3 and my DH is still clueless and we are fighting every other day and snipping at each other constantly. It's awful! It will get better and worse throughout pregnancy as hormones fluctuate and as he gets to understand that pregnancy has a huge impact on a woman. Just take a deep breath and try to do something together that makes you laugh. Go see a comedy, make some stupid jokes, it helps ease the tension sometimes and it may help provide that little bit of relief you both need.
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  • Ya'll have made me feel better! 

    I feel soooo mean and bad about how much he is getting on my nerves and doing things that turn me off. Poor guy, he's sweet and amazing! I have never been annoyed by him before. 

    This might be TMI (and Im not trying to be vulgar but it might help someone else to mention), but I told him how much his passing gas out loud grosses me out and turns me off. And I swear to you, the guy hasn't passed gas out loud in 2 days! How sweet is that? (I think he's also hoping for sex since we're on our longest dry spell ever...1 week, lol). He has also toned down his dirty-themed verbiage and jokes for me (former Marine, still in security work, so occupational side effect). 

    I know it is working better for me to pre-plan a short, mini conversation about what's bothering me and linking it to "being a turn off" and wording it clearly. Then he is not as attacked and he wants to help. But when I snap at him or say it in a more nagging way out of heat-of-the-moment annoyance, it isn't heard and just doesn't go so well. 
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  • You guys are awesome !! Makes me feel better too :) hopefully we can get past this ahah
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